Not all of them. Some are simply too stupid. But i knew one woman, after three years i told her i missed her a bit when i was away longer. What happend was nothing but crazy. After i let my guard down she used that to make me feel bad.
How?
She told me i would never ask her about her day or whats happening - which was a lie to begin with and i would be toxic and always "the best" and way too "arrogant" and that she has "boundaries" - she did it in a very intelligent way so despite having a lot of experience with humans my emotional stated numbed me. In the moment it was totally true. She was probably jealous of me traveling, wouldnt want to hear about my "fun" stuff.
It was when i became angry because she would play games with me. I saw her once again and what was really the case was this: She would never ask me anything but wanting all attention. She most likely exposed herself because im smarter than she is in the end. She didnt even ask me ONE fucking question about my traveling. Not one. How stupid can you be as a person? I see it now as weak that i fucked up that part. Most women should be taken to the cleaners they are empty soulds.
ここには何もないようです