When I was in early 20 I was completly broke, in debt and unemployed, living with my poor mom, badly needed money, so I got a job of being translator from Spanish though I didnt speak a single world in Spanish. How I did it ? I uploaded photos of attractive woman to dating website and I asked hispanic men to do it FOR ME. Of course they did it and this is how I got a good job, got paid and got kickstart in life - by abusing natural instinct of men to offer help and service to female.
Everybody can do something for free, its easy to be nice, and this easiness makes you not 'decent man' (its only your hamstering) but sucker. The art of social skill is never ever do anything for free. Its much more fun for you and other people to get something and for them give sth. If someone ask you for little help you can blantly refuse but why not negotiate a deal for yourself, it may be a beer, 5 dollars, meal, whatever. If they refuse 'reward' then you know they looked for sucker.
People will respect you more if you are not completly free. Only suckers do work for free.
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