I'm not MGTOW, but I'm working on getting there. I'm posting to try and get some help and perspective.

If you asked anyone who knows my wife and I, they would all say that no one controls me. My wife of 11 years tries, but I shut that shit right down. I make the money, she cooks, cleans and cares for the kids.

She has no skills and only wants to have more kids - just to further her own cushy lifestyle. I had a vasectomy 6 years ago and I lied to her for about 5 acting like I was sorry I did it. This last year I stopped lying and told her it would never be reversed.

I've read "The Manipulated Man", and that helped me see what she has been trying to make me do and why she is so desperate for more kids. Fuck that.

We got married young (18+19 non-military) and had kids young because we thought it would be nice to have no kids in the house in our 40's. I know, I'm a dumbass.

Here is where I need help. I want to be on my own. I don't mind my boys, but I am sick of dealing with her and her shit. I absolutely know my quality of life would improve significantly.

I'm on the fence now for one reason: I know she will remarry and then some fucking dick will be involved with my two kids at least 50 percent of the time. I really don't like that and I feel like I would be a cuck for allowing some man to come in and influence them.

I'm looking for perspective around that. What do you guys think? How has that worked out for the guys who are divorced with kids who are now MGTOW?