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Want to MGTOW, Don't want to CUCK (self.MGTOW)

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I'm not MGTOW, but I'm working on getting there. I'm posting to try and get some help and perspective.

If you asked anyone who knows my wife and I, they would all say that no one controls me. My wife of 11 years tries, but I shut that shit right down. I make the money, she cooks, cleans and cares for the kids.

She has no skills and only wants to have more kids - just to further her own cushy lifestyle. I had a vasectomy 6 years ago and I lied to her for about 5 acting like I was sorry I did it. This last year I stopped lying and told her it would never be reversed.

I've read "The Manipulated Man", and that helped me see what she has been trying to make me do and why she is so desperate for more kids. Fuck that.

We got married young (18+19 non-military) and had kids young because we thought it would be nice to have no kids in the house in our 40's. I know, I'm a dumbass.

Here is where I need help. I want to be on my own. I don't mind my boys, but I am sick of dealing with her and her shit. I absolutely know my quality of life would improve significantly.

I'm on the fence now for one reason: I know she will remarry and then some fucking dick will be involved with my two kids at least 50 percent of the time. I really don't like that and I feel like I would be a cuck for allowing some man to come in and influence them.

I'm looking for perspective around that. What do you guys think? How has that worked out for the guys who are divorced with kids who are now MGTOW?

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[–]good_man_gone 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Fuck that. I want to be on my own

It aint that simple sir. You made up your mind about this whole deal and you want out, right?

You will have all the guy support which you can possibly get on this part of the internet. 100% no doubt. But you sir absolutely must talk to a lawyer to get a realistic legal perspective on your individual situation.

By how you described your wife

She has no skills and only wants to have more kids - just to further her own cushy lifestyle

there is a big possibility that she'll want to take you to the cleaners and take your money and belongings if given the legal oportunity.

All the best to you!

[–]Eyes_Of_The_Dragon 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

My ex has not remarried and doesn't even have a steady boyfriend that I can tell. The kids have never met anyone she was dating. But we're in our 40s.

As far as a new guy coming in, don't underestimate the power of "You're not my dad!" If you have a strong bond with your kids, that won't go away when she's with someone new.

And if she's desperate for more babies, she's going to have them with your consent or not, and you're on the hook as long as you're legally her husband.

[–]Folwart 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I would look into building a case for full custody. It is rarer for men, but does happen. Like the other poster said, professional legal advice should be sought.

As far as MGTOW, some self proclaimed purists say that you can't be married and MGTOW. They aren't a rational bunch. There is a period of time between one awakening and escaping tgere situation wherein their mindset is of a MGHOW. GYOW is a mindset, it only requires your own firm internal commitment to change the way you think and behave, to not live the life you have been living anymore and building the one you do want.