New to the sub. This was so accurate to my last relationship. Turning 40 in a couple months and decided I'm burnt out in trying. It's always the same thing. This time even from a girl living in another country where I thought the culture was different. I haven't earned the right to call myself a member here, but I know from what I discovered and read today it's the first time in a long time I haven't felt depressed and hopeless and actually feel some relief and hope for a future. I'm intrigued and enjoying learning here.