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Her crazy commitment standards. (self.asktrp)

Louisie_steezy が 投稿

This girl im talking to has the most ridiculous standards. She is waiting for marriage for her virginity. Not to unusual, alot of girls think this. She told me that she is waiting for a committed relationship before she will give a blowjob. But she is totally willing to receive oral outside of the relationship I'm honestly wondering how she plans to find a relationship this way? The obvious answer here is soft next. But I want to know what could possibly be going through her mind.

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[–]firewaterdirt 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (17子コメント)

I think that the fact that she is telling you all this means that she won't pursue you sexually, but she might be totally different with another guy.

[–]Louisie_steezy[S] 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (16子コメント)

Which is what I'm thinking. I feel that ever girl will do it for the right guy. But it doesn't make sense because she activity contacts me to see me every day and has been the one to come on to me ( same college dorm)

[–]terminal_block 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (13子コメント)

You're probably a decent beta bux candidate so she wants to keep you around.

[–]Cunt_Robber 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (12子コメント)

I agree. Escalate with kino and see what happens. Hold frame and go for what you want OP--if she pulls back, next her. Let her know you're not looking to keep her around for friendship.

Chances are, if you get to the point where you finger her/give her oral, she will, with her feels caught in the moment, let you do more... But chances are she might "regret it" and subsequently accuse you of rape, so you either steer clear of the whole thing and next her now, or you cover your ass with evidence (audio recording during any private encounter).

IMO? Next her. Not worth the investment.

[–]Louisie_steezy[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (11子コメント)

See here is the thing. I'm only 21. And she is 18. Which I believe has a big part in it. I can't be a beta provider because I'm simply not the point in life where I can provide much yet. And i have been down on her. And I have fingered her. I even fingered her ass. I would chalk this up to her using me, but she is the one talking about being commited.

[–]DEVi4TION 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Next time you're messing around d with her pull it out and have her suck it, see what she does. If she blows you congrats. If she won't reciprocate then call the shit off. Call her a selfish hypocrite whatever but stop wasting your time either way.

[–]TheStumblingWolf 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

You can be a beta provider by providing validation and being someone who listens to her problems. It doesn't have to be material things.

[–]Louisie_steezy[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Lol I don't even give compliments. I guess the only commitment I've given is her hanging out with me.

[–]SetConsumes 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (7子コメント)

See here is the thing. I'm only 21. And she is 18. Which I believe has a big part in it. I can't be a beta provider because I'm simply not the point in life where I can provide much yet.

You're being too logical. She doesn't know why she treats you this way, but she can feel that your mentality and behavior is BB.

And i have been down on her. And I have fingered her. I even fingered her ass. I would chalk this up to her using me, but she is the one talking about being commited.

Hence, why you'd go down on her first. You're trying to please her so she'll please you in return, or so I presume. Not that playing with her pussy isn't fun in general, but eating her out first is a clear act of submission.

[–]Louisie_steezy[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (6子コメント)

I have not done it since I learned this if that makes a difference. So I'm looking like a beta now huh. Damn I guess I fucked this one up already lol

[–]SetConsumes 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (5子コメント)

I have not done it since I learned this if that makes a difference. So I'm looking like a beta now huh. Damn I guess I fucked this one up already lol

Its okay, you won't forget this lesson.

[–]Cunt_Robber 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Personal experience: ive gone on a date with a girl, escalated to the point where I was fingering her, took off her pants, ate her out. She orgasmed, then put her pants back on and totally refused to reciprocate. I actually described the experience in a comment on another thread here and asked what I did wrong: giving her an orgasm.

OP, make sure you escalate at a pace at which she can and will reciprocate. Do not pedestalize her by offering to please her first. Thats part of being a "nice guy." As you now know, they don't always return the favor. Be demanding, challenge her, tease her, let her gain your approval by making her escalate on you. Remember, go for what YOU want.

[–]SetConsumes 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

I imagine that left you both blue balled and more than slightly pissed.

[–]Louisie_steezy[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

This doesn't happen. She wants to go give me hand jobs. She will even lick my dick but won't suck it. She said she doesn't want me to be unsatisfied so I stopped going down on her and letting her do those

[–]FrameWalker 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Correct. One of my buddies in the collegetown I'm in regularly meets 20/21 year old college girls who are saving it for marriage. Turns out marriage means a British accent, nice eyes, and being built like a ruby player.

[–]PaperStreetVilla 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

She wants you, not for dick.

You wsnt her for dick, nit for whst youre getting

One of you is a shitty negotiator

[–]nastynickdr 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It doesnt matter what could possibly be going through her mind.

What matters is: will she fullfill your needs as a plate/LTR? If not, next.

Oh and dont be surprised when you find out she blowed/had her ass fucked by Chad(s).

[–]AskTRP Endorsed ContributorAFPJ 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

This girl im talking to has the most ridiculous standards. She is waiting for marriage for her virginity.

You mean double standards, that standard isn't for her, it's for you; question is, why are you still talking to her?

[–]SexistFlyingPig 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm saving myself for a perfect 10, 18-year-old virgin.

With God, anything is possible.

[–]MeatCurtainRod 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You see, when you are told about these kinds of stupid doublestandards by some girls, it simply means they literally have no standards. If you are chad, you can fuck her. If not, you have to put a ring on her to be able to fuck her. Remember it is all about reaping the benefits of what you offer. Chad offers sex, so she takes it. Others offer money and resources, so she will take it. I can guarantee she isn't a virgin even in the most traditional sense of the word. I can also guarantee every single one of her holes has had chad's cock in it.

[–]PaperStreetVilla 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Girls make excuses to fuck an alpha, they make rules to not fuck a beta.

Also, ego means entitlement.

You dont have to buy into whats not worthwhile

[–]the-bum-hammer 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

She told me that she is waiting for a committed relationship before she will give a blowjob. But she is totally willing to receive oral outside of the relationship

She's just an idiot. Not worth any effort.

[–]mabden 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

she is totally willing to receive oral outside of the relationship

Test this theory. Get her showered up, on the bed, legs spread, bring your A game oral skills to take her to the edge of orgasm. Stop. Her reaction will tell you everything you need to know about her willingness or not to reciprocate and/or fuck.

If you want some pointers, Nina Hartley has a demonstration video online.

[–]GentlemenMindset 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Somewhere along your interactions she decided you weren't fuckable. Your frame gave into hers and her sexual attraction to you is nonexistent.

She throws the idea that she's willing to receive oral to keep you hooked so that one day you would do it and she would maybe, possibly return the favor.

I'm willing to put everything I have on the idea that she at the very least slobs some knobs.

Back off, cut contact, go be more attractive.

[–]Endorsed Contributorfnordsnord 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

So she'll take head, but not give it? Self centered. Next.

[–]Musicgoon 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Who gives a fuck what she's thinking. She's selling you a pile of shit. She's giving lame excuses. Google the Brad Pitt rule. If she wants to fuck, she will. She probably already has. Don't bother with the soft next, ditch her. You're friend zoned.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMattyAnon 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

But I want to know what could possibly be going through her mind.

Delusion.

Sometimes they go straight for betabucks, and get their alphafucks later.

[–]biblesjedi_mindtrick 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

But I want to know what could possibly be going through her mind.

Receiving oral isn't a "pump & dump". Some women don't like that score. A lot of women like to feel something for the guy, or don't like casual sex.

[–]amekooky 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

youre not worthy of her .. next her.

[–]SIC_redditcruiser -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (2子コメント)

She's religious.

[–]Louisie_steezy[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

She's not. We talked about this. It's all seeming based in nothing because she has no beliefs in god

[–]SetConsumes 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Do you need more to believe she's simply spouting shit and has no convictions?