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Ghosting versus putting yourself out there. (self.MGTOW)

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I work with a few MGTOW, and they claim ghosting is no real way to go.

Looking for experiences in both.

They claim that ghosting is too shut out, and you can waste conversational skills, and should you later choose to not ghost, it is difficult to re-assimilate.

They say the best way to go is to put yourself out there, and let the women find you. You pick and choose who to talk to, when to talk to them, and where you decide to (if you choose) meet them. This way you are still in practice of valuable conversation.

Your thoughts?

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[–]good_man_gone 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (3子コメント)

They say the best way to go is to put yourself out there, and let the women find you.

I'm certainly not living in fantasy land and I find it hard to believe that any mgtow would give you such advice.

I used to put myself out there and got mostly psychotic bitches in return. No thanks pal.

Do yourself a favour and dont listen to your "mgtow" friends because they clearly confuse being social and not socially awkward with being an idiot.

[–]sevenfacedsin[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

They made valid points. One guy has been flying solo for about 12 years, but has gone out with ladies in the meantime. He just hasn't found one worth a damn.

I guess they are looking at it from a communication/networking perspective.

So what do you say/do, ghost?

[–]good_man_gone 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

...gone out with ladies...

Have you been with chicks, pardon ladies?

[–]sevenfacedsin[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yeah. 3. Didn't see anyone for 14 years due to a LTR.

[–]DigitalDegenerate614 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Always ghost them. Responding to a bitch after pumping will always lead you down a road to your own eventual demise.

[–]sevenfacedsin[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

The ghosting they and I refer to is complete societal disconnect and drop out, not some silent treatment aimed at bitches.