My mother is the typical woman that seems soooo "nice" on the outside. She smiles at her job. But in reality shes a nacrissist, whenever shes in a bad mood she NEVER EVER questions why, no she blames and shames the family.

I had a very hard life because i got lyme disease. I treated it mostly myself and here is the same going on since ever: oh we dont have money to treat it - buys an iphone7. I never got compassion and while i have to stay here its all about "her" - i mostly never complain, and if i do shes saying "yeah im feeling bad too" - you can see shes such a nice person and so interested into you.

I can see her own mother was always saying that my dad is a fucking loser. I think she was right, although she must have done much damage herself to my mother.

How can a sane person hang out in life with a woman? I would have

I was abused by this in the past. My father is a fucking loser simp and ALL he does is do whatever (!) she says. It does not even matter if its stupid or not, he simply has to approve. So what she does when im not in the mood for talking is use him against me. He then comes into the room where im staying and says "we need to talk" and im thinking youre a fucking simp mangina with no balls or value in life. He never stood up for me nor does he know anything. He never came to any concert i played, knew nothing about me or friends.

My sister ended up having medical issues as well and i saw what they did: nothing.

Everytime, every fucking time the whole situation cools down, all people start to get along, my mum stirs up drama and blames me for (insert random shit) and becomes abusive and controling.

Since im MGTOW i ignore everything she does. I just dont talk to her. Then she writes stupid letters. I ignore those letters and throw em into the trash. I repeat, what a fucking mess