We live in Europe, for past 6 years, my parents paid about 50k euros for my sister’s living expenses through college; we thought she just had her master’s degree, but we recently discovered that she didn’t even get her license degree (validating 3 years of college).

I recovered the pictures and videos from a computer I had offered her and that she wiped before handing to me; we found out with the recovered pictures/videos she had been living the high life, as if she was a millionaire, permanent vacations, traveling to Italy with 2 different boyfriends, at two different times, going to Germany partying with girl friends, while validating only 1 year of study.

We come from the middle class, we’re not rich by any means, she knew the difficulty my parents had to give her that money; she lied to us all that time, and now she refuses to “come back” to the family to live with us in more restrictive condition (while we still want her to get at least her license), she’s alone in the city without money, sick now, we had no choice but to give her some money, not much, just so she can survive and not die (which she would given how stupid and stubborn she is: she’s living with a friend, her room stays cold ‘cause her friend cannot afford the heater, and eats poorly) Anyway, just wanted to share this. I am truly disappointed and angry that she did what she did.