Throwaway because I can't risk my livelihood being associated with this sub. Long time lurker and long time of going my own way, never looking for a relationship. Mostly avoided women in my 20s. But now I need your advice. I met this girl with two bachelors, in math and biology. She's working on a PhD now and she's hot as hell. She doesn't dress or act like it- it's a beauty she tries to downplay but it isn't subtle, there's no hiding it. Piercing green eyes, olive skin, thin frame, long dark hair. She's got social anxiety and some other issues but that just makes her more relatable to me. She doesn't even realize how beautiful and interesting she is. She's so insecure, and doesn't really socialize often. She's stepping out of her comfort zone to spend time with me but I can see her opening up with every date. She mostly just asks me questions, and doesn't take time to talk about herself unless I push her to. She's supportive, and really compassionate. She wants to take me to this animal sanctuary she volunteers at next weekend. She likes hiking, is well-read, and avoids social media. I was MGTOW. I am. I think. But I'm really falling for her. I feel lucky I met her. But then this sub comes to mind and I get worried. Aren't women just people like men? We're just human. I mean there are lots of men I wouldn't waste time on befriending. There are lots of women I wouldn't waste time on either. But I love her company and have feelings for her. I mean isn't it a little silly to say AWALT? There are billions of women on this planet. Why deprive myself of a woman who is genuinely enriching my life, contributing to my wellbeing? We've admitted we have feelings for each other. We kissed last night. It was magic. She sent me this email about how special I am and how happy I make her. How she wants to grow with me and how much she respects me. I'm seeing her tomorrow and I feel like I've stepped into someone else's life. I never thought this would happen for me. But I do want to listen to you men. You take it a little far sometimes but make good points too. Please help me understand what's happening right now. Thank you.