No one will love you more than you love yourself.

Now what does that mean and how did I come to this conclusion?

Well in my opinion no one in this world will love you forever. Not your mom, dad, siblings, extended family, etc. Only you can provide the love you desire for yourself. I'm talking about hobbies that you enjoy, food that is absolutely amazing, trips to places for yourself around the world, things you want like that nice car or awesome house. No one else will ever provide that for you. Not a single person in your life will provide those things. No single person will love you unconditionally. Everyone has an agenda. Remember that. Everyone is after something.

Now how I came to this conclusion? Well like all if not most of you I have been burned by the women in my life. Now I'm actually quite young as I'm only 19 but that doesn't mean I don't relate to you all. I went through a difficult LTR where it felt like I was dating her, her older sister and their mom. So you can imagine what a shit show that was. Hindsight is twenty twenty but the red flag is that there was no father/ man of the house. I dated a girl from a broken family but honestly before this girl I had dated two other girls who were from broken families. So in total I had dated three girls who came from broken families. Long story short they all ended up cheating on me. I seriously went from girl to girl and they all cheated on me. The first one was because of a chad during highschool. The next one was the sort of ex who she was still in contact with. The last one was actually a virgin(she bled all over the damn bed the first time I put it in) . But this girl I took a bit too seriously and she ended up cheating on me with a guy who looked like a fat gorilla. Now in just a little over a months time I'll be twenty. Here is where I am in life. I have a good paying job where I work 2 weeks straight then I'm off for 2 weeks so I basically work 6 months out of the year. I recently bought a new car. I still live at home but I pay no rent becuase I come from an Asian culture where family philosophy is to make sure the kids are more successful than the parents. When I told my parents I didn't want to be married they couldn't understand where I was coming from after all my parents have been married for 20 years my grand parents are going on 40 years of marriage. It's just not heard of in the culture where I'm from. But then they did research on why I would say that and common-law in Canada takes effect in 3 months of living together. 3 fucking months. For all my friends in America common law is basically marriage in the eyes of the law here in Canada. So yes if I ever let a bitch live with me for three months and I couldnt prove she was a renter or something half of my stuff goes to her.

Incidentally I lucked out I have low expenditures and I'm saving for the future and putting money away to be used on stocks. I'm glad that I stumbled upon this sub reddit when I did. I don't want kids, I don't want women to suck up all my time and money just for their needs. I want to be able to live life the way I want and I'm well on my way there.

TLDR; Fuck off bitches, I'm getting money