So... i just went through the experience of a first new year eve with friends as an MGTOW and from what i could tell it has been the best new years eve so far for me. It might be a cruel thing to say because of what i am going to say below but it is what it is and nothing can change that now.

First we started off the evening at about 19:00 with just me and one more friend we talked about general BS until another person from the company arrived. He started saying how bed he feels that he doesn't have a gf yet etc and that he feels lonely and wants a women next to him. He also said that he doesn't understand what is wrong with him and why are women avoiding him? Just to create some kind of a picture here the guy is working an average job like me making good $$ for our standard of living by fixing cars.

At that point i just interrupted the conversation and told him that 6 months ago i kept on hammering the same question and kept on wondering for years 'whats wrong with me?' until i discovered that the problem is really not within me as a person but with women and that he should put an end of this endless waves of self criticism and accept the fact that nothing is wrong with him or me per say we are just not rich or attractive enough and there is hardly anything we can do about it at this point of our lives.

To give a little bit of a background we are about 5-6/10 with middle income in our yearly/mid 30's. He shared an experience where a fat chick told him that there could be nothing between them but 'friendship' when she was an obese women with bad teeth and personality because she wanted someone who is atleast 8/10 and financially well. I tried to explain to the guy that this is evidence enough that the problem is not with him to which he said 'ohh i know when it comes to that chick the problem is not with me i mean i wasn't even interested in her!'

But let just put that aside. The main reason why my new years experience was so good was that every other year i was moping that there were so many couples around us in the club. There was a lot of young couples who seem to find their true love and enjoy themselves when in reality that is nothing more but BS! After the red pill and a couple of months of going through reddit/sandman i couldn't help myself but to enjoy the company of my friends the music the nice cigars i had for special occasion and the alcohol!

The problem not for me but for my company was that we had: 1. The chad guy! The fucking chick magnet! The guy that almost every chick in the company wanted to fuck which made the rest of us obsolete! I mean we could just leave and the other chicks in the company would be happier for it because we were in their way of getting to chad!

1. The desperate guy! The guy that wanted to get someone to hook up with because the last time he slept with a chick was 1 year ago+! (Do not get me wrong no judgment here!)

2. The clown! The guy that would do anything stupid but to attract female attention at his own expense just to be discarded 2 minutes later because he outlived his purpose!

4.The depressed guy! The guy that feels so unwanted/depressed that he doesn't even feel trying to talk tho those girls because deep down inside... he knows what the outcome is going to be!

1. The guy with the girlfriend! The guy who has a girlfriend who wouldn't let him move for more than 5 mins away from her because she needs his constant attention and compliments since she doesn't feel validated enough if he ignores her and goes for a chat with his pals.

2. The guy who recently went through a break up! That guy was just trying to nail everything that moves in order to fill that empty void in his soul!

All and all if you are in a big company of 10+ people i think you probably have 4 out of 6 of those people.

Now what really make me chuckle through out the evening was this! The chad brought his hot gf who brought her own girlfriend to keep her company! Now first the majority of the guys outside of the company were hitting on her instead of her friend which was just priceless!

But lets put that aside for a moment. Through out of the evening the clown, the desperate guy and the break up guy all went through chad's girlfriend's friend. Guess what the outcome was? If you said they were ignored you were right! Do you know why? Because through out the evening the only person that she was looking at was chad and she wanted NOONE ELSE Near her but him! Which i found just hilarious since he is 9/10 and she is at the very best 6! All those guys went through the effort of give her a validation and make her feel better about herself just so she can ignore their advances and think to herself 'yeah i deserve better than you i deserve chad!' Worst thing is that Chad is her girlfriend's boyfriend which is priceless!

With that being said there was another single woman in the company who is 1 m 90 cm volleyball player who is 7-8/10. So the break up guy approaches me and asked me 'Whats her deal?' to which i responded honestly 'Dude don't bother she is looking for someone who earns more than her(she is with mid/high income)and is taller than her which means you are out of the race before it even begins!' he had none of those features.

He ignored my advice and went for it after an hour of trying to star a conversation of any sort he comes to me and says 'WTF dude she can't even have a simple conversation with me for 5 mins!!!?!' To which i chuckled and replied 'Yeah well i told you not to bother what do you want me to tell you! :) ' He just took his glass up said cheers and drink the whole glass in one go.

All that just made me realize how better off i am right now! I might not feel perfect because i know for a fact that i felt happier moments in my life but this...this is by far the happiest new years eve i had EVER had! And that is hardly exaggeration! The music was good the drinks kept on coming the company was fine there was plenty of 'entertainment' unfortunately at someone Else's expense but all that made me realize how much happier i was now compared to every other new years eve where i couldn't even stand until 2-3 am in the morning! This time around i was begging my friends to stay for more 5:30 am in the morning to which they replied that they can't since they were too tired!

Bottom line! Fuck womyn and fuck relationships! The amount of misery that others went through reminded me of nothing more but to show me how unhappy i was before because i 'needed' women validation of any sort!

What about your stories? Care to share your experiences and what you took from new years eve? :)

Thank you for listening !