Imo if looking for a fuck buddy doesent happen more or less spontaneously and you are putting too much effort in it then you are inevitabely setting yourself up for getting royally fucked and not in a good way.

Women will, at the smallest hint given, sniff out your desire to be with them and from there on its straight to rock bottom. Slowly but steadily.

What I found most beneficial, since all of my relationships were short term is to be able to walk out on her without batting an eyelid.

Emotional attachment doesent benefit you as a man. I lowsided a motorcycle once because I was angry over some insignifficant break up but I got lucky. Dont be stupid like I was.