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Help with bossy family members (self.MGTOW)

beardedman11 が 投稿

So I have a specific situation and I was curious if any fellow mgtows could help me. I have several females in my family who are rather bossy when they have no right to be. I find it rather annoying and was wondering if anyone could help me with the things to do to negate such behavior.

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[–]MajorRobotnik 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Tell them to fuck off.

[–]Paladin2903 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (1子コメント)

My sister-in-law is a fake/semi-bossy cunt. She's some kind of financial director, so she thinks she's hot shit. She has that A-type personality where it makes it hard not to lure her onto a rooftop and throw her the fuck off.

She tried to boss me around when she first married my brother. I was quick to put her in her place, and now she never bothers me.

It's been years since that happened, so we get along much better now. I have to try and make an attempt, because I love my brother. However, I still don't really like her.

It's kind of like working with someone you don't like. You just have to make an attempt to get the job done, and keep the peace.

Anyway, she found out quickly to never boss me around, and if she REALLY needs help with something, to ask politely.

Women like this need to be put in their place, and quickly.

[–]scorched_throwaway 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

She has that A-type personality where it makes it hard not to lure her onto a rooftop and throw her the fuck off

somebody please grab the paddles, i'm fucking dyin here.. ROTFLMAO!!

[–]BSmith321 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Do you live under the same roof with them?

[–]scorched_throwaway 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (4子コメント)

those females are using their position within the family to take advantage of you, (trust me on this).

you need to stand your ground, no matter how nice and friendly they are and simply say, why me, followed by no.

..or you could just skip the formalities and say no, followed by fuck off.

[–]soullessgeth 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (3子コメント)

yeah, the point about family context is very relevant

[–]scorched_throwaway 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

i have to admit, i just went through this and it's harder than it seems, at first.

my advice, literally call them out, stand your ground and do not budge. why are you demanding i do x,y,z, why not you. i don't want to to. ask someone else.

you'll likely receive one of two responses, a shitty meltdown or a, hey i can't boss him around and there's nothing i can do about it.

if it's the second one, wait for more clever approaches and repeat what you did the first time, just not being a jerk, for the sake of being a jerk, i.e. it's your turn, type thing.

if it's the first, GTFO, avoid at all costs and provide nothing, nada, ziltch. disappear and disavow, as this is toxic! ..and no one needs that shit in their life..

[–]soullessgeth 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

i've gotten to the point where i avoid large portions of my family for this reason alone...

some women it's not even intentional, just purely their personality or reflex...it's absurd

[–]scorched_throwaway 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

i hear you!! i do the same. ..and learned a valuable lesson, in the last 3 days.

avoid those whom bring negativity to your life. no matter who!

welcome those whom bring positive.

watch out for agendas..

..and yes, some women can't help it.. biological imperatives or just insecure shitheads.

live life for you and remove anyone whom says otherwise..

it's your life, at some point and with enough belief in you, imagine what you could do..

[–]lonewolf-chicago 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You have to provide very specific examples.

[–]801735 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

This is where you start. Try to do all the vids, about 300 of them, but all important. Also, do your best to get over his PsychoTheRapist look or just close your eyes, but keep your ears open.

https://www.youtube.com/user/samvaknin/playlists