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Wishing for RP this Christmas (self.marriedredpill)

CaptainWasHereMRP Approved / MRP Diplomat が 投稿

Thank you everyone that contributes to this sub. It changed my life and I hope it changes yours.

This Christmas was spent with both my older sisters (late 30s) and their families. They were in charge while I was just a passenger. Neither of the husbands are unplugged.

It was a mess for many reasons.

  • no real agenda. Everyone always asking, "what's next? What's the plan?" Neither husband took charge and got it done.
  • both sisters are responsible for handling the family money. One gets whacked for over spending even though she's the frugal one in the relationship. He just likes to place the blame.
  • neither husband lifts or works out at all.
  • neither husband would stand up and make decisions. Everyone was looking for guidance.
  • one husband literally pouted half the day forcing my sister to make excuses for him for why he disappeared.

Sitting back and silently observing the personalities and chaos was amazing. I saw a professionally successful man pout all day and ruin Christmas for my sis. And another professionally lazy man watch as the kids opened up presents that my sister made happen (he makes a lot less). Both my sisters confided in me about the resentments they feel.

BOTH sisters and my parents asked me to talk with the husbands about RP. They know a little about it and know that it changed me virtually overnight. They don't think it's misogynistic and demeaning. They both are longing for a leader of the household.

Be. A. MAN! Stick with RP! It's hard. It's lonely. But it's the only way to be a MAN in a world full of boys pretending.

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[–]weakandsensitive 16 ポイント17 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Hahaha.

Red knighting is dangerous. Proceed with caution.

You can't help those who don't want to help themselves.

[–]Mecha75 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Yeah. I told a colleague at work about TRP because he was complaining openly about this girl he is orbiting (its a weekly rant). I liked the guy so i thought i would point him the right direction. He hasnt bothered reading any of the material and tried to use my red pilled ass as the butt of his jokes. Better to let them find (or not find) TRP on their own.

[–]Aechzen 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

The only way he'll really take it seriously is when some RP guy shows up with the orbitee and takes her to bed the same night he meets her. Then maybe he'll get what he's doing wrong.

[–]Mecha75 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Dont matter to me. He aint my problem to fix.

[–]ParadoxThatDrivesUs 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (7子コメント)

I know the world doesn't work this way, but I'm not sure why: Why can't your sister take her husband aside and tell him, "You're turning into a pussy and I'm about to lose what little sexual attraction I have left for you. For both our sakes, please man up."

[–]animalapemachine 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (3子コメント)

The way i understand it, "man up," is shaming language women use to manipulate men into serving their needs. My former spouse was axept at it. Rational Male wrote something about that dynamic in the first book but i don't recall the quote.

[–]GargantuaBlarg29MRP APPROVED 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (2子コメント)

I think the general idea Rollo talked about was: In a woman's mind, guys just need to just 'get it'.

[–]bogeyd6MRP MODERATOR 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Also, a woman cant figure out where to go or what to order for food. Now you are asking her a complex question on her emotions. Good luck.

I've often thought, what is it about pussy that I like so much? Can you actually describe why?

[–]GargantuaBlarg29MRP APPROVED [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

My dick fits in there pretty nicely. Although I suppose this goes for other things too.....brb

[–]black_second_coming 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

This is covered in MMSL, basically she won't ever do that because that's how women are wired. Instead she will continue to resent him and be completely turned off until another more capable man comes along and takes her reins.

[–]ParadoxThatDrivesUs 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Yeah, I know. My question was mostly rhetorical, but in this case it all seems a bit absurd. She won't say these words. Instead, she'll ask her brother to recommend a book to her husband that contains these words.

[–]GongShanks 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

And even then it will be simply her leading (again). It won't be genuine in her mind or his. It will all feel like a sham for at least a couple years (if they can make it that long without calling it quits or reverting back to blue pill mode).

[–]ScurvemuchMRP APPROVED 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

At other peoples homes, at parties or family get togethers, I often wind up simply proving some leadership for the girls because its easier. The guys can either resent it or learn from it. Not my circus, not my monkeys.

brag: last week at a christmas get together at a neighbors house there was a hot yoga type mom and her two daughters and her Fat, loud, businessman husband. By the middle of the evening her and her girls were picking up dirty dishes from in front of me, all sorts of little things, 18yo daughter back from college sat on my lap(!)... a bit weird when her dad is there, and always asking if I wanted anything else. This being my neighborhood, I declined. Point is, just lead a LITTLE. it helps and makes these otherwise painful to watch events tolerable.

[–]screechhater 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Take them out for a drink. Each one and tell them like it is. Seriously. I told my brother in law. He manned the fuck up, got a better paying job, she quit her job to stay home with the kids and apparently no fucks the hell out of my sis in law. As a matter of fact he winked at me the last time he visited with the kids and asked if I could take his kids to the park with mine so he could release some tension and that he she would trade me

[–]GargantuaBlarg29MRP APPROVED 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Problem is it's the women that want the guys to change. If the guys have no incentive to improve, if they see no problem, they'll continue to laze off during the marriage as the girl dries up, then try choreplay as the girl starts checking out.

He could try red knighting...but like they say: theres no better way to convince someone thats theyre right than to tell them theyre wrong.

[–]Aechzen 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

If the women really want that, there's NMMNG and MMSLP. Those are both gentle introductions that can be treated independently or lead into MRP.

MMSLP and Pook were enough early on to convince me to lift.

[–]ParadoxThatDrivesUs 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Agree that MMSL is a good book that stands on its own. Might be a little weird though because it's built around getting more sex from your wife (i.e., OPs sisters).

[–]Aechzen [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Eh it's already weird that the sisters and the brother are talking about it.

I think it's all connected. In my experience, women would happily trade more sex for more alpha.