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[Update] Thank you (self.relationship_advice)

jasoninhell が 投稿

Previously:

I would like to give a heartfelt and sincere thank you for the advice and support I have received here. No one could have foreseen the tragedy that resulted from me filing for divorce. You guys perform a wonderful service to those in need and I hope you continue to do so in the future.

http://www.theindychannel.com/news/crime/police-investigating-double-homicide-in-mongomery-county

Edit: I would never ask for donations, I think it is incredibly tacky. I've worked very hard for everything I have in life. But because there has been a gofundme created by her family and I can't guarantee that they won't turn around and use it to support her in some way, I just ask that you help spread the gofundme that my employer created for me: https://www.gofundme.com/tyler-charlee-worley-fund

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[–]AssDewlap 39ポイント40ポイント  (0子コメント)

Holy shit I'm so terribly sorry to hear that. You'll be in my thoughts.

[–]datsunblue 36ポイント37ポイント  (0子コメント)

I remember your OP very well. My heartfelt sympathy on the loss of your two beautiful children. You were doing what you knew was right for the sake of your children unfortunately your effort wwas thwarted, but don't ever start blaming yourself. Someone else did this which was an act of cowardice and selfishness.

[–]TParis00ap 27ポイント28ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm so sorry this happened. Your wife was an incredibly selfish person and in the end her pride was worth more to her than her children's lives. She has gotten away with the behavior her whole life but now she's going to have to come to terms with it. This is going to be little consolation to you, but it wasn't your fault. It's going to take you a long time to accept that, but it's true. I'll pray for you and your children tonight.

[–]Newbielurker 25ポイント26ポイント  (0子コメント)

I am so sorry for you. Please do not be alone. Be with people you can trust, or at the very least find a grief counsellor to open up to.

[–]watermelord 22ポイント23ポイント  (0子コメント)

Wow, Jason. I am so terribly sorry. You have put up with far too much. Your kids they did not deserve that, you did not deserve that. You are not to blame, Jason. This isn't your fault. Stay strong, you are in my thoughts.

[–]Pola_Xray 16ポイント17ポイント  (0子コメント)

oh my god. I'm sorry.

[–]pink_wolf_spirit 19ポイント20ポイント  (0子コメント)

Dear Jason,

I'm so sorry for you and your extreme loss. I remember reading your story and crying for you then. I read your update and was happy & proud for your strength in doing the right and noble thing.

My heart is breaking for you now and will pray for you. You did what was right and you were brave and strong. I will keep you in my thoughts and pray. You have been through so much.

[–]Aquagenie 18ポイント19ポイント  (3子コメント)

I'm thinking of what I can write to you and it all seems a bit pointless. Just another line of text saying sorry, but I don't know what else to do.

I'll help in any way I can. Do you need cash? Somewhere to stay while you holiday in Australia? I'll help you any way I can, and I'm sure others will too. You can get through this.

Editing to add: this tragedy didn't "result from you filing for divorce". This tragedy resulted from a sequence of decisions made by someone else. You had no hand in it, and it would've happened with or without input from you, and you may, one day, feel yourself lucky that you survived being married to her.

[–]Cheaperthantherapy13 7ポイント8ポイント  (1子コメント)

His boss has set up a GoFundMe page to help with funeral costs. Not sure if I can post a link in this sub, but it's called the Tyler and Charlee Worley Fund.

[–]Aquagenie 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thank you. I'll see if I can find it.

[–]macimom 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

I cant stress your final paragraph enough. Your wife killed your children bc thats who she is-a pathetic excuse for a human who believe its ok to kill her kids out of spite for you. Look at the way she has acted for the past two years-she is a sociopath. Millions of people get divorced and dont kill their kids. It wasn't the divorce-it was her evilness that lead to this. Dont ever forget that.

[–]allusernamestaken1 15ポイント16ポイント  (0子コメント)

Jason, do not blame yourself. From what you told us previously, it was clear this woman had serious psychological issues, but it was impossible to guess that this would have happened.

Now you need to reach out to others and grieve. If you have time, please seek out therapy. You mentioned you may have had experience with suicidal thoughts; now you must hold strong. I can't promise everything will get better, and I can't promise the pain will go away. But the future is all you have now, might as well see what's in store.

Please be safe.

[–]Theige 13ポイント14ポイント  (0子コメント)

This is terrible bud. Don't be afraid to ask anyone and everyone for help. I can't imagine what you're going through

[–]uhhhhh_ok 11ポイント12ポイント  (0子コメント)

Oh my god. This makes me physically ill. Op I am so sorry. Your babies love you. And your ex wife is a terrible and selfish person. You did everything right. And this is not your fault. ❤️ my love and prayers go out to you right now. You can get through this.

[–]Helyces 10ポイント11ポイント  (0子コメント)

This broke my heart to read. I remember your OP and your update. I know nothing I say can help with this impossible loss you've suffered, but you have to believe that this was, in no way, your fault. I am so, so sorry.

[–]BlueBerryNinjaz 10ポイント11ポイント  (0子コメント)

Jason we're here for you, take some time off work and do some things that make you happy. My thoughts are with you bud.

[–]captars 10ポイント11ポイント  (0子コメント)

I am so sorry for this unfathomable loss. Just want to tell you that this was not your fault in any way.

[–]evilheartemote 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

Oh no, I am so sorry for your loss. :(

[–]vegematarian 8ポイント9ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm so sorry Jason. Much love and support are available here for you on reddit. Please use it and take care of yourself.

[–]ElectraUnderTheSea 9ポイント10ポイント  (0子コメント)

I have no words. This is beyond horrible.

Please talk to someone who specialises in this kind of situations. You don't need to go through this alone.

It was not your fault, please do remember this.

[–]cannakitty 8ポイント9ポイント  (0子コメント)

Jesus fucking Christ. I am so, so sorry for your loss. This is in no way your fault, you could never have predicted this, and you were clearly right to leave this horrible woman.

[–]geewhizikers 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

My thoughts are with you xx

[–]lacker101 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

You didn't do this. You didn't force it. You didn't imply it.

She is mentally insane, and you did only what a sane person would do.

[–]MIchonne 6ポイント7ポイント  (0子コメント)

Jason, I am terribly sorry to read this has happened to you. I am sure you're in a very dark place right now. Let all the mourning out. You tried to do the right thing. She will live out her life with what she did.

Many people reach out here for advice and support, and try to give out the most rational suggestions. We can never predict a psychotic episode like that and hope that you never try to blame yourself for seeking advice that turned out this way.

[–]ChicBrit 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

Oh my goodness I'm so very sorry. There are no words. Your kids are simply gorgeous. I can't imagine what you are going through right now but if us motley lot on this strange old website can help in any small way then just holler and know we are here for you. Hugs xo

[–]cainbackisdry 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

Sad sad day :(

[–]berdiesan 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

Jason, my heart breaks for you. Please take the time you need to find the right therapist to help you get through this. The abuse you've been suffering for so long is a lot to surmount, but you can make it through. Keep moving forward. You're in my thoughts.

[–]idleRAT 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm so sorry for your loss. You couldn't possibly foresee this either, please don't blame yourself in any way.

I hope you have a good support network of friends and family around you to help you through this and that you're able to get some form of counselling, but if not, there will always be people on Reddit who are willing to listen and talk things through with you.

[–]6C6F6C636174 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm so sorry.

[–]Einselar 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

OP, I'm sure you are already aware of this, but none of this is your fault.

Please do make sure you find a counselor, support group, or a local leader of your faith. It won't take the pain away, but it will let you share the burden.

You and your children are in my thoughts and prayers.

[–]sorry_ 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

This is fucking horrifying.

[–]Eki123 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

Saw this earlier but why was this removed? Anyway, sorry for your loss.

[–]LeNoirDarling 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Bless your sweet babies and bless your kind heart. You did everything you could to turn the other cheek,and keep Your family together until it was untenable. You have a good heart Sir, and this will always hurt, but you should know that you did everything you could. Try and find some peace in this chaos.

[–]MissRebecca206 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

My heart breaks for you. I'm very sorry.

[–]ThereGoesMinky 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

While nothing we can say can change what has happened, know that we are here for you if you need to talk.

You may not know us, but we are thinking about you and are incredibly sorry for your loss. You don't have to go through this alone. Let us know if there is any way we can help or if there is a gofundme/equivalent to help with the funerals or related costs.

[–]googlyblush 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

There's nothing that can be said that would be of much comfort. I am sorry that you lost your children, and I hope that you'll be able to feel normal again one day. Take care. <3

[–]SteakNotCake 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Words cannot even express how horrible this is but I'm praying for you and your family. May God give you strength for the road ahead, give you guys comfort and peace knowing these angels are by His side in heaven.

[–]Wasiktir 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm so sorry for what has happened to you. There's nothing I can say other than you're in my thoughts.

[–]eganist[M] 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

This was removed when the gofundme link was added. Apologies for that. We've reapproved it.

[–]mandevwin 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thank you for seeing that not all rules should be followed at all times.

[–]prplmze 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I am so sorry for your loss.

[–]alooohaaa 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I am so sorry Jason, Bless you and your family...you all will be in my thoughts

HUGS

[–]TexasNorthWest [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

My heartfelt condolences for you and your children. I hope you have a good support system in place.

[–]skeebles [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

This is shocking and truly saddening. I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss.

[–]Browneyedgirlfriend [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

I'm so sorry for your loss :( I will spread the word to people I know. To help you get more donations.

[–]reatest [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

I hope that someday you can look back at all the good times with your children and not feel an overwhelming amount of sorrow. I hope you can find strength and hope and peace when you need it most.

[–]Vote4PresidentTrump [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

uhh.. id this for real.. your wife murdered your two kids?!