Got married in May of 2013. We dated for 4 years before we got married and she seemed great. She worked and treated me great. I did however overlook several warning signs.

We had been on rocky group ever since we got married. She wanted to quit her job to go to law school and we would thus loose our benefits. After some discussion I decided to join the National Guard so that we would have coverage. She was on board, or at least that's what she told me. I leave and go to BMT and she writes me one times and it is basically to say this is too hard for her and it ruined our marriage. She comes to graduation tells me she hates me and blaw blaw blaw. I go to tech school and she comes to visit and all is great. After the visit she basically quits talking to me.

I return home (away for 5.5 months) and show up at home and her reaction is, "what are you doing here?". She won't have sexy time with me because "I don't know how I fell about you". We have some arguments but we are okay but then she says she wants a divorce. I gather my things but never move out. She is a total bitch to me for the rest of the time (2.5 weeks). One day she is gone and I finally make the move back to my parent's house. We agree to spend some time apart in which she never tries to talk to me. I post something about going to get food with my best friend (female) and the wife goes batshit crazy.

She has a daughter from a different relationship (never adopted) and now forbids my mother or me from seeing her because I can't be trusted. My mother and her daughter were best friends. My mother pretty much had her every weekend. My wife claims she has proof that I cheated on her the entire time (I've never touched a soul). Our house is in my name and we both worked and made the same amount of money and we don't have any kids together.

So yesterday I get a message that unless I give her the house and $1,000 a month alimony. She has said that she she is going to send the "proof" to all of my customers and up my chain of command.

*Edit: the first time I said she was going to send proof unless I signed. I guess I inferred it but she never said it directly.