Men are weak these days, very needy, they were brainwashed by parents and media they need to be loved to be happy, which is bullshit. No one can love you or care about you (or at least fake they do) but you can still be very happy. You also dont need to love anybody esp. female. Its all optional. If you land on island with no people, there would nobody to love you or nobody to love but you could still be happy.

Happiness may come from many sources. Needy men who believe they must be in love and love woman will most probably attract misery to their lives because women hate and despise needy men, well, females want to need you and not you to need them.

Life is fun, find many ways to make yourself happy, there is no reason to be upset someone is 'loved'. Love is transactional and not forever, as soon these 'lucky' men lose love magnet be it health,status or money female love is gone and they are crushed because they were never prepared to life without pink glasses. They lose sense of life because nobody told them they dont need to be loved or validated by female to feel happy. It's pleasant and fuzzy to feel you are loved but it is absolutely not needed.