There are three essential factors toward acquiring a better understanding of women and being able to communicate effectively:
1. Women's Nature
2. Hormonal Activities
3. Practices And Individual Preferences
The very first step is exploring women's nature. We have a human nature as well as our specialized gender expression which includes every design and mechanism related to each gender. If you wanna understand women, you have to understand how the gender represent itself.
1. Women's Nature
The Brain
The unisex does not exist in this category. Female's brain structure, analyst, emotion transmitter and hormonal pattern is completely different than males.
Pregnant Brain
Progesterone increases 30-fold in the first eight weeks of pregnancy, makes many women to feel very sedated. But it does not end here, woman's brain also shrinks during pregnancy, turns 4% smaller till the moment of delivery and it will return to the normal size six months after delivery. The brain start to find behavioral changes and develop maternal hormones.
Mother Brain
Women face physical, hormonal, emotional and social changes after childbirth. Thus woman requires "Physical & Mental" support in order to cope with the changes with an improved piece of mind and boosted relief which benefit not just the mother but the baby. In many cases, women find change of desires and taste after giving birth. Therefore the stress level is unstable mainly because the brain is under process to organize it's new information and any outsider interruption can cause the unnecessary breakdowns.
The Second Adolescence Stage
Women go through adolescence twice, The second adolescence starts near the age of 43 and reaches it's peak nearly by 46. The second adolescence or so called "Perimenopause" shows up with night sweats, erratic periods, sleeping problem, bladder problems and could continue to number of major health issues. During this phase, because of heavy hormonal fluctuation they could be as moody as a teenager.
Different Response Patterns To Pain And Anxiety
Female's brain shown to be more responsive to any small amount of stress. They attend to get impressed very quickly and find unstable emotions filled by anxiety. Women are less able to cope with high level of stress while this sensitivity can have benefits on it's own as it keeps the mental state alerted and flexibly aware, but it's continue in a long time can be damaging.
The Sex Drive - Turn Off
Woman's sex drive is way more sensitive than a man. Women can easily get turned off and the sexual drive goes upset with no comeback in a while. "Anger" "Distrust" and even having "Cold feet" could be a reason to reject a man to the moment. Pregnancy and menopause could potentially impress women's sexual drive in a off road as well. In order to have an active sexual mood specially to have an orgasm, many certain areas in her brain must come to a closure.
Listening
Listening is the most recognized mechanism of women. It is not a secret that women love hear. Women tend do understand the emotional parts of messages more effectively than men. Women process the messages on both sides of the brain and her brain responds positively to emotional phrases.
Unpredictable And Complex Behaviors
Complex physical, hormonal and psychological structure owned by woman won't make the unpredictable behaviors too surprising. Women has a very independent dictionary. What's been expressed is not what she necessarily meant. If there is a "Yes" according to woman's exclusive urban dictionary could be a big "No".
The second step is to explore hormonal activities which primarily works under brain's authorization and every element above are connected to the hormonal ups and downs one way or another as well.
2. Hormonal Activities
Complex System
Women's hormonal system "Menstrual cycle" and how it works is noticeably complex.
Follicular Phase, Ovulation, Cervical Mucus And Cervical Position, Time Of Ovulation, Ovulation And Conception, The Luteal Phase, Menstruation, are the cycle's processes during each month of occurrence.
Week 1: As estrogen begin to increase after her menstruation, she start to feel better, feel renewed as well as being optimistic and finding positive outlooks. Feels energized and outwards.
Week 2: Estrogen is toward the monthly pinnacle. She feels beautiful, sexy and more energetic, she feels on the top of the world, igniting and bursting out the energy and impacting everyone delightfully.
Week 3: After ovulation, estrogen dives down a bit, but fortunately the increase of progesterone avoids a full breakdown. She still feels energetic and active but there are moments of doubt and insecurity as well as being moody and grouchy at times.
Week 4: Both estrogen and progesterone decreases. She can be hunted by uncontrollable anger, depression, aches, mood swings, fatigue, poor concentration, she might need more free space and alone time.
Menstrual cycle is also followed by number of healthcare issues and risks as well, such as:
Absence Of Periods (Amenorrhoea), Painful Periods (Dysmenorrhoea), Heavy Bleeding (Menorrhagia), Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS), Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD)
The last step in order to understand women and to maintain a healthy relation with them is to explore their culture and personal preferences. Recognizing what environment they coming from. Each area, each region and each location holds a different type of big and slight culture and system. Brain grow and set the principles according to it. There is a majority culture where high rate of people been recognized by it and then individual tastes that comes to be varied for each person.
3. Practices And Individual Preferences
Majority Cultures
American Women:
They strive to be independent and original in appearance American women are probably are one of the most unpredictable and hardest ladies to stereotype.
Canadian Women: Canadian women are very competitive in the workplace, Many are extremely feminine, wear make up, get nails done and wear the latest modern fashions.
Russian Women: Russian women hold the value in traditions and chivalry. They take pride in themselves and have dress to impress attitude. Most of them claim Russian Orthodox faith but almost half of them really practice it.
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