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[–]bbmc7gm6fm 116 ポイント117 ポイント  (20子コメント)

Since that night he will not even talk to me about what happened. He has never asked me any questions and within a week had rented me a condo close by and moved me out of our family home. Almost exactly a month after the incident he had me served divorce papers and refuses to speak to me about any of it. My children know what happened as of course so many people we know were there to witness and people always talk. There was some brief legal trouble for my husband because of the fight but I believe that has been resolved with little issue for him thank goodness. I am so ashamed of myself. I am so desperate for help here...

More men need to learn to behave like this guy. Show no mercy and fuckin' WALK AWAY!

[–]BlacknOrangeZ 63 ポイント64 ポイント  (11子コメント)

I've come to expect a post on the relationships sub like "I'm proud of my wife for exploring her sexuality but I'm wondering why I feel a bit uncomfortable about this. I know it's her body and her choice, so what can I do to get past my selfishness and prove to her that I can still be a good husband?"

[–]turok281[S] 31 ポイント32 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Hahaha. This made me laugh and sad at the same time, as i wouldn't be surprised of that actually happening.

[–]BreathOfDick 14 ポイント15 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Oh it does, and not just to satisfy a cuckold kink the male has. Women are so fucking ruthless it's mind blowing.

[–]DaSquariusGreen 9 ポイント10 ポイント  (0子コメント)

And they should continue to be; it helps the survival of the species. Men just need to know what they are dealing with, so it can be effectively managed, and they can be equally effective. Que TRP.

[–]Endorsed Contributorsqerl 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Women are so fucking ruthless it's mind blowing.

Maybe this is why divorce laws are so penalizing towards men. Some smart dude realized that if left unregulated, women would bankrupt a country by their ruthless, shitty behaviour.

[–]Harleydamienson 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

The reason the divorce laws are the way they are, is because business, the government, the lawyers, basically everybody knows woman will spend money. Basically stimulating the economy by going shopping as a pass time.

[–]subjectivealpha 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I read a post on there today about a guy who caught his girlfriend cheating for the THIRD time and all she had to do was cry and beg at his feet for him to take her back. He claimed they could "communicate better" and work through it. What a delusional cuck.

[–]0_Canada 8 ポイント9 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Great he left her, no fault divorce, he's fucked if he makes more than her and his violent act will be used against him in any custody hearings.

Regardless, I treat the majority of detailed and lengthy relationship posts on the internet as works of fiction.

[–]turok281[S] 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Not this one. It's a real situation. Check their profiles.

[–]subjectivealpha 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I read a post on there today about a guy who caught his girlfriend cheating for the THIRD time and all she had to do was cry and beg at his feet for him to take her back. He claimed they could "communicate better" and work through it. What a delusional cuck.

[–]turok281[S] 9 ポイント10 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Agree! When i hear about cases of beta losers makes my blood boil. Don't know why but i fell like a strong repulsion and disgust towards them even though logically i would say it's a good thing (less competition for me). Basically it all comes down to having some dignity, self-respect and honor!

[–]DupreeMcJones 12 ポイント13 ポイント  (1子コメント)

The same reason other women dislike sluts; giving it away easy and devaluing your goods in the marketplace.

[–]thehonestdouchebag 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I used to be like you. If it's any consolation, you'll grow numb to it and all kind of female shit eventually with enough exposure. I almost wish I never found the RP but you can't unlearn what you've learned. I guess being comfortably numb isn't all that bad either though.

[–]ChinatownSavage 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Same here, man. My blood boils when I hear that shit.There was another story of a dude banging this chick in her parents condo and he posted the pictures of his cum on her ass in an online forum to prove that he wasn't lying. So the chick finally admitted it was her and eventually her boyfriend had a chat about it and she explained to him that it was "just sex" and that she loved him.. Anyways days later she did it again with the same guy and guess what?? The fuckin cuck took her back. The worst thing about it is that the couple tried to pawn it off on my like I did something wrong, "because if it wasnt for me, they would have never met" I dont even know those people.

[–]aequitas_1 8 ポイント9 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Absolutely. Dude handled it as well as he could have. All. of. it.

[–]newusernamereddit 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

At least more or less all the comments are ripping her up.

[–]esirnus18 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Wow just wow!! I think we might just found a genuine Alpha male.

[–]OFAFV 47 ポイント48 ポイント  (20子コメント)

As a guy who still wants to raise a traditional nuclear family, things like this really make my passion for that go cold. Vetting only helps so much but there is always a RISK no matter what you do..

[–]thehonestdouchebag 17 ポイント18 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Wanting to raise a traditional family now a days is like wanting to become a professional Mahjong player.

[–]BreathOfDick 14 ポイント15 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Yeah, you're fucked. Sorry to hear that you want this dream to come true.

[–]OFAFV 21 ポイント22 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yup, TRP is a cheat code but I'm playing on Insane mode.

[–]Returnofthemack3 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (5子コメント)

yeah, it's crazy, but what can you really expect when society and the state basically encourages, trivializes, and INCENTIVIZES divorce and infidelity? Outside of some public shaming, maybe, a woman stands to lose very little and gain quite a bit under the current system. Hell, even if she is the one that was unfaithful, she can twist it so she's the victim and people will believe her! 'He was passion-less, he was unattentive, he was ABUUUUUSIIVEEE!' lol it's such a fucking joke. I have no doubt in my mind that if we incentivized men in a negative direction it would have effects in the opposite direction. Humans are humans after all

edit: I cant tell you how many times i've heard a woman frame a cheating situation into her being the victim. I can name like 5 people off hte top of my head that cheated on their bfs/husbands and fed everyone a story about how he was this and that, often they framed it as some nebulous form of 'mental' abuse

[–]raisins3142 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (4子コメント)

I made an ex admit to cheating on a past boyfriend (her stories around some thing didn't add up, and I basically proved to her by timeline that she must have cheated at least once, this was based upon her random volunteering of information and she was shocked when she was just chatting and I turned and said "then you cheated on Jeremy, didn't you?"). I have no proof she ever cheated on me. However, her admitting to cheating was a death nail to our relationship, I soon ended it. She blamed the guy she cheated on however by saying "we hadn't seen each other in a while and he walked in and didn't give me a hug" and then she looked at me and said "so always give me a hug" and then she smiled. Crazy bitch.

[–]turok281[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Did you end it on the spot?

[–]raisins3142 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Nah, took a few weeks. Mind you, I had no proof she had cheated on me. However, I thought her the type to easily cheat, and she confirmed it. After I heard this, I circled my mental wagons and became increasingly more ready to leave the relationship. The final straw was going to a bar and she left my side to go play pool with a bad boy covered in tattoos, and she was gushing over him. I left the bar and broke up with her that night.

She's the one that red pilled me.

[–]landon042 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Kill that dream, I wanted many children And I think I will still get them

but kill the dream of a traditional family, raise the smv so that you can have a girl or multiple to raise your children.

you don't have to get married, just wouldn't reccomend living in a common law marriage state or some shit where if a girl lives with you more than a year or 2 she's entitled to half your shit. (that's stupidest law shit I ever read)

[–]cragfar 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

One of the moms who was recently divorced

Reading enough of these you'll see this is how things start like 60% of the time

[–]ShrimShrim 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (3子コメント)

There's risk with literally every activity you do. Part of having control is realizing that you can't always control everything. Until you accept that, you're going to be paranoid and jealous as hell. The only thing you can control is your response.

[–]Duchenne4089 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (2子コメント)

There's risk with literally every activity you do.

Not every activity has the risk of losing half your stuff and one or two little humans that have half your genes.

[–]ShrimShrim 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (1子コメント)

My point was that in order to assume control, you have to assume the risks. You can never take control of any aspect of your life or another's life without assuming risk. It isn't possible. So you have to deal with it.

EDIT Haha, love how I'm being down voted for saying that risk exists everywhere. It's simple economics. Living in time and space is itself a risk. If you think you're going to escape risk, good fucking luck.

[–]Returnofthemack3 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I think the issue people take is that you're kind of trivializing just how unfair and risky a marriage contract is nowadays. You can attempt to mitigate risk by signing a prenup-oh but wait, judges throw those out all the time. You can't even get a good read on how much and what you'd lose, because so much of that is dependent on the judge and the circumstances of the case. I get what youre saying, but this isn't managable, predictable risk, but reckless gambling imo. You frame it as if this is a reasonable arrangement with regular risk you take into consideration and prepare for, but it's much more dire than that im afraid

[–]katanin 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Life is full of risks... in everything you do. You can't control everything, but you do the best that you possibly can.

[–]Sad_Larry -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Join the Catholic Church and find yourself a nice submissive virgin to marry

[–]Jalowhat 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Lol, church. It's all born again virgins that partied and carouseled their way to Jesus.

Now, they've got extra attention from being good church girls again. And the actually good church girls have their pick of the litter anyway.

Forget it, the church is outright useless. It has no power and it's dying anyway. The church is part of the swamp that needs to be drained and it's not in our side.

[–]wellsking 41 ポイント42 ポイント  (1子コメント)

I think in this case your husband is right to divorce you and move on with his life. When you met him you were attracted to thrills and bad boys. Your husband became a father, grew up and became a responsible man. Gave you the life he promised you and you became bored. His loyalty and devotion to his family didn't turn you on so you went looking for cheap thrills. Relieving your boredom was more important to you than protecting your family. I think you regret that you got caught. I think you feel very sorry for yourself and are hurt by the consequences of your actions but I don't think you have real remorse for what you did to your family. As a matter of fact I think the only reason you still want your husband is because he fought the OM and won. What if the OM had beat the crap out of your husband? What if your husband had seen the fight coming and run away? Then who would you be all hot and bothered for? I suspect that had that fight turned out a different it wouldn't be your husband that you would be chasing, you would want the OM. And this goes beyond the cheating. You publicly disrespected and humiliated your husband by blatantly touching and flirting with the OM in front of all your friends. I think both you and your husband will be better off divorced. Since you like tough guys and thrills so much you will probably be happier free and single.

^ This person who left this comment gets it down to a tee. Well played, well played. You're right the guy does sound alpha too, she got bored of her house trained alpha and wanted tingles from chad.. Big big lesson in here for all.

[–]Endorsed ContributorHeathcliff-- 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yes, this person is very tuned in.

[–]Gringa_Negra 37 ポイント38 ポイント  (2子コメント)

This is so disgusting. She didn't even stand up for her husband, I know that hurt.

[–]thehonestdouchebag 28 ポイント29 ポイント  (1子コメント)

That's the worst part. Can you imagine having your wife stay silent when her lover threatens you, but cries out for you to stop attacking her lover. Guy is a champ for it ending with no deaths.

[–]standardoil2 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

almost sounds he her husband was going to keep beating the lover until his wife pleaded him to stop, so he would know; it's a closure of sort.

[–]TonyZ554 64 ポイント65 ポイント  (8子コメント)

She doesn't regret doing it, she regrets getting caught. In her mind, her only mistake was not being able to hide it better.

[–]swift_phoenix 23 ポイント24 ポイント  (0子コメント)

If you read through and the comments, its classic trickle truth. Nearly all sentences begin with I am or some kind self pronoun, and the icing is all of the wants. You cannot make this shit up. What is best about it, is that it is probably true from the style of writing. The OP writer in the post does not deliver a concise argument and belabors points. Funny shit. Bitch fucked up, bitch got her life fuck, and bitch thinks she can unfuck her by being sorry, but really kicker is she got into this position by fucking.

[–]Mecha75 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (5子コメント)

Its one of the best examples of hypergamy if i ever saw one.

[–]empatheticapathetic 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (4子コメント)

How is it even hypergamy at this point.

[–]TonyZ554 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (2子コメント)

She had a grass is greener mentality, she thought new guy was an upgrade because he was more exciting, apparently having a beautiful family and life is too mundane for her.

[–]empatheticapathetic 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Yeah I guess. I guess it's hard to even define the hypergamy except in her own mind. Like many people have stated, if the lover had won the fight, she would have been satisfied with her choice/infidelity. So that one situation was the decider for who was actually better, despite the husband being better in 100 different ways.

[–]StudntRdyTeachrApear 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Another great example of how far we think we've removed ourselves from the animal kingdom (we aren't).

[–]Mecha75 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Although her husband was still being an alpha, he did allow her to change him. He stopped being what attracted her to him from the beginning. In steps a man that seemingly behaved like her husband used to. Then when her husband caught her and then beat the shit out of her lover (that she wrongly valued higher than her husband) and his friend, she wanted her husband back. Follow that up with him dumping her and she is seriously feeling a double whammy of a hit to hypergamy.

[–]Duploticus 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

At no point leading up to her cheating does she exhibit any sense of moral agency. The closest thing is when she describes herself as "foolish" which ironically serves to further distance herself from taking any ownership of her actions.

Absolutely insane.

[–]p3n1x 22 ポイント23 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Our problem started when I began to feel bored with life.

AWALT, and the only part of the story that matters.

Don't let your ego get in the way, to think you are so awesome sauce that she "wouldn't dare" want something else.

[–]Casanova-Quinn 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (1子コメント)

This right here. She made it clear as day that her husband wasn't providing exciting tingles.

they were so brash and almost obnoxious, but they seemed so confident and edgy I just felt attracted almost immediately. They were so different than our safe and wholesome family life

Even though the husband was alpha in many ways, he let his masculine edge get dull. He likely stopped teasing/flirting with her on a regular basis.

[–]raisins3142 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Even though the husband was alpha in many ways, he let his masculine edge get dull. He likely stopped teasing/flirting with her on a regular basis.

You don't know that.

Reading the entire thing, his cheating exwife was very entitled with an above average fixation on being the prize of a tough guy.

He did wrong by choosing her perhaps, but I think you are going too far with your interpretation.

[–]Tako_400 50 ポイント51 ポイント  (17子コメント)

This idiot thought a little rando dick was worth potentially ruining the rest of her life. Well, it did ruin your life and now all you can do is seek pity. I'm so happy for your (ex)husband, you stupid fucking bitch. You've been found out to be just another skankity skank.

OP, I don't personally believe AWALT, but god damn am I happy reading this. Feels good, so thanks.

[–]turok281[S] 32 ポイント33 ポイント  (16子コメント)

Ok i am not a redpill expert but i believe awalt is more of a spectrum. Some women are more and some less awalt. Some grow in stable families with rules and boundaries and manage to keep it under control. Others (feels like majority nowdays) grow up in degenerate families and fall prey to their own nature. All women are whores, except my mother. But then again, she is a woman" - Napoleon Bonaparte

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    [–]zealykingz 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

    Might as well be Everyone is like that. The concept just keeps you in reality.

    [–]rivertorain 12 ポイント13 ポイント  (10子コメント)

    This is one part of TRP that just makes me depressed.

    As a girl, I read stories like this and am perplexed at how someone can do this. It seems like cheating is so commonly reported on TRP that I can't do anything but accept that it's a critical 'bug' in women, which means that I have it too. It honestly terrifies me.

    [–]turok281[S] 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (3子コメント)

    It is human nature and it doesn't have to be moral. You see awalt often on redpill because it is not widely known or accepted in society, so it somehow needs to be "exposed". Amalt (All men are like that), but no need to say that as it's widely known and accepted. I'll just paste this: Being angry or hating women because AWALT is just stupid. Because ad the same time you must hate men because of AMALT. All Men Are Like That Example: All men will have urge to fuck as much women as they can, and all of them will get bored with fucking the same women for years. And NAMALT will Mean that: Guy 1: Will actively search for other women and will cheat with as many as he can. Guy 2: Will not search for other but will cheat if he will have possibility. Guy 3: Will not cheat on his women, and silently endure. Guy 4: Will try spice up bedroom and keep be faithful. Now extra cultural crucial element. Men are raise to be helpful and faithful to there women. To be White Knight for them. Majority of them ad least believe that they will never cheat, they will love witch all there heart and will live happy ever after. Just accept that we are all just smart animals and relax.

    [–]landon042 -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (2子コメント)

    but it is entirely different when a woman cheats, for a man it's the urge to bust some nuts because when you get erections multiple times a day, that's what happens.

    but a woman cheats because the guy is different or higher smv and it is entirely disrespectful to her husband, it means she no longer values him or respects him/attracted to him.

    A man cheats for his urge to fuck but he can still love his wife

    [–]rivertorain 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

    Please. It's not different at all.

    Love is compromise. A woman can cheat for her urge to sleep with someone else and still be perfectly "in love" with her husband, just like a man.

    Assuming you're in a monogamous relationship, fucking anyone other than your SO is cheating, and cheating is wrong. It's a sign of disrespect / lack of value for your partner. Regardless of gender.

    [–]diomedes777 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    No, you are completely wrong. When a woman cheats on her man she has checked out of the relationship and it's usually due to death of fundamental attraction and lack of dread from the end of the man.

    Women do not cheat for physical reasons in the same way men do, there's something deeper, whereas for men it is purely to blow a load in a new vagina

    [–]raisins3142 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Nearly every woman I know between the ages of 30 and 40 has cheated on at least one boyfriend at the end of a relationship when they were trying to swing to a new partner (and had to test the waters and secure a commitment by giving out the vag). Most do not consider this cheating because in their own mind the relationship was already over.

    [–]systemshock869 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Thing is, anyone can cheat. Anyone can be a shit bag. The difference is that women get the red carpet rolled out wherever they go. Tits get you free drinks, beta orbiters that will eat off the bottom of your shoes, and even jobs and promotions. Anyone who has 10 billion more opportunities to be a shit bag is going to have a much higher chance of being a shit bag. This makes the good women a truly rare and valuable diamond in a vast pit of shit. You don't have to be a cheating whore, but it's the easy way for you to live your life should you choose to burn out your candle fast and fun.

    [–]MultiverseWolf 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

    That logic is faulty. You read that cheating is common here because its one of the primary subjects that's related to people transitioning to TRP.

    Some women have better self control, others have less.

    [–]rivertorain 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Right, I'm aware that TRP is going to be a heavily biased sample but still... The sheer number of TRP members is enough to confirm that cheating in general, is a lot more common than what I had realized.

    [–]wisty 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    It's not so much that all women are like that. It's that all men make excuses when women are like that. "No, she's not really like that, she'll realise I'm a nice guy / she wasn't emotionally cheating / she needs to find herself by having a road trip through Europe with her friends" ... ROFL

    It's like when women say "All men are like that". It's not literally true, but it's close enough. "No, I'm sure he really values my friendship / doesn't want to commit because he doesn't want to get hurt / just wants things to happen organically ... " ROFL.

    [–]zero194 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    There is no fucking spectrum. AWALT is the absolute truth in RedPill. It is the one of the founding pillars of whole movement.

    [–]techfronic 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    It's a random variable. Some populations have worse or better distributions than others

    [–]raisins3142 16 ポイント17 ポイント  (1子コメント)

    I'm glad everyone knows and she had to face the consequences of her actions.

    Growing up, the neighbors all knew each other and talked. There was a sense of community. Now, visiting my family home, it is very different. This lack of community allows people to get away with infidelity more now.

    EDIT: typo

    [–]landon042 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    I remember from edward scizzerhands? however scissor is spelled

    taking place in the 50s I think or some early time. the community women would talk, obviously if someone cheated it would get around, It seemed like if there was a man of interest, all the women would try for his attention like they all wanted to cheat lol.

    I think it was a sense of them cockblocking eachother that noone actually cheated because they all wanted to

    [–]Treasure_hand 13 ポイント14 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    There's always someone bigger and badder than you out there, remember that in you endeavors to be high ranking in the social construct. Sometimes you meet people that stomp you out, sometimes your woman does. Oldest and noblest, it's not yours it's just your turn. Sadly, as much as I wished to have the things this guy did, this is truth. Being at the top of the pyramid only means you get challenged more often.

    [–]Luce_Bree 9 ポイント10 ポイント  (3子コメント)

    Wow. I read that first paragraph and then got to this sentence:

    Our problem started when I got bored.

    For those too lazy to read the original thread, this woman spent the entire first paragraph talking about how her tough, confident, dominant and sexy husband--who continued his kickboxing training and remained nice and fit--provided her with a great life for 15 years. Apparently they even maintained a good sex life after all that time.

    And it STILL wasn't good enough.

    Never. Getting. Married.

    [–]empatheticapathetic 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    My sisters boyfriend is Chad, they've been dating for 15 years. He's hitting 50 soon and getting a bit more beta and she hates it, started shit testing him.

    His biggest asset is to always be on the edge of walking away, and he has always played it, making her constantly realise what she's losing out on by being a bitch. And she gets in line and becomes obsessed with him again.

    Fuck it's brutal.

    [–]Endorsed Contributorsqerl 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Our problem started when I got bored.

    Can't be said enough.

    Look at a shoe store:
    Men's section is a couple rows.
    Woman's section takes up an entire floor.

    There's not enough options to keep them happy. Kids, PTA, Alpha husband.... still not enough.

    Even the alpha husband needs to work and provide. Which is time not spent with her. Then the wife has GNO (girls night out) which is really just a covert way of saying, "let's see if my milkshake stills brings boys to the yard". And if it does, and she's not happy with you, new guy just got a free dip.

    Lift like your life depends on it. Solidify your frame.... and never forget: AWALT

    [–]plenty_of_eesh 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    I think the original story is fake.

    I mean, I am able to believe that AWALT, but, just, every detail of this story is so perfectly... well, perfect as far as the example that most male readers want to get angst/satisfaction over.

    I was going to quote some of it but you put most of the "too perfect" stuff in your comment.

    [–]raisins3142 9 ポイント10 ポイント  (1子コメント)

    Coincidentally, the betrayed husband posted at that same site looking for support.

    Google

    loveshack intense anger

    [–]Docbear64 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (2子コメント)

    The most sickening part of this story and to me the real ill of the modern perspective of relationships and the morality of some women is the fact that you can be attractive, a great provider, a good father, a good husband , and yet still because the woman is bored with her everyday activities she can decide to step out on you . Sex with the dude she cheated on her husband with wasn't even as good but because it was different and made her feel "naughty" it was worth her pursuit . I can't fault men for wanting to be married , I can't fault people for craving that deep sense of emotional intimacy from a person , but damn it if stories like this don't make me re- appreciate how there is no fairy tale happy ending .

    This man did everything right not just in a TRP sense but in a pure- societal sense of what a man should be and provide for his family and after getting just about everything a woman can ask for and not having any internal desire to create a spark of excitement in her own life she betrayed the trust of her husband .

    I know not all women are like this but investing that much in a partner to find out that your partner was a piece of shit in waiting seems ludicrous to me . My heart bleeds for the man .

    [–]turok281[S] 9 ポイント10 ポイント  (1子コメント)

    Totally agree with you except for the part that this man DID do things right in a Red Pill sense (even if not aware of it maybe) and still the sense of mistery and idealization of the other man prevailed. I think the single worst part is that this regret of hers stems from the fact that her husband won the fist fight and this brought back her tingles for her husband. Had he lost the fight she would have totally gone with the other man. Straight from the horses mouth: "I foolishly traded in my lion for a chance to run with hyenas. - Now I see that I had the real tough guy/bad boy already"

    Sometimes i think how lucky i was to find this place at my age and how much i have taken from here and it was all by pure chance.

    [–]kabhi23 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    My thoughts exactly about TRP. But, does it not discourage you from marriage? I want my children to grow up within a marriage, but holy crap stories like these...

    [–]Endorsed ContributorSirGaetanDugas 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    One doesn't Alpha up to protect himself from women as that's not possible.

    He makes changes so he can determine his path rather than just have life happen to him

    [–]Iceman3514 19 ポイント20 ポイント  (13子コメント)

    You guys are literally killing me right now.

    This and the other post are literally the only thing that sends me into a panic. This can't be par for the course. I never saw anything like this growing up. I'm beyond scared

    [–]turok281[S] 14 ポイント15 ポイント  (12子コメント)

    Why scared bro? This is a perfect story to learn from. A guy to take example from. The guy will be just fine. He has probably already found another woman (good looking, fit, a kickboxer, well-off financially). This was from a year and a half ago. Out of curiosity checked the wife and even after all this time she complains in every thread of that shit-hole (loveshack). Her nick HadEverything says it all really. Alpha-Widowed for life basically, lost her sons, her home. Women can be really dumb though. Can't see beyond their own nose.

    [–]Iceman3514 16 ポイント17 ポイント  (11子コメント)

    Because I come from a traditional family and grew up in a good area. I just didn't see shit like this.

    The part about them circling her husband is incredibly hard to read. Cuz I know how that goes down with him looking at her. He couldnt be more alone.

    It scares me because I should not have to walk on shells all day long worrying if this is my last meal so to speak. If I have my shit handled and have my family, I should be set. That's the point. Life is hard enough when you do it right. The bitch cant be throwing monkey wrenches in for the fuck of it.

    [–]ShrimShrim 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (2子コメント)

    Like others said, this is an extreme case. None the less, I would have showed up with a gun, fired a shot into the ground, and there'd be no "circling around" me or any fucking kung-fu.

    A lot of guys here talk about fighting. I'm 6'2'' 215 lbs lean. I'm still not fighting shit. Fights should absolutely be avoided at all costs.

    [–]masterchiepher -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (1子コメント)

    I like fighting though, primal shit.

    [–]OFAFV 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Seems to me like you still wished to be married. Consider a private marriage (consult with your lawyer to make sure it will work in your area). It is a LOT easier to walk away from it than a normal, government interfered marriage. It won't burn half your assets atleast though child support is still a thing. As for your planned wife not approving of it? Just increase your SMV to the highest it can be and say she is free to leave if she doesn't agree to it. Still give her a ceremony and shit though as what is most important to her is that everyone sees she is married. She technically is just that the government cannot interfere with it.

    [–]turok281[S] 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (1子コメント)

    "He couldn't be more alone" We are all alone. I see that you have the mindset of finding a woman, getting married and that's it. Your journey and self improvement is over basically? You should focus on YOU, set YOUR goals and have the strong will and discipline to achieve them. Accept the fact that she can walk away and back stab you. Also, keep in mind that this is an extreme case of an entitled, spoiled brat, cunt. On top of that i assume she is too good looking for her own good. Perpetually looking for a harder alpha /bad boy. In this case, even though the husband was alpha, you lose some when you become a husband and father as responsibilities arise and you become a little bit predictable/boring. If you have a good woman (less awalt) she will understand. As i said, this is an extreme case of entitlement.

    [–]p3n1x 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    If you have a good woman (less awalt) she will understand.

    Nope, not if she has actual options and "FEELz" she can execute them.

    If you bore her, you bore her, period. Bored = loss of tingles. Loss can turn into desperation and a desperate female will literally do anything to get back to a positive emotional state.

    Extreme cultural conditioning or "shame" upbringing (conservative fam / religion, etc..) is really the only thing that will slow the hamster. "conditioned guilt"

    [–]p3n1x 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (3子コメント)

    grew up in a good area.

    Subjective

    I just didn't see shit like this

    Doesn't mean it wasn't happening, means you just didn't see it. Or know how to recognize it.

    The rest of your post is your version of right/wrong, "Disneyland". 2+2 does NOT =4 in the intimate realm of men and women.

    [–]Returnofthemack3 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (2子コメント)

    I think a lot of people would be shocked at how many people stay together for the children or for convenience's sake (financial) whilst being completely miserable. People tend to only focus on divorce and ignore that many marriages are pretty shite over time

    [–]MultiverseWolf 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    In my experience (friends) the kids always knows though.

    [–]p3n1x 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    So right!

    What are the numbers? 52% of marriages end in divorce! I can only imagine what percentage of the leftover 48% are miserable (literally gave up and become zombies) or have infidelities occurring.

    [–]Returnofthemack3 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    a lot of us agree man, but what is there to be done? The game is stacked against men legally, and the marriage contract is not sacred or respected anymore. It's not that you can't have what you're saying, but it takes a wonderful woman who truly has accountability and self responsibility ingrained into her noggin, because the cliche 'with great power comes great responsibility' is true. Unless she's making more than you (uncommon scenario), she holds all the power in divorce hearings and child custody. If she's a great woman, that wont matter, but it takes quite the leap of faith and the risk of it going awry and destroying your life is very, very real.

    [–]Swole_is_life 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Women still slut it up in countries where you can be fucking stoned for it. Nothing trumps tingles.

    [–]vimsyah 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    This tells me to work out, train, and be as fit as possible. If he was a weaker man this could have gone differently.

    [–]RealMcGonzo 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (1子コメント)

    What a great lesson for this sub. Chick scores well, ensnares a mate that is at least nearly an alpha if not through and through. Chick decides to get a little side action with not one but two men at once. Flirts obnoxiously with her side action in front of her friends. Husband finds out, new boyfriend fucking threatens husband. Chick says nothing. Husband beats the snot out of boyfriend and chick's second boyfriend. Chick pleads for their lives. Husband walks. Suddenly chick realizes her husband is bad ass and wonders how to get him back.

    LMAO.

    Even if he took her back . . . shit especially if he took her back, she'd be up to the same games even sooner.

    Don't miss the fact that the other women (her "friends") watching in awe was at least half the reason she banged those two guys.

    [–]Endorsed Contributorsqerl 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    What a great lesson for this sub.

    Another less subtle lesson:
    Even a chick with "everything" will still put out for the tingles.

    "Be the tingles"

    [–]Bitchezbecrayy 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    No doubt, meta OP's future will be along the lines of this to a T-

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aN5s9N_pTUs

    [–]STNKMyyy 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Man he's not chad, he's a BP.

    Update, The child is mine

    It's been along time since my last post. A lot has changed over the last few weeks. As of now I have agreed to reconcile with my wife. A big reason why is because the child is mine. She also seems very remorseful and willing to do anything to fix the damage she caused.

    Even though we are staying together we will be getting divorced the papers have been filed. It was her idea she has given up almost everything. I will keep the house and custody for both children. I was kind of hesitant at first but everything seems to work in my favor either way it goes. My friend who's also my lawyer told I would be stupid if I didn't agree it was just to go of an offer and he's right.

    I plan to move back home to before the end of the month that's when my lease ends. I don't know if we have what it takes to make this work but I am willing to try.

    http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/marriage-life-partnerships/infidelity/517119-how-do-i-handle-17.html#post6524237

    [–]ChristianRedpill 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Filthy whore. And don't kid yourselves, she was going for the gang bang I assure you.

    32 But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul.

    33 A wound and dishonour shall he get; and his reproach shall not be wiped away.

    34 For jealousy is the rage of a man: therefore he will not spare in the day of vengeance.

    35 He will not regard any ransom; neither will he rest content, though thou givest many gifts.

    Proverbs 6 King James Bible

    [–]1DowntownSacramento 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    The Alpha handled this Beta.

    If AWALT, there is no surprise. No reason to get angry or reason to violence. Risk of death or lawsuit. Let the other guy know you get it, it's her fault, and hard next your wife.

    [–]suske127 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    The ultimate shit test. If he stays with the woman he's lost and he's screwed forever. This is a big reason to not get married. If he puts up with her cheating she'll do it again

    [–]40_SixandTwo 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    I remember job I had 2 years ago there was a couple that worked there. The dude, we'll call Dave was a jacked country boy who spent his weekends hunting, working on trucks and doing other typical manly shit. He lived with his girlfriend, chewed dip constantly, shot guns, worked out five days a week.

    His girl that worked there to was banging one of the guys at this place, the dude she was banging, Ben was some video game nerd who still lived with his parents. He was mad tall but had that fat flabby body that looked like a pyramid on it's base, you know the type with the narrow ass shoulders, skinny arms but an overflowing fat waist line and man tits. He also had a bunch of Warcraft and Star Wars tattoos.

    I don't know how the hell it happened, it was fucking weird.

    [–]BobbyPeru 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    If my wife even kissed another dude, it would be over immediately. I don't get guys who stay with chicks that cheat on them.

    This dude played it well other than the violence.

    [–]lovepankydud 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Which one of your Redpillers posted this over there lol

    You really "Had Everything". You chose an Apt username. The advice given above is solid. SUck it up. Tell him you are truly sorry. Let him know that you do not want the divorce but you will not contest it. Then ask him when he will communicate with you. You need to give him time. Because your Husband is an Alpha. And they rarely look back. Good Luck. Fight for your family and for your marriage. But also respect his wishes. You can only reconcile if he chooses to. And right now he chooses not to. HM

    [–]purplecabbage -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (2子コメント)

    Seems like a lot of bros on here are calling her a skank or worse. Lets not forget they were married for 15 years. I believe people are not supposed to be monogamous for long periods like that, from an evolutionary perspective (generally). I read her whole post and from what she wrote, her husband was indeed alpha but so was the other dude she was seeing.

    Maybe we should look at AWALT from outside the societal box we're all in and see that her mating behavior makes sense after 15 years of monogamy, even with an alpha.

    [–]raisins3142 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    She might not have had absolute free will, but her little processor in her head decided to do skank things instead of the more wholesome things that many other women do.

    So, just line them up like robots, and put them into nonskank and skank categories based upon what their AI decides. She's a skank.