It's all an act. She seems really cool at first, sort of like heroin. What a rush those first hits are, but as we all know the truth is slowly revealed. Sooner or later you realize that her charm, her beauty, her "chill" was all an act, but by then many men are trapped with no easy way out.

It's like after you have sex with her. She was gorgeous, (which is why you had sex with her), but as you look at her right after busting your nut you think "What the hell did I just do?!"