So a girl i knew very well, had sex with and all that - we almost had a relation and in my opinion she tryed to lure me in for a long time without saying it - she bombed/shit tested me in the WORST way possible.

She said she would come to my birthday, asked for the place/adress and what happend? Nothing. She didnt come. When i asked her why she couldnt make it she gave me some bullshit because we had a minor disagreement weeks ago. She just wrote some robotic birthday message on my phone and thats it.

I was like: what the actual fuck. Of course she in the meantime when i didnt see her for 3 months had some weak other loses which she could trade up to because he had weed.

So she had birthday and i didnt send her any message or anything at all. I did it because of self respect, i said to myself "you wont be that guy that sends her now all the best despite what happend"... What happend? She FREAKED THE FUCK OUT. Like saying "yeah thank you a lot for the birthday wishes" and then getting rude.

I then told her that she should probably check out what she did and why she would bomb a birthday of an otherwise good relation in that way with a weak excuse and expect me not ot get angry if she still gives me stupid bullshit - she took like 0% response to that and was like FUCK YOU FUCK OFF and gave me the silent treatment - i laughed my ass off.

Pathetic how they intentionally hurt others but cant deal with it if you use it on them.