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An alternative to Married Red Pill.... (self.askMRP)

BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret が 投稿

This story shows the level of desperation and the ultimate alternative to married red pill.

'She would never make love to me. She will not sit close to me and always refuses my demands.'

This guy did not take the Red Pill. His wife's description of him is textbook. She blames him for being a drunk but who wants to bet that he didn't start to drink heavily until after the most recent kid when she cut him off?

She has rubbished her husband's claims that she is to blame.

The Hell you say? Who would have thunk it?

He would come home drinking every night and never listened to me or cared for me.

Of course he did sugar plumbs. Early on you thought that he was out drinking and maybe whoring so you tingled away for him long enough to get your fuck prizes. After that, you realized he is not getting laid after all. So that means I don't want to have sex with him either! See how that works?

Also, note the big laughs and yucks. Now switch the genders. A young female is so distraught when her lover won't have sex with her that she stabs herself repeatedly in the cootch with a knife.

Hilarious.

TLDR: If the dude was out banging young sluts his wife would be fucking him and he would still have a dick. So say we all.

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[–]RPAlternate42Red Beret 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I just got back from the doctor. She said I did a pretty good job on the cut and that after a week or so I should be able to walk. She recommends changing my bandage every day too.

I can't wait for all the sex I'll have now that my wife knows who the real man is!

[–]FireTempered 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Men lose their, soul, their balls and their lives, much too often.

I think of one of the great hit songs, "When A Man Loves A Woman" by Percy Sledge, says so much about the blue pill frame and how sad it is.

So Say We All.

[–]ParadoxThatDrivesUs 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (3子コメント)

This post is nothing more than a victim puke on behalf of someone else. Once you grasp AWALT, how many more examples do you need? At some point, you have to just let it go.

[–]SampsonBrass 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

True. The Daily Mail for fuck's sake. England's vagina.

[–]ScurvemuchRed Beret 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Englands Vagina seems dry

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

He did let go! The point is that may not always be the solution.

[–]RP_SuitScholar 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Here is the scary thing. I have known some dudes from dead bedroom relationships and they would actually identify with this guy at least academically. This kind of reaction is a combination of his ignorance (he is a third world citizen) and YEARS of female psychic warfare. Some dudes will read this post and laugh, but I hope they don't miss the bigger point BluepillProfessor is making. This is the extreme expression of what blue pill conditioning can do to men. And it's fucking horrific.

[–]anythingincRed Beret 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Without commenting on the article, I will say that I have gotten the impression that the incel and deadbedroom subs occasionally discuss chemical casteration, medications, and other methods to suppress their libido to compensate for their partner's lack of attraction/libido and/or their sexless/affectionless existence. I can't imagine resenting my libido, much less desiring draconian methods to extinguish it.

[–]Persaeus 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

medications, and other methods to suppress their libido to compensate for their partner's lack of attraction/libido and/or their sexless/affectionless existence

Searching for this is how I found TRP 15 months ago. It's not so much resenting your libido, but searching for something to make the "pain" (i.e. validation seeking) go away. Best to stop seeking validation.

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

One reason I found Athol Kay and then red pill was a serious discussion I had with my wife about taking libido lowering drugs. This is not a 3rd party victim puke. This is reality for millions of men.

[–]redmountainpill 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

When I was Mormon in my 20s, fearing sex because of the threat of damnation, I wished I could extinguish my libido.

[–]ex_addict_broRed Beret 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (2子コメント)

who wants to bet that he didn't start to drink heavily until after the most recent kid when she cut him off?

Weak geezer, switched sex addiction to booze addiction to feel good.

When observing sexual strategy of a woman I date I actually understood. This whole "IDGAF" shit we need to do is convince them we aren't really weak, sexually addicted males. That you want to genuinely make love to her and not just use her.

Of course as long as we're talking about valuable women, not women who are genuine pump and dump material.

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

I am so glad I have you to bust my ass and remind me of this perspective. We are a regular MRA meet 12 steps duo.

[–]ex_addict_broRed Beret 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I surprised myself recently, when writing a comment on the "main" subreddit. Seems being away from ex wife caused that I have re-framed my alcoholism. Previously I felt ashamed for not being able to control it.

I though, maybe write a post about this. But who will understand me? Whatever.

Today it's different. I'm not ashamed anymore. Alcohol, volatile aesthetics and epoxy glue smell pretty much the same to me. Would I eat glue? Hell no. Would I drink sevoflurane? Bet your ass I wouldn't. Alcohol? That shit is really good for cleaning.

And what's even better, there are more and more sober hiphop musicians around. I saw one's instagram, when he signed his records, he actually used some menthol ointment so he won't smell the (obviously, alcohol based) marker pen. I remember when I opened car windows to get rid of the windshield washer fluid smell during winter and was berated by my then-wife for doing that.

There are more of us. Sober dudes. Give it a few years and it's gonna be cool again. Remember that "hard core/straight edge" subculture?

But, let's get back to the main point. Someone in the comments tried to shame me about not being able to control alcohol intake.

And then, I got enlightened.

Maybe I was never meant to control alcohol intake. Maybe I am just built this way.

I wouldn't eat glue, I wouldn't drink ether or gasoline. Why did I drink alcohol? I remember what effects it caused, I can imagine what did I used it for, but why? It is just some strange chemical substance, pretty deadly to me. Why did I drink it? Would I drink gasoline? Hell no.

So, that's the latest line of serious defense for me. Along with "I have already drank my portion... and perhaps someone else's too, thank you". I was never ever built to digest alcohol. I can get rid of it once I get it into my system, but my body is just not built for that. That's what I understood.

And, there are more and more things that I am not built for. Video games or bluepill marriage are one of them.

Byron Katie says that we're unhappy when we live in a lie. Just like we feel pain when we put a limb into a fire.

Just my $.25.

[–]weakandsensitive 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

If the dude was out banging young sluts his wife would be fucking him

yup. at least he'd be banging young sluts.

you see this type of shit week in and week out over at OYS. a huge part of the problem is their lack of abundance coupled with the refusal to do anything about it.

[–]A_RexRED KNIGHT 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Agree. True abundance sends their hamster and tingles into overdrive.

[–]stonepimpletilistsMod / Red Beret 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (5子コメント)

Enjoy the decline.

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (4子コメント)

I know it's more MRA but damn if we don't talk to guys like this almost every week. They keep trying to be nice and listen to her and she keeps whining "he never listens to me so I can't have sex with him." When husbands have been so emasculated as this sometimes it becomes a reality.

[–]redmountainpill 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (3子コメント)

I was at our last session of marriage counseling the other night (MRP has made it unnecessary). I asked the therapist if, when a husband fixes everything about himself that his wife hates, does it improve the relationship? Short answer was no

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

This is why we emphasize changing and improving the man not the relationship. If you think changing for a woman will make her desire you then you are better off with the mrp alternative.

[–]RCMasculinity 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Trust me when I say this from personal experience: If you change into everything your wife tells you that you need to be, nothing will improve. In fact she'll loathe you for it and things will be worse than ever.

[–]bogeyd6Mod / Red Pill Militia 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's just another iteration of "Careful what you wish for, you just might get it"

[–]iloveairplane 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

If he hasnt had sex with her in 10 years, I wonder who's 6 year old is in the picture with his wife.