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[–]Pigeons_r_life 9ポイント10ポイント  (0子コメント)

What a shit thing to say, OP. You're a fucking cunt. These people aren't doing anything illegal here. It's a place for them to acknowledge their problem.

[–]ArmoredKappa 4ポイント5ポイント  (1子コメント)

>Stop were you are

Pretty indicative of the intelligence of someone who thinks being a pedophile is a criminal offense.

[–]TheEarlyMan 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yea, a typo on one word is a really good indicator of intelligence.

[–]ergoegthatis 12ポイント13ポイント  (32子コメント)

You're going to enlist in the marines OP to murder innocents abroad for US strategic goals. You're the last person to talk about morality. You're worse than them if you actually enlist. At least pedophiles don't murder people.

[–]AltRight91 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

Wow comparing marines to you're sad existence.

[–]ResentfulDead 13ポイント14ポイント  (2子コメント)

That's not what murder is, dummy. Murder is unlawful killing. A solider doing his/her job isn't murder. At best, it's self defense. How dare you compare soldiers to child rapists!

NB: Found this sub through r/worstof

[–]4RLM 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

How do you feel about the Nazi officers who executed millions of Jews? They were just doing their job as well. (Please don't interpret this comment as disrespect to those serving their country; my grandfather was a long time naval officer and I had great respect for him.)

[–]ohmygod_ 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

They aren't rapists if they don't act out their fantasy. What is your fetish for example? Say bondage play is illegal, then you would never enact bondage play. Obviously this is a very different affinity. I just found this place and it took 5 minutes to see it's not for people that engage in harming children.

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    [–]LittleLoli[M] 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Removed for offensive language. Please be respectful of others users, even if you disagree with them, thank you! :)

    [–]ergoegthatis 10ポイント11ポイント  (0子コメント)

    your fucking stupid

    your

    The irony.

    [–]AilerAiref 12ポイント13ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Why wait til tomorrow morning? If you want to waste their time go ahead and submit the tip today.

    [–]SoGodDangTired 14ポイント15ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Being attracted to kids in itself isn't a crime, whether you think it is disgusting or not.

    [–]656E64206974 16ポイント17ポイント  (2子コメント)

    Moral crusaders are fucking laughable.

    [–]huskerarob 6ポイント7ポイント  (1子コメント)

    Really? I mean, really?

    [–]lolidaisukiExclusive, straight GL, AoA ~6-12 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Really.

    [–]Kevin-96-AT 10ポイント11ポイント  (2子コメント)

    FBI? the secret service organisation FBI? the FBI that runs half of all child porn sites on the darkweb? are we talking about the same FBI?

    [–]lolidaisukiExclusive, straight GL, AoA ~6-12 5ポイント6ポイント  (1子コメント)

    Oh no! What are we going to do!

    [–]MGshunned 13ポイント14ポイント  (2子コメント)

    Go ahead. If FBI actually does anything, they would probably actually hurt those that want to be normal. It's already a struggle for some of us. The FBI would just probably tempt us by going undercover and acting as minors, or offer illicit media. Or known as enablers.

    The way I see, they help create the crimes as much as any one else that commits the crimes.

    But knowing your bitchass(sorry, not sorry), I imagine you wanted to post and throw a temper tantrum because you're not comfortable with the fact people have urges that can't be controlled(I mean urges like being gay, straight, or asexual. I can't wake up and say, hey I think I'll be gay today since I went old women yesterday.) Hell I'm nott comfortable with people that are alcoholics or drug abuse, but I'm not bitching. Simply just reading your title post, that you haven't checked back to see any of our rational explanation.

    Anyways, you're a problem too. Especially when you wanna report people for wanting to cope and live normally. You're a huge problem with society and people that have little to no tolerance. You think backwards instead of progress. Primitive thinking, if you will.

    We are sorry that this is who we are. At least you know some of us are trying to be normal, which I assume youre normal(well at least you think you're a normal, ya know 'perfect'. In my case, I would never want to be like you. I can accept people who they are. And not act like they are worthless and no hope.

    And should I tell someone local about my urges? Fuck that. I rather get pulled over for simple possession or DUI instead of my dark urges. Because from where I am at, that's like saying you're a witch back in 1800s. So no thank you. I feel more comfortable telling someone that DOES know exactly how I feel. What my desires lie, what it is to never feel satisfied, yet can keep going daily without ever acting upon my desires. I have self control. You're crazy if you think I'm just gonna go to someone that can easily call the local authorities and get me arrested for just seeking help. Nope, I enjoy my freedom more than I do my sexual desire. In fact, l know that it's wrong to act upon a child and harming them for life, and possibly end up in prison for a long time.

    I don't need someone like you to tell me that I am 'sick'. I know this. We all know this. As far as seeking help, this is the help without risking our freedom or local rumors being spread.

    Edit: Thought more in-depth later so I added more to the comment.

    [–]TiredPaedo 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

    By the way, aside from being entrapment, a LEO infiltrating an organization to inspire illegal behavior is referred to as an "agent provocateur".

    [–]MGshunned 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Thanks for pointing it out. I didnt know the correct term.

    [–]-PedophilophileAttracted to pedophiles 3ポイント4ポイント  (3子コメント)

    Godspeed.

    [–]-PedophilophileAttracted to pedophiles 5ポイント6ポイント  (2子コメント)

    Wait: admin, why aren't these posts deleted?
    "hurr i report u to the FBI durr" adds absolutely nothing to the sub.

    [–]TiredPaedo 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

    We don't remove content unless it violates our sub rules.

    Agreeing with us is not one of those rules.

    Additionally: We welcome law enforcement.

    [–]MGshunned 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Because of the valid arguments that get shoved back in their faces as they do to us.

    [–]LittleLoli 35ポイント36ポイント  (1子コメント)

    If you really care about FBI catching child molesters and pornographers you probably should not waste their time with non-sense like reporting a support group because it disgusts you and you can't be bothered to actually look and see what it is.

    [–]Godhelpus1990 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

    None of the guys here have actually done anything illegal though...

    [–]h-cho 13ポイント14ポイント  (0子コメント)

    lmao. you think the fbi cares? stop wasting peoples time.

    [–]4RLM 23ポイント24ポイント  (15子コメント)

    Go right ahead. My probation officer knows about this sub, and as far as I have seen, there is nothing illegal here. I can't speak for everyone here, but I myself have nothing to hide from the FBI. If they want to talk to me they can. I don't care. Besides, have you seen some of the posts on /r/Pedo101/? I followed that for a few days and then unfollowed once I started to see some of the discussions there. I found some of those posts to be inappropriate for me, and I'm a pedophile.

    Yes I understand some of you are seeking help, maybe you should try somewhere thats not an internet forum. How about real life.

    Again, I cannot speak for others, but I am in therapy, three times per month, and have been going for almost five years.

    If you have some sort of affection towards children, please contact help and not other pedophiles.

    I'm assuming that you've heard of Alcoholics Anonymous, where alcoholics get together and discuss their problems? Maybe Narcotics Anonymous, where drug users get together and discuss their problems? These groups seem to be pretty popular and have success in helping people with their problems. The members of these groups can all relate to one another, because they have had similar experiences.

    When I talk to my therapist, the best he can ever offer is third party anecdotal claims about other patients he has treated. He can never relate to anything I feel or experience the way another pedophile can, and someone who shares my attraction could share things that have helped them be successful in life, or with healthy adult relationships, or simply dealing with urges they would rather not have. These are things that no therapist could ever provide, because they have absolutely zero first hand experience with it; he's never been uncomfortable in the grocery store because I was turned on by the five year old in front of me, so he can't truly understand how I felt or how uncomfortable it truly was for me.

    It's almost like learning to swim from a book. The book can describe everything in detail, including how the water feels and what muscles to use, but it can never capture the reality of what it is like to be in the water. My therapist has discussed being in a healthy adult relationship. How exactly do I do that when I don't find adult women attractive? My therapist doesn't know, because he doesn't have that problem; perhaps I can find another person online who shares my attraction to young girls, but has nonetheless formed a successful relationship with an adult, and if they can share some of the things that have helped them make it work, I can maybe try those things myself.

    If a pedophile can find stability in life and have healthy adult relationships they are far less likely to cross that line and become offenders. Talking to other pedophiles can help to achieve those ends, just like alcoholics talking to other alcoholics can be helpful. Unfortunately, while there are numerous Anonymous groups there is no Pedophiles Anonymous, so an internet forum is the closest thing we are ever going to get.

    Edit: Added line breaks to break up wall of text (it didn't look so bad on my laptop, but when I read it on my phone I agreed with the wall of text comment.

    [–]muhdick85 0ポイント1ポイント  (5子コメント)

    Drug users and alcoholics are victims of addiction, you are kiddie diddlers. You don't deserve a safe space to come together and talk about your "problems"

    [–]4RLM 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Child pornography can in fact be an addiction (especially to those with OCD problems). Also, just because being a pedophile is not an addiction, does that mean that we should not be able to seek help in dealing with it and not "diddling kiddies", to use your own words? Perhaps you would prefer if we did not address our problems and become actual "kiddie diddlers" instead of trying to keep children safe.

    [–]DoomKey 1ポイント2ポイント  (3子コメント)

    How is this not a legitimate problem? Being a pedophile, like being an alcoholic or a drug-abuser, can absolutely ruin your life from many angles.

    [–]muhdick85 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

    The same reason there isn't serial rapist or murder support groups.

    [–]LittleLoli 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

    This isn't a support group for child abusers, this is a support group for pedophiles. There absolutely are support groups for people addicted to sex, with rape fetishes or violent tendencies.

    [–]DoomKey 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

    I suppose I see your point--one has to do with self-destruction, the other affects others directly. But still, it's not like this is a place exclusively for mass-pedophiles. People who haven't committed related crimes and need help dealing with their urges can come here and I think that's important to have for people.

    [–]blue_egg_phoenixSurvivor of GL IRL, here for those who suffer 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

    Sex addicts anonymous helps a lot of pedophiles. That's the closest 12-step group that I know of.

    [–]4RLM 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Thanks for the info. I will have to look into them.

    [–]TiredPaedo 0ポイント1ポイント  (6子コメント)

    Wall of text much?

    [–]throwawaychilder 2ポイント3ポイント  (5子コメント)

    Probably just a lot of frustration built up. You know how it gets :)

    [–]4RLM 5ポイント6ポイント  (1子コメント)

    Yes to the frustration, but it looked okay on my laptop when I typed it out.

    [–]TiredPaedo 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Ah, I'm on mobile so it was enormous.

    Looks good now though.

    [–]TiredPaedo 4ポイント5ポイント  (2子コメント)

    I was just going to recommend line breaks.

    [–]blue_egg_phoenixSurvivor of GL IRL, here for those who suffer 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

    How do you do line breaks?

    [–]TiredPaedo 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Hit enter twice to create a larger space between lines.

    Like this.

    [–]aperson1729 13ポイント14ポイント  (0子コメント)

    If you actually wanted to resolve your issue please contact a legitimate service and not a reddit forum.

    Why not both? It's what I'm doing. And most members of this forum actively encourage therapy for those who ask. Heck, leaving this sub up is probably a great way to get pedophiles into therapy. Some people having pedophlic thoughts are afraid of mandatory reporting laws. Coming here they can find references to therapists that won't report them / reassurance that their situation does not call for mandatory reporting.

    So, I really don't know what you're trying to accomplish, but you're not really encouraging pedophiles to seek therapy by trying to disband this sub.

    [–]urgeless 19ポイント20ポイント  (4子コメント)

    [x] repulsive [x] disgusting [x] seek help [x] prison [_] normalization

    Almost had bingo there!

    [–]Arkadius 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

    "boohoo I'm such a victim!"

    [–]urgeless 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

    It's strange how you got that from what I wrote

    [–]throwawaychilder 9ポイント10ポイント  (0子コメント)

    [x] FBI mention [x] disgusting [x] seek help [x] prison [_] Kill yourself

    Too close m'self!

    [–]blue_egg_phoenixSurvivor of GL IRL, here for those who suffer 10ポイント11ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Yes I understand some of you are seeking help, maybe you should try somewhere thats not an internet forum. How about real life.

    I don't see why folks have to choose between this forum and IRL therapy. Many of us use both.