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[–]lonewolf-chicago 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I have a lot to say about this issue. I have an 11 year old and divorced her mother when my daughter was 7. I waited until the age of reason (7).

Teach her about hard work. Earning things, not taking hand outs. You can do this by challenging her to accomplish physical things like sports.. both individual and team sports. Earning things for yourself is important.

Second, teach her about money. Allowance only gets paid when she accomplishes things you tell her to... taking taxes out, showing the bills you pay.

Teaching her about honor, integrity, hard work.

I teach her how to act toward boys. never to talk down to them...

Mostly, I teach her that Daddy will always be here for her. 80% of good parenting is being there... the other 20% is showing a good example. I'm not perfect, but I am constantly trying and improving. What else can a little girl hope for?

[–]Stridaar 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Hey honestly?

Start reading more books. Start exercising and taking care of yourself.

Don't hate her mother, just smile and be polite to her when you are forced into a situation with her, but dont give her your time.

Your daughter well, I would say talk to her like an adult and have conversations with her.

[–]wawakaka 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

be an example of great man to her.

if she comes to you with feminist dogma try to show her nothing is all black and white

many shades of gray. Her relationship with you will be how she relates to other men.

[–]Tyler_Gatsby 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

We all want our daughters to be unicorns, of course, so maybe try and work on what you think her mother's worst trait or influence will be on her? I think I'm most proud of how easy I think my daughter will be to get along with. For example, she doesn't pitch fits, or whine, beg, pout or any of that. She leads off with haggling, and trying to make a deal/compromise until we're both happy. "Ok, how bout if we go do this, and I'll go here with you.." type stuff.

Yes, I could just pull the, "I'm the dad, we're doing blah b/c I said so.." card, but my logic is I want her to be able to work with men, and get a proud sense of accomplishment from pulling off both being happy with the agreement.