https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4scuw7/brand_and_married_men/?
I have been stalled for months and I kept going back to this post. So a re-evaluation of /u/Scurvemuch’s information was critical to getting back on track. This is my attempt to build upon his information. As it is often said here you are the prize and rebranding yourself into a better, more masculine man is mandatory.
Further Breakdown of Scurve’s PRODUCT IDENTITY via Customer Perception –
Due to negative customer feedback, Sausage Factory is not open to customers - STFU. Mysteries are enticing. Open admission WILL invite more shit tests because you are basically calling yourself out as NOT NATURALLY DOMINANT. If you talk about fight club, you will be creating more work for yourself and diminishing the attraction and arousal towards you. Action is often the greatest kind of communication if you wish to increase arousal in your wife.
But the mystery diminishes COMFORT.
A Woman’s Mind Cock and Your Cerebral Pussy Equals MONEY SHOT – Your time and attention basically equal your brain pussy. You spending time talking and interacting with her is VERY akin to you letting her fuck you. Flirting and kino are obviously foreplay. So with enough verbal intercourse, she’s basically blown her emotional load and relaxes. So to no surprise…
This will build COMFORT and diminishes MYSTERY.
Customer Feedback Expounded –
Shit test – Little verbal queues to test how safe a woman is with “her” purchase and if it’s working as advertised. This is a clear indicator that she, at some level, is attracted to you. But you’re glitchy
Comfort test – Little verbal queues to test how safe a woman is with “her” purchase. This is a clear indicator that dread is being felt and she’s checking to see if her warrantee is still active.
Rejection - A.k.a. Major Shit test or rather “are you a pussy” test. Last minute resistance and hard no’s happen to absolutely test your mental dominance. You are too glitchy and she’s smacking the product hoping it will revert back to working condition. You must simply be okay with rejection.
Here is why - Her rejecting you has a very high spike of dread within her IF she cares about you. A husband doesn’t need to care about rejection because it should clearly bother his wife as much as it used to bother him. This will be repurposed to create arousal later on; more so if you really don’t care. This is the sole responsibility of her hamster so let it work to your advantage.
Balance – Being an Emotional tampon is you opening your slutty little brain to get pumped and dumped without her letting you do the same with your dick in her vagina. One to one ratio or two-thirds method is wholly up to the product, his physical and mental condition and the interpersonal value between product and customer.
Don’t void the warrantee - With Customer and Company interaction, it is counter intuitive; but eventually the wife is the one dealing with fixing damage control as she really is the one that owns the brand by marrying the product. Fitness tests cannot be avoided, so shit test, rejection, LMR and starfish sex actively diminishes attraction a husband has for his wife.
I suspect, much like how husbands must pass dominance checks, a wife must actively do damage control with acts of deference. I think this explains the difference between why a husband might stay in a relationship damaged by her cheating and why someone like 2gunsgetsome would choose to leave. Wife just sucks at appeasing her husband and the value of her actively declines in his life. /u/Persaeus had recently said that a wife’s strategy is akin to a spout, to be turned on as needed. I believe that to be the description of a wife with no sexual strategy to keep the marriage solid. This is the female version of a beta minded husband who just has no fucking clue.
Burger King has a dress code - A wife can have PTSD, high anxiety, be tired or a prude, not like anal, hates wearing lingerie, doesn’t cook, identifies as a feminist or call it whatever she wishes; her inability to perform is the feminine version of a man that cannot produce results, pass shit tests or generally succeed.
As for the actual “Product”.
To be honest, Scurve’s explanation is badass enough, so I can only add some consideration for his section on what’s NOT working as that’s where I got stumped the most.
If a guy cannot cultivate a full human experience for himself, he fails to be a brand worth “purchasing”.
Mental dominance over your own feelings is absolute. None of the above will matter or be consistently reproducible or believable if you don’t develop discipline. This is what I conceptualize when Scurve explains slaying dragons.
Just like Stronglifts 5x5, a progressive model of building frame is what I’ve employed to cultivate discipline. I’ve gotten burnt out too much in the last 15 months to do anything else consistently.
Hopefully, the above explanations will help developing STFU skills in others. Then add /u/man_in_the_world’s wonderful Oak and Rock responses, which has been a great challenge so far. Since his post, in practice, can easily be incorporated in this progressive rebranding, I highly recommend.
https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/5fuskv/how_to_handle_apologies_from_your_wife/
Lastly, develop your story. Branding should be an incremental evolution throughout life. There are a ton of examples to check out. Are you a Guitar Hero like 2guns? Yo Joe TFA? Ex_addict_bro Gorilla War Fighter? Or just a Persaeus in the world trying to be more than he was a day before.
All are admirable, interesting and worthy of any man’s efforts to learn RP praxeology through example. Either way, by developing that story you have to start developing a direction for your life.
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