5.0 out of 5 starsDON'T F**K ANOTHER MAN UNTIL YOU'VE READ THIS BOOK FROM COVER TO COVER!!! SERIOUSLY! DON'T EVEN TALK TO A MAN!
ByMs Ashley the Zaftig Goddesson September 13, 2014
PLEASE DO NOT LET THE TITLE DETOUR YOU. This is absolutely a MUST READ for every woman whether she is looking to 'come up' or actually wants to understand the mind of a man and use that to her advantage in attaining a real relationship. He literally breaks it down for you, step by step, with examples, of what you should do and where a man's mind is at in that moment. He tells you things that men do to play you out of your p***y and help you to not be a victim to men and their games but to actually use it to your advantage and take control. It's not a blow by blow (PUN INTENDED) of what to do to please a man, it actually uses the first half to explain how to get what you want WITHOUT screwing. It's a great read but also a study guide. It will have you wanting to read it fast and slow at the same time. It's a page turner that's meant to be studied and practiced. Amazingly, the first thing mentioned is that you must get your confidence up, for real. Women, this isn't a book for the meek, timid, insecure or can't-tell-them-nothing type chicas. This is for those ladies that are confident, smart, business minded or at least trying to get there, who are ready to take these tactics and apply them in full and in order, to get what they want. My only problem with this book, is I wished I had it when I was 15 years old.
Ladies, stop giving it up because you feel a tingle when he's near or he says sweet things or has beautiful dark skin and light eyes. STOP IT NOW!!! DON'T SCREW ANOTHER MAN BEFORE YOU READ THIS BOOK! It also works for men already in your life, ex's and men you've slipped up and had sex with already. He'll cover these situations that may seemed lost in the second half of the book. It was so good, I bought a second one for my bestie! You will want to share this with women you care about in your life but not YOUR actual copy! GET IT and get it!!!!
2.0 out of 5 starsAMAZING book, expect one brief but horrible tactic.
Bynikkiromeroon February 13, 2016
Ok heres the thing at first i LOVED this book. i felt like i was holding Gold in my hands. my new bible. But then the author suggests to women lying about sexual trauma as a tactic to avoid having to have sex. Please girls NEVER lie about that. if that wasnt in the book i would give it a 5 star rating hands down. But maybe since the author is a man he doesn't understand the ramification of women lying about this. It is very hard for women who have been raped and molested to be taking seriously much of the time. Even though a TINY percentage of women who report these to police it end up being fake. but to lie about that to anyone a trick a friend a sugar ANYONE is just not ok, and makes it harder for women who have been and have these issues to be taken seriously. I am really dispointed anyone would give that advice to girls no matter what thier objective is. The rest of the boo is Gold thats why i gave it two stars and not one. but that is a REALLLYYYYYY big bad red flag no no do NOT do ever!!!
Ok heres the thing at first i LOVED this book. i felt like i was holding Gold in my hands. my new bible. But then the author suggests to women lying about sexual trauma as a tactic to avoid having to have sex. Please girls NEVER lie about that. if that wasnt in the book i would give it a 5 star rating hands down. But maybe since the author is a man he doesn't understand the ramification of women lying about this. It is very hard for women who have been raped and molested to be taking seriously much of the time. Even though a TINY percentage of women who report these to police it end up being fake. but to lie about that to anyone a trick a friend a sugar ANYONE is just not ok, and makes it harder for women who have been and have these issues to be taken seriously. I am really dispointed anyone would give that advice to girls no matter what thier objective is. The rest of the boo is Gold thats why i gave it two stars and not one. but that is a REALLLYYYYYY big bad red flag no no do NOT do ever!!!
PLEASE DO NOT LET THE TITLE DETOUR YOU. This is absolutely a MUST READ for every woman whether she is looking to 'come up' or actually wants to understand the mind of a man and use that to her advantage in attaining a real relationship. He literally breaks it down for you, step by step, with examples, of what you should do and where a man's mind is at in that moment. He tells you things that men do to play you out of your p***y and help you to not be a victim to men and their games but to actually use it to your advantage and take control. It's not a blow by blow (PUN INTENDED) of what to do to please a man, it actually uses the first half to explain how to get what you want WITHOUT screwing. It's a great read but also a study guide. It will have you wanting to read it fast and slow at the same time. It's a page turner that's meant to be studied and practiced. Amazingly, the first thing mentioned is that you must get your confidence up, for real. Women, this isn't a book for the meek, timid, insecure or can't-tell-them-nothing type chicas. This is for those ladies that are confident, smart, business minded or at least trying to get there, who are ready to take these tactics and apply them in full and in order, to get what they want. My only problem with this book, is I wished I had it when I was 15 years old.
Ladies, stop giving it up because you feel a tingle when he's near or he says sweet things or has beautiful dark skin and light eyes. STOP IT NOW!!! DON'T SCREW ANOTHER MAN BEFORE YOU READ THIS BOOK! It also works for men already in your life, ex's and men you've slipped up and had sex with already. He'll cover these situations that may seemed lost in the second half of the book. It was so good, I bought a second one for my bestie! You will want to share this with women you care about in your life but not YOUR actual copy! GET IT and get it!!!!
This is NOT a book about how to land a husband. Your ultimate goal is to become the companion of a wealthy "sponsor" who will provide you with housing, clothing, a car, vacations, money to start a business or whatever else you need fiancially, in return for fulfilling his need to take care of a prized possession. Sex is something doled out rarely, if at all. If you give up the goodies too soon, he will walk away and you will feel like a cheap lay (because you are). I would have been skeptical about the reality of achieving this type of relationship, but a good friend has a multi-billionaire sponsor that (much to my and my friends' incredulity) does NOT sleep with her - ever. A misconception about having a sugar daddy is that they want sex. No, they want to know they "own" you. My friend's sponsor expects her to be at his beck and call at all hours to take care of the personal details of his life, fly with him all over California for business and to make his old cronies jealous, and never, ever tell him "No." So she plays the helpless little girl (even though she's a couple decades younger, but still nearly 40) who runs certain aspects of his life, and he plays the beneficient father figure. He dresses her in designer clothes (Chanel, Gucci, Celine), pays her 2 kids' tuition at private school, buys her "toys" like an iMac, and has bought her not one but 2 cars - a 2015 Mercedes SUV this past Christmas and a Mini Cooper for her nanny. Swear to God. Oh, and he's married, so she gets a break when he has to spend time with the Mrs. I couldn't figure out how she did it, and what exactly made their relationship "tick." Now I know - this book tells you how.
It's a fast read, full of details like the literal words to say when you meet a potential trick/treat/sponsor in person or online. The writing is no-nonsense and full of real-life examples. Even if you decide you don't want to be a Ho, there is alot of useful information on how to be a more assertive woman generally and stop settling for broke guys who want to sleep with you in exchange for zero effort. So despite the title, it's actually an excellent book about female empowerment.
Although the title is raw, this book is not about being a ho just for the sake of being a ho. What is put together here is a way to use your genuine feminine power to get the man you want or the things you want from a man. I've used some of these tactics in the past and have had success without even knowing what I was doing. I just knew they worked. What the author has done here is provided explanation as to why it works and supplied even more tactics to win a man over. The knowledge of why these things work makes the tactics that much more powerful.
And when he says that you don't have to look a certain way or be a certain size forward to work, believe that to be true. I'm cute but plus sized (which is not every mans cup of tea) but have yet to be denied what I wanted when using these tactics.
This is an awesome book, I wish I had had it in my 20s however, at 30 it's a lot easier to pull off some of these tactics because in some ways I've already thrown caution to the wind (which is the most useful trait you can have).
I'm looking forward to trying some of the new things offered up in this book.
I was intrigued by this book. I learnt so much from reading it.it really opened my eyes as how to weed out mean selfish men from the first or second contact,even though I have no plans to go around looking for a treat,trick or sponsor.i have learnt techniques that are very helpful that I can apply in making sure the man I choose to be with is someone who have the potential to treat me well,and not to settle for less. It certainly has helped to put a lot more confidence in my actions,and help me how to identify the tricks men use on women and how to beat them at there own game...this is a very good book for those women who have been way too nice to men and allowed them to manipulate you.
It's a very good book about valuing yourself as a woman and not settle for loneliness or with men that are just takers. Every woman in the dating scene should read it so we can reclaim our value and stop the madness of being victims because we allow all the mediocre or bad treatment and not only that but we reward it. An eye opener.
I loved this book. Although I don't plan on using any of these in the hopes of finding myself a trick, treat, or sponsor, the information in the book really helped me with becoming fully confident with myself. After all, if a woman can pull these mind games and acts on a man, why can't I pull these on regular people I interact with on a day to day basis? That is, just being fun, portraying myself as the "ideal girl" (whatever that is depending on who I am around), and wholly loving myself?
Now, I don't want to say that after I read half way into this book, my life changed - because that's not how it happened. I had to actually do things and be active for anything to happen, of course. I'm saying this because it's easy to read or absorb knowledge and think the work is done. No. I had to begin to breathe, eat, and live the Ho Tactics.
As for the book, it does give a lot of insight on how a "ho" functions, and it's pretty amazing. After reading this book, I no longer view the word "ho" as an insult (although I know it can be one). In the scenarios the book uses, a ho is a pretty damn admirable woman who uses what she has to get herself further in life, or just the things she simply wants. It also taught me a lot about men (not to say that everything in the book is completely true and applicable to every single man on planet Earth): about how they may think, feel, and act around unwaveringly confident women who aren't afraid to be sexual.
Simply put, I think women should read this book. If you aren't going to use these to find yourself a sponsor or trick, that's OK. Be like me, read this book, and let it encourage you to become the unapologetically confident woman you can be.
5 Stars is really enough said. Ladies, this book is telling you to be a hoe by no means. But we have all come across men that were no good that we gave the best of ourselves to walk away with nothing but tears, headache, and heart break. If a lot of us knew before some of the tactics in this book, it would have saved us all alot of wasted time, humiliation, etc.
Def a great book. Explains why men talk about wanting a good girl but always goes for "hoes". Loved it. Glad I read it. I am more confident about dating. I also know now what I want from it. You need to read it!
OMG!!! I've read and re-read this book 2x! And I'm re-reading for a 3rd time! G.L. Lambert thank you for the swift kick in the ass. I'm a very outgoing, charming individual at the ripe age of 26 but unfortunately I've always been deathly shy around guys I like. I got tired of waiting around hoping that the guy got the hint. If you are a shy girl around men! Snap out of it and BUY THIS BOOK!! The author is tough. If you're a pretty, young thing - stop worrying and being nervous and get out there and flirt/seduce like a ho!! I have to say I've noticed changes already. I'll give you gals an update. But please buy the book! Take control of your love life and your life in general. Instead of complaining about the hoes - join em in their own game and WIN!! Hoes are fun, flirty and aren't worried about being a girlfriend/wife which is what appeals to men!! Get the book!
You won't be disappointed!
**The only stuff I ignored/skipped over was the part about finding a married sponsor (Close your legs to married men!! LOL) and the lying about being sexually assaulted (that was disturbing)**