I get a feeling that a lot of divorced men who don't identity with MgTow end up in the same position.
Getting married has to be one of the biggest eye openers. You get to see how far down the rabbit hole things go. First hand.
It completely dispels the myth of the Unicorn. It reinforces AWALT.
Some of my personal pet peeves were.
It felt like I was not in control of my life. Well how much in control can you be when a woman is making most of the decisions for you?
Having the freedom totally removed to do the things I actually wanted to do. Eg: I really wanted to buy a remote controlled glider, start diving, paragliding, travel more. Have a games room, etc. Most (if not all) of my ideas were met with dismay and criticism.
Being a slave to putting up with inlaws. I will admit I had it worst that most men will ever have it. But besides all the other shit going on - My life became Everyone loves Raymond (A TV show where the in laws practically live on top of them). And I shit you not my brother in law was all over the place, every weekend, twice during the week.
Being made to feel inadequate.
Always being 2nd guessed.
Moving along -> Many men will have a similar list because AWALT.
So what happens post divorce, and let's assume the typical scenario - but without kids.
Some men feel now's the time they can go out and find that younger fuck. But typically they've let themselves go. So most guys go on some self improvement mission -> Again usually for the same stupid purpose of getting fucks, instead of because it's a good thing for them to do.
After this they might get a few young fucks in, and then get bagged by "The librarian".
"The librarian" is everything the first wife wasn't. More chilled and a better overall companion. However she has high standards, and everything old cucked learnt in the first marriage gets applied now. The man turns into super cuck. I guess some men might bag a Unicorn second time around - I've heard it's possible - But haven't found examples - so it's most likely a myth.
As for me, I can't really stomach looking at dating profiles, It's like looking at "Good used cars" but you know the cars fucked or there's a catch.
The chicks that look fuckable, won't give me the time of day, and I know this because I've been around long enough to know. Sure I might get a few fucks in from Sally Super Slut, but fuck that shit -> Too old to be carrying a walking liability.
Women my own age look about as appealing as looking at photos of my grand mothers friends.
Never did like kids, so single mothers are completely out of the question. Fuck that shit.
The super burnt out career women with her politically correct profile incase anyone from work spots her. Fuck her and her army of beta males.
Russian brides - Not rich enough, and also smart enough to see through the bullshit.
Tons of fat fucking whales who think it's perfectly fine to eat themselves into a stupor, No thanks.
And it's not just dating sites. If I have a quick glance around the office every single women I know seems too damn demanding.
And that's what it boils down to. If I got involved with a female again, it would be a case of immediately signing up to do shit she wants. I've never met a girl who has the same interests as me, who is artistically chaotic and yet likes things organised.
Really at this stage, I'm happy to just watch Netflix, play video games and relax in the time I am not at work - and it seems that's where I spend most of my life.
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