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I still see this here occasionally, guys explaining themselves. It’s time to bury this six feet under once and for all.
YOU DON’T EXPLAIN YOURSELF.
People ask you, the typical rhetorical questions: Why don’t you get married? Why do you stay single? Aren’t you afraid of being alone? Why don’t you date? Why do you hate women? Did you get hurt in the past?
And even here in this place, you still see guys responding to such questions as if we’re the ones who has got to do the explaining. How, I don’t get married because the system right now is toxic, the courts are biased, or I don’t hate women because I love women, just not the bad ones. Save your breathe. All you’re doing is making it seem as if you’re the wrong one. You’re not.
You simply don’t answer those questions. You just don’t. The people who ask these stupid questions, they’re the ones who have to explain. They’re the ones who should be telling you, why you should be doing those things in the first place.
Why don’t I get married? How about you sell me marriage? Why should I get married in the first fucking place?
Why do I hate women? How about you tell me why I shouldn’t hate women, with all the information out there?
Why are you MGTOW? The fuck? MGTOW is the default state of a man. It’s what we are, in our most natural, basic, spiritual state. Again, you are the one, who has to explain, and sell me the idea, of why I should leave MGTOW and do your cute little way of life, not the other way around. I don’t have to explain shit to you.
They’re the salesmen, selling marriage and women, not us. We don’t have to sell MGTOW, it’s the default position. And a salesman doesn’t ask, why aren’t you buying this, no, they’re explaining to you, why you should be buying this because of this and this, that’s the way it should be. You have it all twisted.
So what do you do? You give him 5 seconds to sell you their stupid product, then you slam the door on his fucking face, and you go about your day.
Don’t let them come to your door and make YOU explain yourself.
YOU DON’T EXPLAIN YOURSELF.
Epic.
They’re the salesmen, selling marriage and women
… and they aren’t very good at it either.
Make America Thin Again. And diaper a liberal today.THE PATHWAY TO MY FRONT DOOR IS CHAINED WITH A LOCK. I DON’T GET ANY VISITORS, I LIKE IT THAT WAY. CALL ME ANTI-SOCIAL BUT THAT’S ME. IT MAKES ME HAPPY 🙂
LILITH IS THE HEAD SUCCUBUS AND SHE LIVES ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON
hey man you’re back, long time no see…
And even here in this place, you still see guys responding to such questions as if we’re the ones who has got to do the explaining. How, I don’t get married because the system right now is toxic, the courts are biased, or I don’t hate women because I love women, just not the bad ones. Save your breathe.
Well yes, that’ll be the best timing for the cue of “the empty chair” right there…
Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC
I totally agree, and I dare to add something else, stop giving them your informations/ideas. Women will use those against you or will simply spread those around to random people, and you will be seen as a creep or anything else in a mind of a bluepill/mangina/cunt.
Don’t give ’em a flying fuck, answer with questions, answer with bullshit cooked for the best morons and see how they react.
“How much do you make per year?”
“It depends on the quantity that I sell each year”
“What do you sell?”
“I sell stuff”
“What stuff?”
“Hugh Mungus wot?”They will see you as a closed book, and they can spend all day long wondering why you are closed, in the meanwhile you are having fun doing your stuff, and they are wasting their time.
Life is 5% what happens to you and 95% how you react to it.
Great advice.
Key is to see it coming, anticipate.
“Triggers” like: “Why………..” should sound the Klaxon."It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."
Great advice.
Key is to see it coming, anticipate.
“Triggers” like: “Why………..” should sound the Klaxon.Anything that ends with question mark triggers me.
I learned a trick from the movie zootopoia (I know a kids movie). The fox schools the rabbit to answer a different question. So when she shit tests you. ‘Did I upset you?’ You answer, “of course not your hair looks great” or “yes, when I get rid of this headache.” It’s amusing.http://changingminds.org/techniques/questioning/dodging_question.htm
If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.
Anything that ends with question mark
When anyone wants to provoke, question or get you to explain yourself, there are 4 very effective replies to always have at the ready:
• “That’s interesting. Why would you ASK that?”
• “That’s interesting. Why would you SAY that?”
• “That’s interesting. Why would you DO that?”
• “That’s interesting. Why would you THINK that?”Without answering them, you will be amazed what will be reflected back to you….. and they do ALL the work. They tried to make it about you, but if you flip it, it ends up being all about them while you reveal nothing.
Make America Thin Again. And diaper a liberal today.that’s goddamn right. in a conversation, the one asking the questions is in control. if you’re explaining yourself, you’re answering a question. Instead, ask a question back. you explain yourself to me.
I bathe in the tears of single moms.
Well said, man. I’d hate to be the person who provoked this. They’re probably lying in an ice bath in a burn unit somewhere right about now.
You make a great point. Explaining to these people won’t do any good. I think a lot of guys do it so others will understand. However, the people that ask these questions don’t care. They’ve already made up their minds about you. They’ve formulated this idea of you in their head, and they want you to scramble to prove them wrong. You don’t need to explain shit because you didn’t do anything wrong. And even if you do explain then that means you’re mansplaining so who gives a fuck?
You don’t owe them an explanation. These people are so dogmatic, that they won’t even entertain another point of view, they’ll just blindly follow what they’re told. The fact that they don’t even know is reason enough not to answer. MGTOWs don’t care, and most of us don’t even feel the need to explain why because it should be pretty fucking obvious why if you have two brain cells to rub together.
Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.
THE PATHWAY TO MY FRONT DOOR IS CHAINED WITH A LOCK. I DON’T GET ANY VISITORS, I LIKE IT THAT WAY. CALL ME ANTI-SOCIAL BUT THAT’S ME. IT MAKES ME HAPPY
I like that
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