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PhilosophyYou don't need to be loved (self.MGTOW)

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Men are weak these days, very needy, they were brainwashed by parents and media they need to be loved to be happy, which is bullshit. No one can love you or care about you (or at least fake they do) but you can still be very happy. You also dont need to love anybody esp. female. Its all optional. If you land on island with no people, there would nobody to love you or nobody to love but you could still be happy.

Happiness may come from many sources. Needy men who believe they must be in love and love woman will most probably attract misery to their lives because women hate and despise needy men, well, females want to need you and not you to need them.

Life is fun, find many ways to make yourself happy, there is no reason to be upset someone is 'loved'. Love is transactional and not forever, as soon these 'lucky' men lose love magnet be it health,status or money female love is gone and they are crushed because they were never prepared to life without pink glasses. They lose sense of life because nobody told them they dont need to be loved or validated by female to feel happy. It's pleasant and fuzzy to feel you are loved but it is absolutely not needed.

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[–]ThisAdorableSOB 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Yeah man, tell me more. Some of us have been conditioned to feel that way and it is hard to break the conditioning. It's become our default. The standard.

Others have had a wildly different upbringing, which has led to more of an independence. Do you take that for granted?

I'd argue that even though you find it easy to judge men like that, you can't know what it's like unless you've transitioned from one to the other. If you (or anyone else reading this) has made the transition - what actions did you take?

[–]BSmith321 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I was raised with the "Disney Princess movies". Thought that "soulmates" existed, etc, etc, etc. It's all hogwash. There isn't "someone for everyone", "The Right one", blah, blah, blah. Through suffering and pain is how I made the transition...same as many/most others. We didn't have the internet, global communications, MGTOW.com, reddit, Sandman, etc, etc, etc.

I can say that I am much more at peace with all of this today thanks to all of that (Internet and the MGTOW community). Unfortunately, I do not think I would have really figured it out, if it wasn't for the internet. I think I would have been stuck in the world of make-believe that we are raised in. Don't get me wrong, I learned/realized enough about women and society to back out and go Galt/Ghost, but too much of the inner-turmoil was still there. I still struggle a little, but recently (last 6 months or so) I have more issues with the BP manginas and society generally, than where women are concerned. I could probably get laid tonight. Definitely within the next few days, if I wanted. Yet, I don't really have any interest in being a dancing monkey, jumping through hoops, giving out my personal information...all of those things have become a turn-OFF for me. Then there's HPV, HIV, Herpes, Anti-biotic resistant gonorrhea, syphilis, and Chlamydia. Geez, it just never ends the load of bullshit that it has all become.

The juice just ain't worth the squeeze...