I understand the MGTOW mindset, considering how embarrassed I am for my fellow females, but I have some questions as to how I fit into all of this. Out of all the complaints I've seen MGTOWs say of women, I find that nearly all of them do not apply to me. I know you've probably heard the NAWALT spiel before, but honestly, its true in my case.

I was raised outside of America (thank God) and only returned in my late teen years to find my beloved country turned into a romantic hellhole. My time abroad, my happily married parents, and my faith shaped me into something that was the complete antithesis of my peers. 20 years old and have never even kissed a man on the mouth. I have a healthy sex drive and know what I like in theory (a reliable, caring, but very dominant man) and it isn't like I don't have the opportunity or the means, i’m just staunchly abstinent.

I eat clean and lift to keep myself looking the best I can (34-25-37), I grow my hair long, I don't get drunk or party, I am not a feminist, i’m libertarian leaning, I hate celebrity culture, I don’t gossip or involve myself in “drama”, I love reading and learning, I focus on personal merit over looks and don’t expect to be showered with gifts (I am uncomfortable with having money frivolously spent on me). I love kids and want to be a mother and I love to cook. I don’t believe in divorce except in the case of severe physical abuse or infidelity, and I would rather hack my own legs off than cheat on anyone (I can’t even read a romance novel where the woman cheats, it’s an immediate turn-off, even in fiction).

I spent so much of my life trying to be best fit for that role. I’m happy to do so, seeing as I enjoy all of these things, but when I look at the actual dating pool, I see a bunch of bunch of people bed-hopping (which I would rather die alone than participate in), a ton of vindictive gold-diggers with no appreciation for men and all they do, and a bunch of men who are understandably jaded. My family tells me I was born in the wrong era and I’ve been called a unicorn before by men online. I want to find the husband i’ve been preparing to meet all my life and devote myself to him and our future children. Unfortunately, I can’t navigate america’s messed-up dating world in order to find him.

What is the MGTOW perspective on women like me, who want to be traditional and don’t fit into the horror stories of the “modern western woman”? Any suggestions for finding a man who wants the same things I do?