Okay so, here we go!

I just got this message that I'd like to break down here rather than simply on my inbox because it's fucking ridiculous.

I fucking hate how easy women have it.

Funny because I'm a middle eastern woman who comes from a country where girls get killed in honor crimes (a headline we had to read about 5 times in a month here), where patriarchy and traditions limit my freedom and movement, and where many of my female friends are being locked away and imprisoned at home by their parents for seeking freedom, having a boyfriend, holding a job the parents didn't know about, being LGBT+, you name it.

They can go on Tinder and swipe right on any guy and get a match. They have the power to accept or reject a guy. If one guy doesn't work out, they always have other options.

Yes because all my problems as a women revolve around who I get to fuck this evening for casual sex. I'm not really into Tinder, never had to use it, but it seems silly to assume that just because women are getting more matches on Tinder, that I have it easier as a woman anywhere in the world... with the swipe of a finger!

They can make a post on any of the subreddits looking for a guy and their inbox will be flooded. If a guy were to post on one of these subs, they'd get absolutely nothing.

Yes, sure, a woman on reddit asking for a date will get a bunch of messages real quick, but try being a woman trying to make a statement or discuss shit on social media platform where her gender is evident in her name, see how that goes. When I was, for a while, very interested in theological and philosophical discussions, I HAD TO CREATE A FAKE MALE ACCOUNT ON FACEBOOK to share my ideas without having my inbox flooded with dick pics. How is that equality?

They can go on websites like Couchsurfing and be inundated with offers whereas a guy will struggle.

I didn't know unsolicited dick pics were meant as offers, but okay.

They don't have to risk rejection and approach guys- they will always be approached and expect to be approached. So much for believing in equality.

Let me make something clear for you twats out there. You don't even know rejection on any other level than the sexual one. Rejection from a job, from a community, from an entire society or notion - political rejection, religious rejection, that doesn't seem to ring a bell for you but it does for many other people and especially women out there. Equality does not mean we want to have more men hit on us on the streets (the equivalent of what a RPiller would call "being approached"), but the freedom to walk a street one day without constant catcalls, without weird looks, without living in an unending constant race to getting laid (or being forced to, manipulated, drugged, or raped).

All they have to do is look pretty and guys will hit on them.

I'm not the kind of women that's into makeup, and I don't hate on women who like it. Anyway, on my graduation day, I made the extra effort to look nice because I was being given an award for being an honor student and being the Valedictorian of my department. So I put on a dress, got my friend to help me with hair and makeup. The 15 minutes walk from my car to the ceremony was PAINFUL. I was being hit on, getting creepy looks from people some of who were catcalling and others who were disapproving of a woman dressing that way. I DIDN'T dress that way to impress anyone, or get guys, but simply because it was a special day for me and I wanted good graduation pictures to keep. Fuck you. The only day I walk out of the house not in a black hoodie and combat boots that's supposed to be especially mine is the day I got hit on the most (other days were no exception, because many men here like to act like pigs).

They have the option of being a 'modern' woman - who works 9 to 5 or a 'traditional' woman who stays home and looks after the kids and people wont bat an eye. A guy stays home and looks after kids are seen as weak and disgraceful, even by women. Even women don't find that attractive.

Options for me as a woman were limited. Either I submit to the traditional life and get married to a man I'll only get to truly know after marriage, or I decide to live my life on my own terms but by paying a terrible price: respect from society. That is why, despite being an accomplished honor student and holding a steady job after graduation as a teacher in a prestigious school, I am still ridiculous, frowned upon, and constantly forced to re-state and prove myself over and over and over again because men like you don't see anything beyond a date and a one-night-stand in me.

I hate how women harp on about equality and its importance yet will not date someone shorter than them because they want to feel protected.

Gross generalization.

They get to fuck men over in divorce. Judges frequently grant custody to the mother just because she is a woman.

Yes, only that doesn't even happen in many countries. Where I live, men and women are given custody over what age the children are, and women are later shamed (rather than rich), ending up without job experience or a career, often banished back into their parents' house because it's shameful to be divorced here. BELIEVE IT OR NOT, on some parts of the globe, women still struggle for basic freedoms, for freedom to speak and move, for freedom to see their children, have independent living, or be allowed to have education keep their jobs.

I hate how they claim to all want nice, polite and respectful guys yet what they really want is an assertive guy who will kiss them without their permission. And yet they will never let this be known.

This is ridiculous in every sense of the word for any woman who was sexually assaulted or raped before. I wish this for no one, even you. I wish it upon no one that your dentist starts groping your private parts while holding a needle in your mouth where you can't scream or react at the age of 16. I hope no guy or girl or living thing ever mixes your drinks and takes you to an unknown location to get an unsolicited kiss. I hope you never get raped against your will, because these things happen and they aren't what any human being wants. But you're too sick to realize that.

The respectful guy then gets told some shit like "it's not you, it's me" while the assertive bad-boy gets to fuck her.

I wish I knew what a "bad-boy" is exactly. Is that like the first guy I dated when I was 17 and lost my virginity to, who told me to get out of bed the moment we were done? Who tricked me into liking him by taking me out then guilt-tripped me into believing that he needs sex so bad or will kill himself? Who used to sing in a band and has a loadshit of money an addiction on pills? No, honey. That wasn't pleasant... it was taking advantage.

I hate how Donald Trump is right - that if you are rich and famous, women will let you grab them by the pussy and they wont care because you are high status.

Yeah, okay, not even going to comment on this one.

Women's disgust is only reserved for low ranking males and will chide them for even thinking that they have a chance with her. I hate how even after so many advantages, they complain about mansplaining and being hit on by guys they don't like.

I hope you don't get hit on by a man you don't like (assuming you're straight), and having him follow you with his car to your house, and then spending a couple of days stalking you, asking you out and randomly showing you his private parts. Let's see if you like that.