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Red flags galore with this one? (self.asktrp)

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Been seeing this chick for over 2 months now, she spilled out a lotttt on the last date we went on, probably thanks to excess alcohol but anyway. She confessed the following:

She's been on antidepressants for several years now (maximum dosage)

Has extreme trust issues because of her past (and only) relationship, the dude was constantly hitting on chicks left and right, got caught cheating etc.

Said she cheated on her bf once while on vacation with this guy she previously knew because he treated her like a princess even though her bf on the time treated her like shit and explained that she didnt follow through with having sex cause she 'couldn't do that it felt wrong'. She's also had a very low number of sexual partners even though she's very attractive,

Correct me if I'm wrong but she just sounds like a collection of red flags. How psycho is this chick on a scale of 1-10/advice on moving forward with her (still have side chicks of course)

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[–]zezozio [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Alcohol with antidepressant is a BIG No-No.

Added to the old boyfriend shitty, she's messed up, probably fucked up. Having been through that with an ex, I would walk away before getting more attached. Let other(s) fix that: that's no unicorn, that's a sea of pain coming your way.

[–]RunawayGrain [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

She's been on antidepressants for several years now (maximum dosage)

Nope. Should have been reaching for your keys right then.

Has extreme trust issues because of her past (and only) relationship, the dude was constantly hitting on chicks left and right, got caught cheating

Usually if she brings up the old boyfriend was a piece of shit, it's to cover the fact the she was a piece of shit. She's an alpha widow as well, so you will find everything you do compared to the 'shitty' ex boyfriend.

Said she cheated on her bf once while on vacation with this guy she previously knew because he treated her like a princess even though her bf on the time treated her like shit and explained that she didnt follow through with having sex cause she 'couldn't do that it felt wrong'.

I imagine this depends on how you define sex. At best she's saying she took advantage of an orbiter.

She's also had a very low number of sexual partners even though she's very attractive,

Nowadays, these two statements are a contradiction. I'm betting on the n count being at least three times what she is telling you.

[–]jb_trp [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

advice on moving forward with her

Here's all you need to know: Don't LTR this girl. That'd be a bad move. She'd be a plate at best, and if she shows too much crazy, next her.

[–]Lice138 [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Dont do it, she is probably full of shit. One day you will get her drunk and she will tell you how she has banged like 50 dudes.

[–]Endorsed Contributorfnordsnord [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

On anti-depressants is an instant deal-breaker for me. I won't even tap that for same-date sex unless I am drunk or SUPER horny. Women on anti-depressants are an unbelievable amount of maintenance. They exude misery.

Women with trust issues are much the same. You are carrying the last guys baggage. And usually she's loaded it with bricks.

Don't forget to double the number of sex partners she's claiming.

Run, Forrest, run!

[–]mamandem[S] [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

I think this sums it up perfectly, awesome response, sucks cause she's a dime looks-wise but seemingly absolutely fucked up emotionally/mentally, shame!

[–]deadwoodcylon [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

You had me at antidepressants. Dump and move on.