Am trying to get married for immigration purposes.

I have been trying to convince some female friends and also some past girlfriends and current plates.

The responses have all been about the same. Either they say they are not ready to get married or "the guy" has to have a job, a house, a car and no loans.

I feel like shit though, all those girls basically used me, whether it be for sex, help with college course work, clubs, going out... That all means nothing to them. Most of my male friends are way beyond in trying to help me with my current situation, as opposed to my female friends and other women who are distancing themselves from me.

Do not, I repeat to do not get married to women, do not invest anything into your relationships with them. They will only want you as much as you can benefit them.