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Getting a young girl to cave in (self.asktrp)

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So I'm over 30 and met a young girl recently. She's very young (barely legal is the word?) and she just said we "can't be anything more than friends" (probably due to the age, but I just let that comment slip). I really want to bag this one. Any advice, trp?

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[–]VikingOverlorde 38 ポイント39 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I had a girl tell me this once. You know what I did? I said, "I understand if you think the age difference is too much" and moved on. If she's uncomfortable, which from reading your posts in this thread, you've probably made her feel that way, then you probably aren't getting laid. She's trying to turn you down in a nice way and you are now making her uncomfortable. There are too many women out there to desperately aim for one who's clearly not interested.

[–]ResentfulDead 48 ポイント49 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Find someone your own age you filthy nonce!

[–]adhoccthrowaway[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Why? She's young and tight.

[–]InspireAndAdmire 20 ポイント21 ポイント  (0子コメント)

hate to break it to you, just because they're young doesn't mean their tight

[–]mushroommountains 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (10子コメント)

Agree and amplify. Hang out with her then escalate. If she's attracted to you, you can beat out her ASD

[–]adhoccthrowaway[S] -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (9子コメント)

So the long game, then?

ETA: I don't know if she's attracted to me. Also I keep telling her compliments. Is that OK?

[–]mushroommountains 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (5子コメント)

Not the long game, just hang out with her one time and try to escalate and see how it goes. You're probably giving out compliments (validation) way too frequently, that is only going to make her less attracted to you

[–]adhoccthrowaway[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Thanks. I'll stop dishing them out.

Should I initiate any sexy talk over text, or just in person?

[–]mushroommountains 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Save that for girls that you've already hooked up with. You should only be texting her for logistics right now anyway so just schedule a time to hang out

[–]adhoccthrowaway[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Might be tricky, she'll be out of town for three weeks starting Monday.

Also I may have not said that I'm cheating on my wife haha so it's hard to shake her off on the weekend.

[–]failingtheturingtest 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (2子コメント)

This is the exact opposite of everything you've read in the sidebar (you did read the sidebar, right?)

Do not offer her compliments, that is validation.
Do not play a 'long game'. That doesn't exist. It is something men created to excuse them from having to take action. Similar to 'dad bod' or 'tomorrow'

[–]RedSkeller 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Tell her you don't do friends and hangout with her anyway. Treat her like that brat that she is and you'll bag it faster than cans at the grocery.

[–]Lice138 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (5子コメント)

Bullshit, if she honestly felt that way she wouldn't be talking to you.

[–]adhoccthrowaway[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (4子コメント)

That's what I think. But I don't know.

She also says she's prone to do crazy things. So it's mixed signals all the way down.

[–]Lice138 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (3子コメント)

I have run into this before and it worked for me, I give you this disclaimer in case it blows up in your face.

Think of it this way, if she said sex is not an option what do you really have to lose at that point. Make a move and make sure it is timed right.

[–]adhoccthrowaway[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Sure.

The timing is tricky though. First date out? Also how do you recommend me making a move? I feel that being young she may be shocked if I move too fast (say, proposing or even just driving to a hotel after a makout session).

I may be putting the cart before the horse though.

[–]Lice138 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

First date you want to make out with her at least. As soon as you get there, you are 1/2 way there- girls don't make out with their friends. Take her on a cool first date, something that a guy her age would never think about doing, something they could not afford to do with her.

[–]adhoccthrowaway[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

That's a good tip. I'll think about posibilities.

[–]homelessWOOKIE9 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Don't listen to her words, pay attention to actions. Pretend it never happened and continue on the route you were going