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[–]Redpillchapters 27 ポイント28 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Another conflict in the book I saw between Tom and Gatsby is the one of the guy that never had to work for anything in his life vs the one who had to work for it all. The rich old money guy that came from a good family and never had to worry in his life vs the late bloomer that had to work for it all throughout his life. Gatsby practically embodies the end goal of a lot of the guys taking the red pill when it comes to OUTER SUCCESS. A lot of us fell victim to bad circumstances in life and did have issues with family but we are trying to shift our life and make the best of the hand we were dealt. We don't want to be like Gatsby on the inside but we do want to be like him on the outside.

In today's world, a Tom Buchanan would never come to TRP, he would be out partying and traveling to wealthy places. An aspiring Great Gatsby would come here because he wants to live some of the life that Tom is living. Tom is the guy that had sex in high school with hot girls and slept around like a party animal in college. Gatsby is the guy that was too poor to go

What Gatsby suffered through his loneliness growing up is what so many I see on this sub are going through (I even posted a thread on it and would really like to offer a solution to this issue). Tom had the cool friends, the girls, and the lifestyle growing up so he never thought about his successes. Gatsby never had any of that and all of it was newly acquired by him. When you say re-live his past, so many men on TRP are actually trying to do that according to society.

Chasing after younger women, sleeping around like playboys they looked up to growing up, and not considering the thought of marrying or going into an LTR.

It is why I think that this issue deserves more attention than it has been given. How does a man finally break free from his lonely past full of issues like an abusive father and poverty and finally learn to live and enjoy life. Enjoy his new found success without having the strings of the past being tied to him.

I believe there is a powerful quote in the book about it and my thread is focused on that very topic:

Gatsby believed in the green light, the orgastic future that year by year recedes before us. It eluded us then, but that’s no matter—tomorrow we will run faster, stretch out our arms farther. . . . And then one fine morning— So we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past.

Escaping the past and creating a new future. It is unfortunate how an awful past can hurt us.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (0子コメント)

How does a man finally break free from his lonely past full of issues like an abusive father and poverty and finally learn to live and enjoy life. Enjoy his new found success without having the strings of the past being tied to him.

It can be done, not an easy thing because you are rewriting not only your entire paradigm / world view, but also the heavily entrenched synapses in your mind that continually lead you back to the horrible past. It's not always that you dwell on the past and wring your hands about woe is me. The way it works is more like your early life is where you learn how the world works and your expectations stem from that. I liken it to having a filter placed on your world view that only lets you see a certain wavelength of light. You must remove the filter, but it is the only way you can see the world and yourself.

What you learn about life between birth and about ten years old is practically set in stone. It's very difficult to change that, because it's the foundation for your understanding of how the world functions. Changing that is like learning water isnt wet, and fire doesn't burn you, the fundamental basis for everything involving other people is completely fucked up.

Later in life that chiodhood is there, casting it's pall on everything and everyone. It holds you back, keeps you from achieving as much as you could have. Just as sprinters pull heavy sleds or parachutes to get stronger so they run faster when they drop the impediment, the abused mind is running the race with the weight still attached. To succeed they must strive harder, put in more effort preparing, as well as in the final race and it's damn difficult to keep up and they rarely 'win.'

This can be how any social programing works, be it being raised by an ultra feminist mother, growing up poor and/or abused, as well as being sheltered all your life so that first hit from reality damn near kills you. Rewiring that is the hardest thing you could ever do, because its mental, and you must be aware of what you're thinking and why. It's the destructive and disruptive thoughts that stymie your growth, achievements and even your dreams and goals.

Lifting isn't easy, but it is simple and anyone can lift even if they are unaware of how, why, where. Rewiring your mind sounds simple, and the process is, but the implementation is very difficult. The process for changing your neural pathways consists of stopping yourself before you go down the well trodden path, making a new thought or pathway and using it instead, and it had better be a positive path or you're fucked. Continue using it until it becomes the default pathway. Sounds easier than it is.

Even doing this you are still limited, because you rarely know your potential, simply you dont know that it even exists, and you are unaware you don't know that.

I spent 30 years living with a filter that made my life at best gray, but usually very dark and hardly any light got through. I've spent the last five rewriting my thoughts, changing everything, making new memories that outweigh the old ones. Here I am at 45, actually happy with my life despite it being under construction. I prefer to live alone rather than shack up like I used to, and I'm living for me rather than paying for everyone else. I will never be rich, but I've never wanted to be. My satisfaction comes from doing, not having.

[–]garlicextract 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Tom Buchanan is Dan Bilzierian?

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    [–]tits_out_forTheBoys[S] 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (1子コメント)

    Haha I'm glad you saw this man. Your comment was one of the best I've seen here on TRP...very much deserving of a shoutout.

    WHO WINS in Gatsby?

    It's not Gatsby himself. He just fucking dies.

    Actually, it's TOM that winds up fucking all the bitches, getting all the money, balling hard as fuck, and MOST IMPORTANTLY, living to ball another day.

    This had to be one of the biggest realizations I made after swallowing TRP. All men strive to gain "Alpha traits" -- wealth, status, strength, career status, social status, etc. But without having first developed an "Alpha mindset," those traits have zero effect on a man's happiness. Changing what's on the outside means NOTHING if we haven't changed our insides first.

    Without having read the comment you made on that post, I might have overlooked the importance of that lesson. I can't thank you enough man.

    [–]dsav2 17 ポイント18 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    The lesson from the Great Gatsby is to never idealize women for something they're not. Gatsby transformed his life, from a poor young man to acquiring a fortune because he wasn't good enough for a rich and beautiful woman in Daisy.

    He kept a notebook that micromanaged every aspect of his life to self improvement, so that he would be able to marry her.

    In the end Daisy kills someone and Gatsby takes the blame for it willingly, and she forgets about it the next day.

    The plot teaches us how stupid it is to centralize your life, to acquiring someone as degenerate and vapid as Daisy.

    [–]Endorsed ContributorFLFTW16 9 ポイント10 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    I wish I had access to your literary interpretation when I read this book in high school English class. You summed it up quite nicely. Well done.

    [–]tits_out_forTheBoys[S] 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Gatsby is also guilty of breaking Law 18 from Robert Greene's 48 Laws.

    Law 18

    DO NOT BUILD FORTRESSES TO PROTECT YOURSELF - ISOLATION IS DANGEROUS

    The world is dangerous and enemies are everywhere--everyone has to protect themselves. A fortress seems the safest. But isolation exposes you to more dangers than it protects you from--it cuts you off from valuable information, it makes you conspicuous and an easy target. Better to circulate among people, find allies, mingle. You are shielded from your enemies by the crowd.

    [–]2RedPillSafe 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (5子コメント)

    Great observation.

    Just posted this almost at the same time:

    Brideshead Revisited Episode 6:

    http://youtu.be/7V3ovGZVCdk

    "Rex" is a Red Pill guy in an "Old Money" world.

    Red Pill only gets you "in the door" of the higher classes, but then you must change internally to become part of your new social class.

    I grew up in a wealthy area, but my family has gone into decline. My dad was the Red Pill "up and comer" and when he died young the family lost it's momentum and my mom went hardcore feminist and everything went downhill.

    So you can either rise or fall in life.


    The Upper Middle Class is difficult to sustain from generation to generation because it relies too heavily on Alpha traits. The Lower Upper Classes are more relaxed because they live off "Old Money".

    Very few "Old Money" families survive successfully from generation to generation.

    [–]tits_out_forTheBoys[S] 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (4子コメント)

    I grew up in a wealthy area, but my family has gone into decline. My dad was the Red Pill "up and comer" and when he died young the family lost it's momentum and my mom went hardcore feminist and everything went downhill.

    This is sad to hear. My condolences to you and your family.

    How have you dealt with your current situation? Was there anything you could do to turn that situation around, or is it a lost cause?

    [–]2RedPillSafe 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (3子コメント)

    My mother's ancestors go back to one of the Founding Fathers, but her family was only middle class at the time she married my dad who was a Red Pill "up and comer". He died of cancer in 1976. My mother grew increasingly feminist afterwards which came as a shock because we knew nothing of that when my dad was alive. Her feminist ideas began to reshape things in the family and that undermined everything from before. Later there was an ugly situation where my older brother and his girlfriend were suspected of poisoning my mother (not true) as they cared for her in the old house (amazingly beautiful... top of a hill... swimmimg pool hot tub... million dollar view) which prompted her to call in the state resources to eject them. The family no longer even speaks to each other and the beautiful house was sold.

    We were never "Old Money" like some I knew and grew up with. It was more like my dad was the Red Pill guy trying to establish his dynasty, but died too soon.

    I was the most successful in the family, but basically dropped out in 2001 and have led a simple life ever since. I'm still living off my own wealth (not working) but will get an inheritance in time. (mother is 80)


    Family success is more than just a solo Red Pill guy having kids. It's necessary for those kids to have the constant influence of the father throughout life and more importantly to suppress negative feminist ideas from catching root.

    The Upper Middle Class is a very transitional class.

    Many get there just barely, then slip backwards.

    It's not just about the money though, the kids go astray very easily.


    One of the guys we grew up with was truly Dark Triad even as we were kids and he's in some Lamborgini sportmans club we last heard. One of my other neighborhood kids is in the multimillions now.

    I'm still friends with a guy from kindergarten (45 years ago) but otherwise have little connection with that world.

    [–]2RedPillSafe 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (2子コメント)

    We used to spend summers with the son of Dean Lesher up in Grass Valley, CA:

    http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dean_Lesher

    Talk about dysfunctional families...

    This eldest son was essentially written out of the history books as Dean had largely disowned him. My dad gained access to parties at the Lesher Mansion through this son, but the son was kind of goofy and Dean was disappointed by his lack of Alpha traits.

    The son died of cancer around 1976 too. (makes you wonder sometimes)

    Later Margaret Lesher inherited everything on Deans death then died mysteriously in Arizona with a guy who was 20-30 years younger.

    http://www.vanityfair.com/culture/features/1997/09/drowning-california-socialite

    [–]tits_out_forTheBoys[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

    Later Margaret Lesher inherited everything on Deans death then died mysteriously in Arizona with a guy who was 20-30 years younger.

    This is him.

    The worst part about this is that he's a great looking guy. But instead of working towards his Mission as a man, instead of working his ass off for wealth, status, success, fucking all the bitches, etc...he decides "Fuck all that, I'll take the lazy way out and settle with easy wealth." So when these two fell in LoveTM, this guy essentially made a trade-off: Live off another Man's success (i.e. her dead husband's nest egg) while tying himself down to an old, dried up pussy.

    What a fucking Herb.

    [–]2RedPillSafe 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    "A Fool And His Money Are Soon Parted."

    Dean married a dingbat. (Margaret).

    Once the old guy died it didn't take long for Margaret to get really, really stupid. The guy just saw a quick way to get rich and Margaret literally fell into his lap. Margaret went LOOKING for a cowboy, not the other way around.


    It's very rare for a Red Pill social climber to successfully create a family dynasty. Those that do create a culture within their family which sees itself as having a higher purpose than just "getting to the top" tend to last longer.

    Red Pill gets you to the Upper Middle Class.

    Whether your offspring continue to excel depends on keeping the Marxist crap out which is hard to do.

    A lot of guys here are hardcore social climbers, but they don't see the other side of it because that appears within their offspring years off into the future. (and it's the wife planting the poisonous seeds)


    Cultural Marxism is a poison that kills everything it touches. Even though one might personally be immune their offspring will likely not be. That's why in the long run EVERYONE loses in the Feminist system... even the Red Pill superstars... because their legacy gets eaten away over time.

    Remember that Feminism wants to destroy all families... so it's a contradiction to be Red Pill and pro-Feminist if you think deeply enough. (this doesn't stop some here though)

    [–]TRPRealBray 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (2子コメント)

    The scene where gatsby and tom confront each other is in my opinion the most TRP scene in the movie. The scene is a frame battle, and Tom keeps his frame when it's important, reveals Gatsby's beta nature and ruins years of outer game that Gatsby's been developing in one conversation. Gatsby's life comes down to a frame battle. This very absolutely supports the idea that inner game is more important than outer game.

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      [–]TRPRealBray 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

      I've found that since seeing things through TRP lens that this is 100% true.

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      The book is a great piece of fiction, but if you want red pill examples, try to stick to history.

      Fiction, while enthralling, ultimately lacks real consequences, real moral and ethical dilemmas, and real people (and the reactions they make).

      [–]tits_out_forTheBoys[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

      I'm completely on-board with you there. Non-fiction reading and actual historical occurrences hold a lot more weight.

      In fact I probably wouldn't have bothered making this post if Gatsby wasn't such a widely known story. But your comment is an important reminder: real world applicability always tramples fictional stories in importance.

      [–][deleted] 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (1子コメント)

      Glad you're on board. A lot of posts like this are along the lines of "see, this proves TRP is real!" without acknowledging that fiction is scripted. When people use that shit, I ask them if the same standards apply to "Eat, Pray, Love", "27 Dresses", or "Cinderella"?

      Just last week sometime tried to use Kermit The Frog as a RP example.

      Seriously. A fucking puppet.

      [–]brotherjustincrowe 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (0子コメント)

      Kermit's really more of a MFGTOW

      [–]Endorsed ContributorNightwingTRP 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

      One of my favourite books of all time here. As with all great pieces of literature, it can be interpreted in multiple ways. Personally I felt the story was more about Nick and his changing views/feelings on what he saw. Much of what I've read here seems pretty confirmation-biased. So at least we know what you see from Nick's perspective. Very interesting to see how we each view things differently.

      Though remember gents.. caution is advised when you look to fiction for red pill examples. Keep it in mind.

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      You should read about F. Scott Fitzgerald's wife, Zelda.

      [–]RockyMountainTaste -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

      Everyone in the whole fucking book is a beta- listen to how they talk to each other. They are all wealthy

      The only character who is pure alpha is George Wilson. He works physically all day and has a hot wife. He is the only one who takes things into his own hands- a true alpha goes through hardships and kicks ass. Unlike Jay who was just a whiny friendzoned neckbeard all book then gets money just so he can whiteknight that one girl.