The role of life-long provisioner to hypergamous women is another oft spoken of reason for men going their own way. The context of the scenario being spoken of is that some women are deliberately using men as a way to provision for them and their children for life, in a type of pre-meditated and cold rationalization of choosing any man who may be best suited to this role and in relation to the individual woman’s place in her own life.
This can happen in several different ways, though the most often discussed are three; the first is that a woman who may go from badboy to badboy to badboy in her youth, and will eventually have children with one of those badboys, who will of course be a bad husband and father. The second is that that same woman will later go looking for what is termed a ‘beta’ man, which is a reliable and good decent man who can provide reliably for a family, and this woman will then use this man to provide for her and her children to another man, while not really caring for him but instead uses him for this purpose of cuckoldry. Third is the woman type who once again fleets about on the badboy man carousel in her youth, and who all along is planning to once again find that perfect man provider who is decent and kind and earns enough for provisioning, whom she envisions she will have children with once her party days are over and her youth and good looks are gone.
MGTOW Waking Up To Reality
Men have been waking up to this new reality for some time now, and MGTOW are the epitome of this awakening to the hypergamous life plan that many women now have, and who openly confess to having {often termed as 'open hypergamy'}.
From young men coming of age, to the men of their youth, to the middle aged man, to the ageing man, from the meek to the bold, both the upright and the chads, all are seeing this new reality before their eyes, and the men going their own way are rejecting all of it.
These men are fully aware and knowing that a woman in this age is likely interviewing him for a job as a lifelong provider to her, and whatever children she has already had or plans to have. That she will not be viewing this coupling as a loving relationship of two, and of the two having a family together; but as the man being given a role to provide ongoing resources which will make her plan viable.
No matter whether the man stays as a lifelong provider within the family unit, or is later tossed aside for whatever frivolous reasons are imagined at the time, or whether it’s time for her to get back on the man carousel, or if she has already hooked up with another man she wants more in that moment to keep her company… once the children are born or the husband has accepted financial responsibility for the children which are not his, this husband is then locked in as a provider for decades to her, whereby she can syphon off his earnings via the child support system, or worse yet she may have him provision for her for life in states that have alimony.
What’s more is that she can then often get a free house and other substantial gains that are taken from her husband by the state and handed over to her with almost no effort on her behalf, except to maintain her own steadfastness in the cruelty.
The Coldhearted Deliberateness To Secure A Beta Provider For Life
Most men going their own way usually agree and believe that the majority of women now operate on this game plan of using men in this cold and deliberate fashion. That the majority of women are now specifically and methodically working to this plan.
A plan of fun times with trashy worthless men in their youth, sometimes having children by them, and then locking in a provider man who will provision her with cash and assets later in life when she is ready to ‘settle down’ and have a family with a ‘good man’. And a plan which may or may not already include the possibility of cuckolding the husband if she chooses to practice adultery and have children to other men who are not her husband, whom the husband will also be financially liable for.
MGTOW however, are not only aware of this plan to trap them in this role, they also realize that this entire plan hinges on one single factor: finding a man who is willing to participate in this plan. Which in this modern day is becoming so much more difficult as the knowledge of this game plan that many women have is coming to light more and more, and as more men are awakened to this reality.
MGTOW are refusing this role. They know the game and they choose not to participate. Neither do they want women as wives and mothers to their children who had spent their years of youth bed hopping amongst low life chads.
Other men who may not call themselves MGTOW or who have never heard of the term or movement, are also awakening to this game plan, and are refusing to be trapped by it.
Which is leaving more women who have had those dreams shattered as they continue to age and find it more difficult each year to secure a man to marry or who is willing to have children with her. And worse yet is the fact that all those young men who chased after her in her youth have also vanished as she has aged. And now so many women are finding themselves alone and childless, with their plans of ‘having it all’ turning out to be the biggest lie they’ve ever been told. Instead they lost everything of value in this world, a good husband and family, and a home and life of happy memories.
Being Sensible and Aware Of Modern Hypergamous Truth
The truth of good men is that they have always been willing to work as hard as necessary in providing for their families, and have since the dawn of time given their lives in protection of their wives and families. This is deeply ingrained masculine behavior, and man hasn’t changed one iota in the past 6,000 years, and he will never change in this respect.
What has changed however, is modern cultural attitudes towards marriage and family.
And this is what so many men, MGTOW especially, have now adapted to.
What once started out as the very normal innate nature of a woman to find a good man to marry who is able to provide for and protect his family, has grown into a monster in this modern culture. Where it has become a cold, calculating, deliberate game plan which can span the entire youth of a woman to party with limitless men, with a deliberate intention to later find one of those same ‘good men’ who can provide for and protect his family; just in time before her fertility ends and before the last of her beauty vanishes forever. A game plan which is void of love or devotion, but which is often fuelled by and crafted by manipulation to coldheartedly lock in a man to provision for her for life.
MGTOW, being aware of this modern feminine prerogative in these times, have adapted, and are saying no thank you. No to being that lock-in masculine provider to her, no to being the good man at age 38, no to providing for other men’s children, no giving away all they have worked for and will work for to a woman who is deliberately using him for this sole purpose.
And for these men who are opting out, MGTOW or not, the real kick in the pants with all of this modern hypergamous scenario, is that it is not even being hidden by women. It is being discussed openly in womens magazines and all over the internet. The latest celebrity marriages which break up after a short period and end up with the husband handing over vast amounts of his fortunes to a woman who did not work for it or earn it, and who contributed nothing to that wealth at all; scream loudly to every sensible man in the world to stay away and never get married in this present age.
Women who are deliberately and coldheartedly securing a man to provision for her, for life: MGTOW say no thank you ma’am. They do everything necessary to ensure they are not ‘accidentally’ put into this role by any woman, and they avoid every risk which could land them in this ‘beta provider’ role.