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Don't unload your problems on your wife (self.marriedredpill)

stonepimpletilistsHARD CORE NAVY RED が 投稿

Example #501 why she isn't your rock.

STFU, have a plan, remember your laws of power, make it look effortless. Keeping in mind, this is someone who is working within a complementary framework to a lot of guys here. Imagine this with a girl who doesn't.

Not on your team, in this case, can't even clean the house. Give her a good dicking as stress release and get back to solving shit

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[–]gettingmymojoback 9ポイント10ポイント  (1子コメント)

I realized she wasn't on my team the night I had a back pain so bad I thought I was having a heart attack, and she was annoyed that I woke her up asking for a ride to the hospital. Ended up needing morphine for the pain and she was huffing about losing sleep. WTF? This was pre RP, but that was when I realized that she may care about me deeply, but didn't love me they way I loved her.

A good wake up call. Had a similar story from a friend who had a heart attack young, he said he could literally see his wife's hamster running worrying what she would do if he didn't fully recover, rather than worrying about him.

She's not your rock but she expects you to be hers.

[–]FireTemperedMRP APPROVED 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

and she was annoyed that I woke her up asking for a ride to the hospital.

Never forget, you can call 911 or Uber, otherwise you are the dependent….

[–]BobbyPeru 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

A good dicking solves a lot more problems than I imagined

[–]BluepillProfessorMarried-MRP MODERATOR 4ポイント5ポイント  (3子コメント)

Whenever anybody claims they have a NAWALT I always know it is early in the relationship. Get sick, contract cancer, watch your parents die, or lose your job and get back to me on your fucking snowflake.

A-fucking WALT. NONE of them will provide support, moral, intellectual or otherwise when you are down. They are supplement to a good life and no help whatsoever when life goes to shit. In fact, they multiply your pain at every opportunity when you are down.

Count on it.

[–]Werewolf35b 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

So true. Wife tried to kick me out of the house two months after my dad died because I was "acting wierd"

Well no shit bitch my dad just died !

[–]BluepillProfessorMarried-MRP MODERATOR 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

What's the big deal. You know it wasn't, like, HER dad. This fact and women's reaction to it is a big gaping hole in the Matrix. They have no idea how to emotionally support the man they are fucking.

Might have helped my life quite a bit had I known that years earlier.

[–]Sapphire_Jizz 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yep, not even one's own mother can provide true emotional and moral support. Learned that one the hard way, then found the pill a short time later and it all made sense.

Female solipsism is quite a beast.

[–]stonepimpletilistsHARD CORE NAVY RED[S] 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

And no cross posting over there chums, let the women solve the women problems

[–]FireTemperedMRP APPROVED 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Seems like we see this type of story every week, were the guy is sick or jobless or got kicked by some of life's hard knocks.

There are two parts to my amazement.

I am surprised how little the women can do to actually help their men and their ability to rationalize it away.

But even more so, I am surprised by how many men actually think that their woman is going to be willing or able to help them.

[–]Chump_No_More 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

https://therationalmale.com/2014/11/23/vulnerability/

Acknowledging, confronting, and doing battle with your vulnerabilities is part & parcel of being a man, but short of a death in the immediate family, you never let your woman see it.

[–]redmountainpill 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

I'm impressed they have a section on how they may have contributed to the problem. I think my wife has a rock-solid frame because she's never done an ounce of introspection.

[–]stonepimpletilistsHARD CORE NAVY RED[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

was born out of need. They noticed it was turning into a bitching hen house, so had to add that one line to cull the harpies.

[–]bangorlolMarried 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Does this come as a surprise to anyone? If we maintain that we are the defacto leaders and all but bulletproof in our day to day lives, they're going to come to expect us to be able to take whatever life throws at us. If we're sick we make ourselves get better with minimal bitching. If we're injured we lick our wounds in silence and ask for nothing. If we get hit with an unexpected expense we recover.

Women are largely selfish, and that's okay. Relationships are transactional. If they sense an inability for us to do our jobs of course they're going have doubts.

[–]redearththeory [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

My weakness will be met with disgust. I have a rule: if she shit tests me about something I've shared with her (its pathetic that you can't even handle your targets at work and it makes you so stressed), I never discuss it with her again.

After applying this rule for a while, no matter what is happening

  • My job is tedious, how was your day?

  • I slept fine last night, how was your pedicure?

  • My shoulder is fine, how is your yoga?

  • I'm sure it will be fine, how were the kids today?

  • I ate something earlier, I'll have a snack later, but you guys eat now if you want.

I've been on a strict diet for more than a month, she hasn't heard a single word about it.