•
•

Girl with questions (self.MGTOW)

whirlbatty09 が 投稿

I understand the MGTOW mindset, considering how embarrassed I am for my fellow females, but I have some questions as to how I fit into all of this. Out of all the complaints I've seen MGTOWs say of women, I find that nearly all of them do not apply to me. I know you've probably heard the NAWALT spiel before, but honestly, its true in my case.

I was raised outside of America (thank God) and only returned in my late teen years to find my beloved country turned into a romantic hellhole. My time abroad, my happily married parents, and my faith shaped me into something that was the complete antithesis of my peers. 20 years old and have never even kissed a man on the mouth. I have a healthy sex drive and know what I like in theory (a reliable, caring, but very dominant man) and it isn't like I don't have the opportunity or the means, i’m just staunchly abstinent.

I eat clean and lift to keep myself looking the best I can (34-25-37), I grow my hair long, I don't get drunk or party, I am not a feminist, i’m libertarian leaning, I hate celebrity culture, I don’t gossip or involve myself in “drama”, I love reading and learning, I focus on personal merit over looks and don’t expect to be showered with gifts (I am uncomfortable with having money frivolously spent on me). I love kids and want to be a mother and I love to cook. I don’t believe in divorce except in the case of severe physical abuse or infidelity, and I would rather hack my own legs off than cheat on anyone (I can’t even read a romance novel where the woman cheats, it’s an immediate turn-off, even in fiction).

I spent so much of my life trying to be best fit for that role. I’m happy to do so, seeing as I enjoy all of these things, but when I look at the actual dating pool, I see a bunch of bunch of people bed-hopping (which I would rather die alone than participate in), a ton of vindictive gold-diggers with no appreciation for men and all they do, and a bunch of men who are understandably jaded. My family tells me I was born in the wrong era and I’ve been called a unicorn before by men online. I want to find the husband i’ve been preparing to meet all my life and devote myself to him and our future children. Unfortunately, I can’t navigate america’s messed-up dating world in order to find him.

What is the MGTOW perspective on women like me, who want to be traditional and don’t fit into the horror stories of the “modern western woman”? Any suggestions for finding a man who wants the same things I do?

全 6 件のコメント
並べ替え:
ベスト (提案されたアイデア)
トップ新着論争中古い順Q&A

[–]hackableyou 3ポイント4ポイント  (1子コメント)

Women are no worse evil than men are. The only difference between men and women is that laws and society favor women and power and privilege corrupt people just as they have corrupted women.

It is my contention that if you spend a material time in the United States, you will be just like the women you talk about.

[–]ikhwan_arif 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

This is such a clever troll post and I don't like to engage in this things but credit where credit is due.

No, you're not a unicorn. If you are being honest then be honest. You're not saving yourself for some average guy living in a small apartment with a menial job, despite how loving he is towards you.

No.

You're looking for a 6 foot arrogant, muscular asshole who makes 7 figures a year with a big house and a fancy car.

And that's okay, because this is just nature in action.

Hypergamy is a base instinct for a reason; it ensures that you and your offspring get the best chance of survival in this hostile environment, and it is a hostile world we live in.

Don't fool yourself into thinking you're different, because you're not, and you aren't fooling anyone here. You can fool your husband and I expect that's exactly the kind of man that you'd be fishing for to get married; a tool.

[–]Zombocom1911 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I myself am not pure and chaste , in any way, so I definitely do not seek that in a woman. I prefer wicked , cunning and immoral , personally, because those types of women are exciting. Then again, I'm not looking for a relationship or anything serious, I'm just looking to have fun before I'm old and can't anymore. I think most men would view a virgin as a huge burden. It is not that I think women who sleep around and cheat are bad people, it's that I don't trust such women as long term partners (even if I was interested in one, which I'm not), especially not with finances , and unfortunately "good girls" bore the hell out of me. If you want to find a man like you are looking for, try someone hyper religious who is extremely conservative and follows strict rules of morality.