Hello, although I never indentified as a PUA I did used to behave in a similar manner. I am now in my mid 30s and already have a 4yo daughter whom I have no contact with, because her mother went from being sweeter than sugar to an evil vile monster, ie took off her mask.
Now I am on the edge of being in the same situation again. The woman with whom I was in a loving relationship for 3 years, after giving birth to our child (in April) is also about 75% of the way through the transformation.
So up to now I have just been disengaging / ignoring etc. But obviously that is going to lead to the same thing, where it is unbearable to deal with her in any way as she keeps escalating the ill behaviour ('shit tests').
So I am being quite tempted to put on a PUA type persona, I don't know what the term is for it, you know, 'alpha douchebag' kind of thing and start treating her very disrespectfully and dominating her, so that it will at least be possible to have some kind of degraded relationship with her and therefore my daughter.
Does anyone have any experience with this or should I not sell my soul and go back to zero again.
Thanks a lot. Stay safe out there.
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