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[–]redmountainpill 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

This made me think about the men I've surrounded myself with. Almost all of my close friends have come through some type of sport-- endurance racing, skiing, climbing, etc. Almoost all of them are masculine men-- even the couple gay friends I have. I think there's something about proving your grit to another man, sometimes even having your lives on the line together, that creates strong friendships. I've never been military, but I imagine there's similar sentiment.

So that's what's worked for me. I have lifelong friends with masculine dudes because of sharing physical hardships with them. YMMV