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The Alpha Pass (self.TheRedPill)

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Men are aware of the "Pussy Pass" that women get.

What I'd like to talk about today is the "Alpha Pass."

Yes, blue pill betas (and red pill wannabees who are KJing at being alpha) often have no idea that this exists, but it's very real.

What reminded me of it was reading this article by a very self-aware woman published in one of the few papers that would not censor such thoughts, the UK's Telegraph.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/comment/personal-view/3608577/Its-OK-for-alpha-males.html

She rambles on about various examples, of bad behavior, and even worse punitive fines. But then she says something remarkable:

"Men who are funny and charismatic and easy with women can get away with almost anything. One of my favourite colleagues has a habit of waggling his eyebrows suggestively at me across the room, while his hands describe an hourglass shape in the air. I find it very cheering. From a less charming man, such behaviour would be horrid - perhaps even actionable."

"Sexual harassment is a crime committed by beta-males who think they can get away with alpha behaviour."

Let that sink in for a minute.

A woman committed the politically incorrect thought crime of discussing the Alpha Pass in a mainstream media publication.

Then she twists the shiv in the beta males' collective stomachs:

"But that is a distinction too delicate for the blunt instrument of the law. How do you explain to a judge why one man's comedy is another man's bone-chilling lechery? And can we really expect the beta-males themselves to understand the difference?"

Bottom line, actions that would get a beta slapped, or reported to HR, or even the cops called, is welcomed when an Alpha is gracing a woman (providing tingly feellings) with the same attention.

A lot of guys are going to be pissed off at this. But she says it herself: A lot of guys are incapable of understanding real Alpha behavior, let alone incorporate it into their being. They're internal betas. Women recognize this. And while they're willing to socialize, befriend and behave civily around these betas, they're revolted by them if the beta brings up anything sexual.

Update: This is for the guys who are getting on here and demonstrating that they don't "get" Alpha by talking about good looks and Alpha as being the same thing. You're exactly the kind of beta who can't "understand the difference" that Jemima Lewis was talking about in her article.

Maybe this meme poster will help you out.

http://i2.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/984/818/bc0.jpg

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[–]lamentationsoftheir 47 ポイント48 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Fantastic point, OP.

"Sexual harassment is a crime committed by beta-males who think they can get away with alpha behaviour."

Could not agree more, this 100% lines up with my lived experiences.

[–]stonasis 12 ポイント13 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Would she regret sleeping with you if you were Brad Pitt?

No.

[–]anotherpotaccount 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's also true from a legal perspective. Sexual harassment is unwanted attention. If your coworker likes you grabbing her ass then there's nothing illegal about it.

Of course it is very unprofessional and could get you fired. Another person in the office could theoretically complain she feels harassed by it as well, even though you never speak to her (why do you think she's so jealous!).

[–]blackedoutfast 172 ポイント173 ポイント  (7子コメント)

A great man once said: "When you’re a star, they let you do it. You can do anything. Grab ’em by the pussy. You can do anything." And he was absolutely correct. You can get away with anything, and they love you for it.

And for the guys who have never experienced the Alpha Pass, the guys who worry about manspreading and the guys who get creep-shamed for making direct eye contact: this isn't some kind of metaphor. You can literally grab women by the pussy and there are no consequences. They just squeal with delight.

[–]Marcus1138 17 ポイント18 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Yep. People are pissed off about that comment not because it's harassment, but because it reveals an uncomfortable truth. Uncomfortable to men who aren't at Trump's level, and uncomfortable to women who don't want men to know about SMV.

[–]Swallowed_the_pill 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (1子コメント)

And uncomfortable to fat, miserable feminists who would never get grabbed by the pussy from a man they desired, because "fat phobia".

[–]sweeptheleg55 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I think it's just uncomfortable for women to admit they are attracted to shitheads because they were evolutionarily screwed into desiring the guy that will kill your neighbors for food when your babes are starved. 1 million years of that makes women completly screwed emotionally. They think they want a nice guy. But they don't. They'll settle for him at 35. Pathetic creatures the vast majority. They're mantra is to embrace this stupid feeling. fuck through their 20s and make no attempt at bonding with a non alpha. Then at 30 it turns around. They realize they were dumb but they still didn't understand it. They start to give nice guys a shot. And probably learn to lot him in a way. But by 35 our personalities are set. And have a woman that doesn't know what real love is and a man that doesn't know how to be a man.

[–]EntropyAnimals 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

And then there's technology facilitating delusion. The limitations of DNA are charming.

[–]marplaneit 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

When I was in highschool any stupid thing done by me was seen as creepy casi I was a beta playing 16hours a day of computer.

The other day I went to a female friend grab her a lovehandle "Start telling your body to better storage this fat on your boobs" while staring at her bra. She giggled like a 8yo and told me "you are such a jerk, but deep inside I know you love ".

Hahaha "maybe I do " patt her on the head and kept walking.

This behavior 3 years, would have land me straight into jail.

[–]wallpunchist 38 ポイント39 ポイント  (15子コメント)

So now we're going to get women openly discussing alpha-passes, emasculation and mistreatment of unwanted males (to the point of putting them in place by a social face-slap)? Gee, I wonder what will bluepills do. I'd say nothing.

Feminist indoctrination is working, now we're having bluepill bluepills. But this will, in the end, lead to another power shift.

[–]TrumpRules2016 26 ポイント27 ポイント  (12子コメント)

Then women wonder why there are so many men who are against the idea of marriage. The article validates that Trump was right with his whole "grab them by the pussy" comment.

[–]ReddittFeist[S] 25 ポイント26 ポイント  (6子コメント)

Trump is a Natural Alpha. He's never been beta, so he doesn't know the reality betas experience, where if you grab a woman's pussy the cops get called.

What was most significant in what Trump said was this: "You can do anything"

For Alpha Male Trump, that's his reality.

Trump doesn't live in the beta world where one can't do everything with women.

[–]TrumpRules2016 33 ポイント34 ポイント  (5子コメント)

He also said that they let you do it

The funny thing is how many people were pissed about the comment, yet have experience similar things from women. On a night out towards the end of the night, a woman came up to me and just grabbed my dick and smile. She was attractive and we kissed, but unfortunately, not much happened after.

Another woman who was throwing shit test at me through the night just grabs my dick, without my permission. I removed my hand, but she acted like she was entitled to grabbing it. It was crazy. We made out and stuff, but apparently, "I wasn't big enough for her."

[–]cholomite 22 ポイント23 ポイント  (1子コメント)

The way the media tried to spin his statements as "Trump admits to sexual assault" was hilarious. He very obviously said they "let him do it". When Anderson Cooper tried to corner him about his admitted "sexual assault" during the debate all I could do was laugh.

I've been on both sides of the alpha pass, as I'm sure a lot if us have. When women view you as alpha, they get excited and turned on when you push the boundries.

[–]saibot83 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yup, hit it off like a house on fire with this chick at work (won't EVER go there again). I pushed all the boundaries I could and she fucking ate it up. I could say the lewdest most suggestive stuff to her face and she just laughed and went "Oh, you..." with a lingering smile on her lips. We talked on the phone for hours. She often said her boyfriend was jealous of me (she delighted in that). Along the way I messed up and displayed some beta tendencies (was severely blue pill in the past) she picked up on.

Then when she'd started to progressively get annoyed/repulsed by me I really messed up by getting drunk at a party and stupidly made a crude move on her. Oh boy, she HATED me after that. Everything I said was awful, reprehensible. I was a pig, a sexist, a racist, etc, etc, etc. All the things she previously loved she now hated and I could do no right. Had I not gone beta mushy feely on her I'm convinced I could've fucked her silly eventually.

[–]SickFetish 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (2子コメント)

"I wasn't big enough" Sounds like a shit test to me.

Agree and amplify response: Right, I bet I couldn't even reach your G spot and have you shaking within the hour. Why I bet I couldn't even make your fucking toes curl from all the pleasure you'd get from me tearing that pussy up.

[–]Faghomo 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Sounds too try-hard, I'd go with something shorter.

[–]failingtheturingtest 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

"I have no doubt, I bet I could hear the ocean in that thing"

[–]squidracer 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (4子コメント)

I had a first date this summer where I pretty much grabbed her by the pussy on a park bench. Had a couple drinks. Went for a walk, we kissed and I said fuck it. Sent my hand right up her dress.

Actually did the same thing the next week on a first date, but she was on her period so it didn't go anywhere (least not that night)

[–]Barvazon 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (1子コメント)

They tend to lie about that, do heads up

[–]squidracer 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

No, lasted 4 months.. Pretty much that same Friday every month

[–]mummersfarce_is_done -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (1子コメント)

So she went on a date while at her period?

[–]squidracer 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It was a convenient time.. We both had work to plan around

[–]stonasis 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I don't care for the BP men of the world but we need them on board for political reasons.

[–]arghx7 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

The article was dated 2004.

[–]lqtys 60 ポイント61 ポイント  (9子コメント)

Feminism is not a war against men, is a war against beta men. The beta men the same feminism has created.

It's the same thing that each individual woman makes with their relationships. They will transform their boyfriends/husbands into beta, and start arguing and starting battles over any little thing, a war against their now beta bfs/husbands.

Feminism is just female nature but in colective form.

[–]drty_pr 20 ポイント21 ポイント  (6子コメント)

Women have no clue they are doing this to their husband. It's almost completely on a subconscious level. They often wonder why they don't wanna fuck their man anymore as well.

[–]subjectivealpha 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

They tend to blame it on socialization too rather than female nature itself.

[–]FatalTypingAccident 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Isn't it just a natural consequence of spending so much time with the same woman? Of course she's going to rub off.

[–]SickFetish 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (3子コメント)

What? dude no, you think Hugh Heff acted like a fucking pussy? Fuck no, Hugh swam in the pussy and the water was FINE.

[–]CaptainSaveAHoe555 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Hugh was cucked by his first wife while a deployed soldier. There was a reason he became what he is.

[–]SickFetish 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

I didn't know that. I'm sure you can agree most beta's are going to stay betas without seeking some form of enlightenment for why they end up in these powerless situations.

[–]fenghsui 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

That is the definition of beta. Red pill is all, and only, about facing the scary truth.

[–]fabric_dindu_nuffin 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I don't think you're getting enough credit for how profound that actually is.

[–]Swallowed_the_pill 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I feel like it's more a war against themselves and their poor life choices.

It's societies/genetics fault that I ate to much for four years straight and got fat. It's their fault that I spent 500k on my gender studies degree that didn't get me any jobs. It's their fault that I got a kid at 16 from having unprotected sex while being drunk at a party. It's their fault that I don't do anything productive and suffer the consequences.

[–]12isLimited 21 ポイント22 ポイント  (4子コメント)

I have said so many cringeworthy shit and still got women, i was openly sexist, still got women, i made nasty remarks, still got women, you can even be a fucking serial killer and still get women, all you need to have is charm. It's almost like the women forget who you are or something, they just ignore that part of you, it's fascinating

[–]squidracer 22 ポイント23 ポイント  (3子コメント)

I once said "single mom's are the worst moms" to a single mom

Still fucked the single mom

[–]12isLimited 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

And that's what i'm talking about, good shit

[–]Fryguy48 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It is ridiculous because when said to a Beta they flip their shit. It's amazing really.

[–]Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Be attractive. Don't be unattractive.

Beyond that, much like with food, it's in the presentation. Personally, I get away with murder because I know how to turn a phrase. It's a learnable skill.

[–]bmer92 8 ポイント9 ポイント  (18子コメント)

Can confirm was talking to wife about roids I was about to buy she said I won't stay if you buy them their dangerous yada yada. Bought them anyway been making my juice gains she sees me do them before the gym and just says wow their really helping you while fondling me. Same thing with buying guns and other shit. It's all smoke and mirrors think of it as a test do something she doesn't agree with if she accepts it begrudgingly or changes her mind when you do it she views you as alpha. If she leaves because of it she views you as beta and did you a favor by showing it.

[–]TrumpRules2016 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (17子コメント)

Just curious, I don't plan on roids anytime soon, but I'm currently 25 and maybe in 15 years, might consider not steroids, because that stuff scares me, but a testosterone booster of sorts.

How much do steroids cost and do you notice any bad side effects? If I was to do them, I wouldn't be taking crazy huge doses. Just enough to keep testosterone levels high.

[–]lodro 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (3子コメント)

The most common steroid people use is just testosterone in an excessively high dose.

Testosterone boosters do not actually exist, it is all bullshit to separate retards from money.

Reddit has a decent steroids sub or two where you can answer those questions for yourself, and a TRT sub that's sort of ok.

In short: high testosterone is pretty easy to manage but also easy to fuck up. The kind of guys that are attracted to it and risk tolerant enough to do it are, as a group, not the brightest or most thoughtful bunch. So a lot of them have quite bad side effects and most of them have minor to moderate sides. Mostly gynecomastia, or at least that's the most talked about.

[–]TrumpRules2016 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Ok, that makes sense. I wouldn't take the testosterone in excessive high levels. It would be something I take when I'm older and my body doesn't produce as much testosterone as it does now, at 25.

Luckily, I never bought testosterone boosters and probably won't ever, since I have heard not just from you, but other places that they are scams.

[–]lodro 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Ah yeah. TRT is very easy to do and very safe. You still have to keep estrogen balancing / blocking drugs on hand but the dose required (if any) is very low.

[–]TrumpRules2016 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

That's good to hear. That's probably what I will do just to keep testosterone levels around what they are currently (25 years old), when I'm in my 40s.

Just looking to stay in good shape and look good. Not looking to take testosterone and get crazy big. I'm pretty strong as it is and have enough size. Currently 5'9" and about 177 lbs and can bench more than 315 lbs. did 315 for 2 reps with no assistance recently.

[–]bmer92 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (9子コメント)

Depends on what you do test is 30-40 for 10ml a vial lasts 1-3 weeks depending on your level. Most roids don't cost more then 40 bucks tren e being an exception and equipose being about 60-80 depending on how many mg. For a beginer stick to test tbh I'm your age and it doesn't mean shit when you cycle off because your test is going down slowly rn anyways have a pct ready just incase. I blast and cruise doing roids year round at 25 my t level is 3047 i gained 14 pounds in my first cycle

[–]TrumpRules2016 -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (8子コメント)

$30-$40 for almost a month isn't bad, given the amount people spend on useless crap and I will likely be making more money in 5-10 years. I've always heard of steroids being something absurd, like 200-300 per month. Honestly, when I am older or if/when I start, I would mainly stick to test.

Testosterone level is my main concern when I am getting older and I don't really need to mess with much else, since I already take whey protein, creatine, glutamine and bcaa's. I'm around 5'9" and about 177lbs and like where my body is at, since I'm pretty strong and look good. I'm just hoping that I still have the body that I have now, when I'm in my late 30s, early 40s. I don't see myself needing crazy high doses each time, because it would be mainly about maintenance and not about looking getting crazy huge.

[–]bmer92 -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (7子コメント)

I spend about 400 a month but im so advanced and deep in it if I stop doing them I may drop 40+ pounds. I reached my genetic capacity so I decided to keep going the unnattural way. Dont waste your $ on those supp craps roids and protein bro you might gain 2 pounds a year after 3 years of lifting or you could gain 2 in a week on the juice. Just dont strangle your cat your mom or your cock and youll be fine.

[–]TrumpRules2016 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Yeah, i mean I take whey protein for the extra protein in my diet and to help muscles after working out.

Creatine monohydrate has been very effective for me and is cheap ($20 for 200 servings). Glutamine has been good for immune systems and has other benefits. BCAA's are supposed to be good for your muscles and I'm trying them to see if I notice a difference.

I mean I like where my body is at and not trying to get much bigger. The testosterone when older would be for maintaining my body and keeping test levels high. Nothing crazy. Just consistently increasing strength (can bench 315 for 2 reps no help).

Not trying to get too deep into roids. Probably just stick to testosterone, when the time comes.

[–]bmer92 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Whatever floats your boat, my suggestion for protein animal whey best bcaa combo per serving they even have a table that shows you whats in each serving, my second favorite is ISO

[–]TrumpRules2016 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Oh ok. I have been using the MyProtein whey isolate, which I like. I buy the unflavored one and use their flavor drops. I also got glutamine and bcaa's through them.

For creatine, I get the universal nutrition creatine, which is creapure. I might try the animal whey sometime.

[–]bmer92 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You dont need to buy bcaas animal has more bcaas per serving then most mixes. You can just buy a huge 150 serving bag for 100$ and take 2-3 servings a day and save dough and get more gains and protein ontop of it. Bcaas are in most sources of protein why spend extra?

[–]scissor_me_timbers00 -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (2子コメント)

What do you think about pro hormones aka legal steroids

[–]bmer92 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Shockingly I happen to be a PT lol... If your over 30 tribulus zma and DHEA work well for natural test production, even horny goat weed works too. But at the end of the day efficiency and cost wise legal/illegal test is top dog.

[–]scissor_me_timbers00 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Consider pro hormones first which are borderline illegal but still legal online, and come in pill form

[–]FrgElder 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (5子コメント)

"Sexual harassment is a crime committed by beta-males who think they can get away with alpha behaviour."

It's true. I've heard girls cry harassment and feel uneasy because guys try to talk to them. I've seen girls call a guy a creep because he "stared at her weirdly" even though all he was doing was minding his business and sitting in the corner of a room sulking.

Within minutes of meeting women I've grabbed their tits, asses, and even grabbed them right by the pussy. I've done this from a buyer's mindset and acted like I was jokingly "just checking the goods". What were the reactions? Laughs, smiles, a slap on the shoulder, and then "fuck me" eyes. I'm not as brazen in the work environment, but I do get away with more suggestive behavior that other less attractive guys would get chastised for.

This topic can be illustrated perfectly in the SNL sexual harassment skit that Tom Brady was in. Basically if you look like Tom Brady, you can get away with anything with women and all you'll be met with is laughs/smiles and a "oh you're so funny".

[–]AlphaFux_BetaBucks 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

SNL Skit

[–]fenceloverfence 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Do you want ugly betty to wink at you? Do you want Allesandra Ambrosio to wink at you? Why is this something you guys of this sub think you "discovered" about the mysterious nature of women?

[–]HootieMane 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

I'm new here, as in just subbed and started reading some of the sidebar articles today. But I believe the point being made is that women are not punished for their sexuality. And especially not with varying degrees of punishment based on their attractiveness.

[–]fenceloverfence -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

because culturally women are not the ones who initiate so the fact that women don't get punished is "logistical". It's correlation not causation.

[–]HootieMane 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

If one sex is required to do the initiating according to culture, then how much sense does it make to punish the initiator based on their perceived attractiveness?

[–]nicksnice 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Lmao like the Tom Brady SNL skit. 1. Be attractive. 2. Don't be unattractive.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Funny, yet sad. When women feel comfortable in dropping their facades and speaking directly about 'the game', it means the culture is fuuucked.

[–]Donotevencare 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I thought you wanted women to be more honest?

[–]fenceloverfence -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

you mean it was a secret to you that people like attractive people? Have you even considered that you are a victim of a culture that perpetrated the lie that men's looks don't matter?

[–]blackchadthundercock 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (0子コメント)

But she says it herself: A lot of guys are incapable of understanding real Alpha behavior

I wouldn't have it any other way. The world needs betas to make my life easier with women.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMattyAnon 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (3子コメント)

a distinction too delicate for the blunt instrument of the law. How do you explain to a judge why one man's comedy is another man's bone-chilling lechery?

Well one way to explain it might be the observation that if it's ok for one man to do it, it shouldn't be a crime when another does so.

Theft doesn't depend on the perpetrator, because it's well defined in law. Sexual harassment needs the same rigorous application of definition, lest it all comes down to feelz.

[–]halfwhitehalfred 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (2子コメント)

theft does depend on the perpetrator, the taking of your stuff has to be deemed undesired by you (a stranger taking your stuff is not the same as your mom, you might even think it's for the better she took it) Eating is good, shoving food down one's throat is torture. An action being desired or not makes the distinction between a crime and a non-crime. Why is it so hard to understand?

[–]Endorsed ContributorMattyAnon 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

the taking of your stuff has to be deemed undesired by you

Theft is taking without consent. The police would establish consent to take, rather than the attractiveness of the perpetrator.

Sexual assault/harassment should similarly be defined other than a woman's future arbitrary feelz and instead determined on the basis of the man's behaviour.

[–]halfwhitehalfred 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's not the attractiveness, It's the desirableness. A gay woman would not desire sexual advances from a DiCaprio-like co-worker. The 'arbitrary feelz' that you are so eager to dismiss is what makes a crime a crime. Crimes are crimes because they make someone feel bad feelings. Do you know any crimes that raise no negative feelings in anyone? (determined on the basis of the man's behaviour-by this standard rape would not be a crime, the man was just having sex, right?)

[–]mrbiggles00007 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It is a common and well known fact that attractive people have an easier life, accept it and move on.

This falls under the attractive people rule. Take comfort in the fact that if you are an ugly wet fish with no charisma that sure the women you want do not want you but neither do the fat ones, there is always a silver lining chaps.

There is a scene in inglorious basterds where a rat is compared to a squirrel, you don't know why the rat repulses you, all you know is that it does. Same thing here, some guys by there looks, and or behaviour repulse women, who knows why. Some can modify their behaviour & some they will always be the rat.

It is unfair, sure but if life was fair not a single organism could survive.

[–]Battle-Scars 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Refreshing to see the illusion stripped away by a woman in an honest manner. RP principals confirmed.

[–]skeetles2 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

The most FRUSTRATING part is that some women see you as an ALPHA GOD while others don't.

I knew a really sexy 9/10 black girl who I knew liked me. I saw her in the lunchroom and told her to come with me. I took her in the staircase, whipped my dick out and she got naked and started sucking right away.

However, a 6/10 asian girl called me a "creep" after I made a sexual joke. She then proceeded to tell everyone I was a creep. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ It is a gray area for EVERYONE. The best advice is learn to read HER SIGNS. She is the GATEKEEPER after all:

EYE CONTACT (she will stare but turn away once you look. Shes still looking at you but using her periferal vision)

LIP BITING (finger biting, pen biting, bottle biting, straw biting or sucking https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sdCA-7Z80j0

HAIR TOUCHING (sometimes she will touch her breasts and pussy as well)

ALPHA GOD Status: STUTTERING SPEECH BLUSHING SHAKING HANDS ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Later I found out the black girl liked me because I was smart and white. Women like random shit about you- DO NOT GET DISCOURAGED if you aren't tall etc.

Patrice O'neal- fat ass motherfucker got a sexy ass girl and he always joked about how she does all this crazy sexual shit and threesomes etc. He joked about how he is amazed that she liked him for his "mind". She stayed with him for 10 yrs until his death despite the fact that he told her he wont get married or have kids!

[–]jillstain 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You don't even have to be a top-tier dude to get the alpha pass.. Just be reasonably attractive not a complete blue-pill bitch boy pushover. I'm 5'8".. I've got decent facial aesthetic (not super handsome chiseled jew line, but have been told I'm a good looking dude by hot chicks), I dress cool in a sort of hipster/rock/metalhead fashion, have tattoos, and am a little bit impulsive/risk taking. I have exhibited the alpha pass numerous times and in my beta days have dealt with being shamed for having a sex drive.

That being said, this dynamic is very fluid and changes depending on the person. If you're socially with-it, it comes naturally to gauge what kind of shit you can pull.

I would not really consider myself a "chad bro" although I have some elements of it (tattoos, DGAF lifestyle/mentality, risk taking behaviors, dress cool) but at the same time I have my own insecurities, have lost frame with girlfriends, been cheated on, and pussy beta moments too.

I've been working in restaurants since I was 15. I genuinely enjoy the work, though it's not something I could see myself doing career wise.. As some of you may know, lots of slutty chicks work in restaurants and when you're part of a kitchen crew, you'll probably wind up banging or at least drunkenly making out with some FOH piece of ass at some point.

There was one girl (HB7) in particular I worked with who totally had the hots for me (and a few other guys in the restaurant) but she was particularly fond of me. She would get excited when I'd grab her ass, or on one occasion when I grabbed her by the pussy. This girl smiles and loves the idea of being sexually objectified by me. We made out a few times and fucked in the middle of a field after drinking some wine together one night after work. She also has an LTR boyfriend, but the dude practically looks like a scrawny little boy. (Now you might say I'm a shitbag for this, but let's be real.. Everyone was in her BF's shoes at some point and when her BF wakes up to the game that is "serious relationships" he's going to be doing the same shit the second he exhibits gains and a more alpha perspective on life).

On the other hand, one of the guys at my work who isn't so "easy on the eyes", fat, fits your stereotypical neck beard role (except replace WoW, LoL, and other geek culture interests with sports, smoking weed, and call of duty) would try to flirt with her and she'd be legitimately disgusted by it. Same with a few other guys. She would often get this kid to do favors for her like buy her booze or give her rides. All of the other girls in the store were the same way.

I also have a female friend / on again off again plate who's an SJW type (although she's hot in that blue hair tatted up suicide girl kind of way and tolerates my cis white male perspectives because girls like this let respectable men mansplain reality to them.) This girl will get unattractive guys who approach her kicked out of a bar for not even saying anything lewd, yet she leaves the bar with me and lets me choke her and slap her lightly when we fuck.

Now in this situation, I'm the top tier guy. The girls at my work are sexually attracted to me and I've banged/made out with a few of them.

But in other groups, I have been more like the neck beard guy I previously described. Mainly cause a lot of my guy friends are higher SMV than me. I have been that guy who chauffeurs his friend and girlfriend around who his girlfriend fucking hates and doesn't respect despite the fact I'm nice to her. I have been that guy who's the punching bag of the group who everyone rags on and jokes about. And guess what? Even though I've made a lot of progress with the red pill, these people still see me the same way they did when I was a skinny fat, unhygienic slob who let his whole social circle treat him like a door mat.

Or even in the restaurant situation.. There was another HB7 who had this total Amy Schumer attitude and would constantly rag on me, and attempt to humiliate me at work. However, she was probably just sexually frustrated and jealous.

[–]Endorsed ContributorNeoreactionSafe 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

 

My advice is to do what would be considered Alpha and if the spoiled bitch doesn't like it just not care.

Unless you get arrested for it who cares?

Just act like you don't give a damn.

 

[–]The_Jenazad 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

While the language of some of you I'm not fond of the Alpha pass is real and I get away with so much shit. My boy though would get killed for the stuff I pull with females.

[–]Viet_Lt 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

and what is alpha behavior?

[–]ReddittFeist[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

and what is alpha behavior?

This is the 64 million dollar question. It merits a thread all its own. But we can get started here.

Where to begin? As I mention elsewhere:

Alpha starts with rock-solid frame

Then continues with comfort & confidence around women

Jemima Lewis describes it indirectly in her article linked in the OP.

Also, while browsing around a well known purple pill site, I came across a post by a woman that perfectly captured what Alpha means to most women.

Here's the relevant part of her post: "One of the more fun parts of the day is watching my Alpha lawyer move through the halls. He stops to chat with other suits, asks if they're also going to Judge X's retirement party, exchanging pointers on dealing with the new judge ... most of my life, I've dealt with engineers and nerds, so watching smooth Alpha at work is a delight.

My lawyer does not bicker. He does not show emotion (even when my ex started swearing at him.) Instead, he calmly goes for the jugular."

http://marriedmansexlife.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/comment/536182/#Comment_536182

Interestingly, the title of that thread was "Bickering is Beta" which got me thinking deeply. A lot of meat in that little sentence, and in the woman's followup.

[–]stonasis 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

We've all seen it to some degree in our lives, this is no shock.

[–]1lurkingtacopiller 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I love explaining this to women who at first try to deny it. One example:

Me: "Good looking guys can do whatever they want, ugly dudes cant. If an ugly guy walked up and slapped your ass you'd slap him back and curse him out. If a good looking guy did the same you'd just giggle and flirt."

Her: "no I wouldnt, that's still gross."

Me: "so if Brad Pitt did that you'd slap him in the face?"

Her, after a quick thought: "OK no Brad Pitt can do anything he wants to me"

[–]CinematicRacer14 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Good shit. There are a lot of fake alphas in this sub. ThoughI think the terms Alpha and beta get over used. And I'm sure if any of that truly matters. There are plenty of broke ass alphas and rich ass betas who get laid.

[–]SirByron 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

"I grabbed America by the pussy and she said "Yes!" - Donald Trump

[–]fenghsui 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Seduction is harassment that the seducee appreciates. - Zizek.

Why are rapists so disgusting to our political morality? They take what should be taken without 'getting it' and thus having no right to do so.

[–]uniquevoid -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (4子コメント)

this is something that low smv guys need to consider, YOU CANNOT do what Chad does, like grab women by the pussy

First raise your smv, meanwhile stick to your weapons which may be some aspects from Game (being fun, cocky without overdoing it), and having a strong frame. CALIBRATE better

When you get to the point where women grab your biceps and touch your 6pack you can be more aggressive in the escalation and the things you say, otherwise you'll get restrain order

[–]lodro 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (3子コメント)

This is all false.

You can't just fake it all from day one, but you also do not need any particular physical traits to be "alpha". They help, but aren't at all necessary. The main way they help is by helping you convince yourself that you're good enough to act like a man.

[–]uniquevoid 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Nah it's not false, when cold approaching on the street looks matter a lot, an overweight guy who looks feminine hasn't earnt the right to escalate aggressively, he needs to calibrate way more than a good looking guy

You can try this yourself (idk if you are low smv) or go 'act like a man' too quick and get slapped

in an scenario where a woman has more comfort, like in college, yes I agree with you. Also keep in mind that approaching a girl on the street is already manly so you don't have to go the extra mile

and yes, physical traits can be alpha: strength implies training and training implies that you have the discipline to work on your health. how is that not alpha?

[–]lodro 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

We disagree and there isn't really anything else to say about it. A lot of what you said is true (e.g. strength is a masculine trait and is desirable) but also compatible with my position.

[–]failingtheturingtest 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

This is the internet. You must fight to the death!

[–]2Auvergnat -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Problem is that alpha is subjective. Sure a guy who is top 1% in looks is alpha for every woman, but it remains true that for any given male, there are some women who are attracted and some who are not. Add to this the fleeting nature of feelz; the fact that for a woman you might be alpha today, and beta tomorrow.

So it basically boils down to women's preference on the moment. Sure it's not new, everybody knows that depending on the man and woman's preference, a same pick up line might be "sweet" or "creepy". The only thing new is that now you'd better be 100% sure to be seen as a alpha for a given woman at a given time, because where in the past you'd be just politely rejected and in the present you're labeled as "a creep", in the future you'll be put in jail.

[–]ReddittFeist[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

a guy who is top 1% in looks is alpha for every woman

This shows that, as Jemima Lewis states in the linked article you are incapable (at the moment) of understanding the difference between alpha and beta.

Key clue: she uses the word behavior

not looks.

Alpha starts with rock-solid frame

The continues with comfort & confidence around women

more to follow, but that's a good place to start.

And lose the idea that good looks are what make a guy alpha. Field tested.

[–]2Auvergnat 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (1子コメント)

You're actually very right. Knew it but wrote that comment too fast to notice the idiocy I had written. Thanks for calling me out on it. Good lesson to think over my comments carefully.

[–]ReddittFeist[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Hey man. You're the kind of self-aware guy who will go far. Good on you.

Keep on growing, keep on succeeding, and keeping on getting better with women. Owning that pussy.

(A friend of mine actually had the MILF wife of a mob guy say that to him when he got chatting with her in Las Vegas about how to have a good relationship with a woman. He said her words were "Own that pussy." And no, he didn't PU her, and she was only interested in her bad-boy hubby. LOL)

[–]mrbiggles00007 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Negative, a real leader of men is an alpha period & everyone they come into contact with know that.

Also its not the same as a wolf style hierarchy where there is only one, top level males often work together.

Forget military leaders, they are given a job based on many factors. Think of criminal organisations.

[–]gistaminute -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Best part about getting fired for referring to a coworker as a B is that it was WKs who went to HR about it while acknowledging she didn't seem upset by it (she knew what she was doing, all in jest). Fucking gender traitors probably ate their WAGs pussies extra hard that night.

[–]EntropyAnimals -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

So, this is where the Alphas hang out. We'll see about that.