How would you react if you found out your child was gay?

texan_Tussler · 1日前

I would remove him/her from my will, I would still love them, but I wouldn't provide any financial support to a dead end.

Nappyboy1769 · 1日前

I would probably cry.

notagayguy69 · 23時間前

I'd be extremely disappointed and feel as if I failed as a parent.

_Emperor-Trump_ · 19時間前

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Trump_is_Christ · 23時間前

Would tell him/her to figure out a way to give me biological grand children if they want to stay in the will.

Lolercausted · 19時間前

Electroshock therapy. Turn that fruit into a vegetable.

Black_knight4449 · 23時間前

I'd give them love and support and encourage them to not hate themselves for it, as many parents do the opposite.

THAT-IS-NEAT · 19時間前

I see a lot of the answers here have to do with continuing the family line. Is it safe to assume that the main driving force for people in the alt-right movement to have a family is to pass on your genetic material?

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Maxwyfe · 19時間前

I honestly wouldn't care. My hypothetical children can be who they want. My bedroom is none of their business and once they are out of my house, their bedroom is none of mine.

I do have a (step)son who is straight. He is married to a woman and they have 4 children between them (her two + his one + their one). I briefly wondered when he was a child how we would handle things if he were homosexual; but when he knocked up his first girlfriend almost as soon as his balls dropped, it became clear that wasn't going to be an issue.

kurokamifr · 21時間前

helicopter ride

nah i would just disown him unless he have a child

i dislike sterile sexual relation for hereditary reason

Secularizt · 16時間前

I don't think I would care really. I'd support them nonetheless.

mustardtastesgood2 · 1日前

I will support him and tell him to never be afraid of expressing himself as long as his action do not hurt others, because we live in a free country.

Finop · 12時間前

I only want children that won't be dead ends. Say the motherfuckers that are still looking to get laid

sizzletron · 19時間前

Well there's two schools of thought from where I sit:

1) You're born that way.

or

2) You're raised that way.

Permissiveness as a parent can lead all sorts of places. Clear stewardship has far fewer pitfalls. Advising your children to avoid problems is a thing, too.

tinted_blue · 19時間前

I'd describe myself and the majority of the alt right ideologically as something like a philosophical evolutionist, in that the only will imposed on man is to fulfill our duty as a member of our species (or race, whatever you want) by means of A. procreation and B. survival, by means of self sustenance, by means of power. You see this with a lot of NatSocs and 1488ers, e.g. large emphasis on the traditional nuclear familial unit and on family, as well as the 14 word creed.

So, obviously, my kid being gay would be a direct impairment to carrying on my genetic lineage, which is the one and only scientifically objective responsibility I have as an organism. So the logical solution is to make another kid. And, of course, cut my flow of resources towards my gay kid, e.g. if they're an adult kicking them out of my house and not supporting them financially. Am I a "bad" person for doing that? No, I wouldn't say so.

Morality is very largely subjective and built on our own subjective perceptions of how we perceive society, which, in and of itself, is simply an extension of basic programmed human behavior and instinct. The most objective measure of morality, then, is the alignment of an action with our only actual factual responsibility as living things- the propagation of our kind. So there's no moral inclination (just the opposite, in fact) for me to continue draining resources in a child that fails it's literal only purpose as a living thing. That'd be like burning money. And what I'm saying, I believe, is more correct than the leftist lie of compassion. We don't exist to be nice.

WyvernGuildOfAlbion · 18時間前

I think you're going to get a variety of answers for this one.

If my son was just gay? Honestly, I wouldn't care. I would be dissapointed about not having grandkids, but I also wouldn't cut him off for it.

If he wanted to dye his hair rainbow, or prance around at a pride parade, or change his gender, then I would either get him therapy or make him dig a ditch. Either way, he's gonna be a man.

BeeTeaEffOhh · 17時間前

First: NOOOOOOOOOOooooOoOoooooOoooo!

Second: I'd talk to them about their options. Mainly that just because one is naturally attracted to the same sex doesn't mean one has to act on those feelings. I am naturally attracted to donuts, but I can refrain from eating them.

I would probably encourage them to take one of two options.

1: The preferable option would be to still pursue having a family. The key is to do this openly and honestly by marrying someone of the opposite sex, most likely someone who has a similar predilection. Just because you have same sex urges doesn't mean you can't enter into a stable, marital union with someone of the opposite sex. Someone you like, respect and are compatible with in regards to life goals, values, culture.

The key would be to be open with this person about your attraction to the same sex and your lack thereof to the opposite sex. But plenty of successful marriages have been had that didn't have sexual attraction as a component. So I don't see why this wouldn't be possible.

2: The second option if they think they really couldn't pull off the first would be to dedicate themselves to something. Whether that's dedicating themselves to helping out their siblings and their families, like a live in or close by aunt/uncle who can contribute to the raising of nieces and nephews. Or dedicating yourself to some societal goal. Without the demands of a relationship or kids, one is able to truly dedicate yourself to a pursuit that could benefit your people greatly, whether it's in the realm of science, or music or architecture, whatever, they can go full bore into trying to achieve that more grandiose form of greatness that having a family would most likely get int he way of.

Either way I would heavily discourage them from simply pursuing wanton sex or getting into some farcical same-sex "marriage."

megaxxx00 · 23時間前

Its not necessarily a bad thing, in the case that I had 4 kids one of them being gay can be a safety net for the other 3 kids in case they run into financial difficulties the homo can just support them, but the will will be based on my grand kids not my kids.

razethekaaba · 23時間前

I'd be disappointed, and I wouldn't be sure how to raise them. I don't think sexual preference can be changed, nor do I think homosexuality or even butt sex is de facto immoral, like some of these people. I'm also not anti-adoption, but I get the idea of genetic dead ends. I think encouraging them to produce offspring would be worse; that really is confusing nature. Because they are either not going to marry the other parent, marry the other parent but keep the same-sex lover, or have some living arrangement where mommy and daddy and mommy's girlfriend/daddy's boyfriend are all raising the child. It doesn't seem as healthy.

Leverett134 · 20時間前

I'd ask myself is he actually gay or just looking for attention? If I believed he was actually gay I'd push fir him to get in the economic sector rather than what would be considered traditional gay jobs. I'd also try to impress on him that I dont want to have his faggy friends around as I find em irritating as fuck.

If my son turned out to be a fag hopefully he'd be a well off alpha fag

icefire54 · 17時間前

As long as he becomes like Ryan Faulk, it's all good.

NESIRGNIK · 12時間前

Take him put back and put him out of his disease spreading child molesting misery.

SocialNationalism · 7時間前

Like this, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_O1hM-k3aUY.

agotasaidwhat · 22時間前

I would accept that, if ~5% of population are homosexuals, then there's ~5% chance of me having a gay kid, that's just the reality.

I'd be much more worried about gay son than about a lesbian daughter because of the promiscuity among gay men.

I'd do my best to educate him about that since I wouldn't want him to get an STD.

I just learned about the whole disease thing in another thread :D

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