Hey guys. I wanted to share with you the manifestations of female manipulation that I perceive in my own life. What a lot of MGTOW say about women is contradicted by my own life experiences. Namely, that women in their early 20's love to constantly go out on dates with random men they aren't even attracted to in order to enjoy being pampered. This might or might not be true overall, but it is not what I see in my anecdotal experience. Hopefully you guys find this interesting.
The women my around my age (21) don't appear to want to go out on dates with men at all. And before you ask, no, it's not that they just don't want to go out on dates with me. I am not a TFL guy. That is, I'm not a fat, lazy, unintelligent, uncharismatic dork. I don't mean to brag, just being real with you here. Even if I was, though, they would ostensibly still want to manipulate me into thinking that they like me so that I would go out with them and buy them things. Moreover, I don't feel that my experience is an isolated one. Whenever I look around when I'm at public places that men and women would normally go to date, I NEVER see people my own age there. I don't even see men and women holding hands while walking around. In fact, it's rare for me to notice a man and a woman talking to each other at all on my college campus.
So in other words, there's no resource extraction going on here whatsoever. At least, not any extraction of the tangible kind.
Instead, they extract attention. Women will flirt with me, give me their number/request that I add them on facebook so that we can "communicate and set up a time to hang out". When I eventually contact them, they ignore my messages completely.
What I think is going on here is that they enjoy sitting there watching a man's messages roll in over and over again, knowing that there is someone out there who wants to spend time with them. It's kind of an ego boost in this way. They have no interest in actually meeting up, ever.
But why not go out on the date, even if she doesn't like me, just to sit there and be showered with even more attention, affection, and get some free stuff out of it at the same time? Surely this is a more effective way to get attention, right?
Wrong. If she goes out on a date with one guy, she's limiting herself from receiving affection from a host of other potential guys. She'd rather stay at home with her iphone in her lap and watch her screen light up with messages from many guys at the same time. Technology had provided an extremely concentrated, efficient way of injecting ego boosts into her body. It's like heroin. Enjoying the attention and desire of one man at a time isn't enough anymore.
Looking for further proof? Women have been using dating sites in the same way for quite a while now. They sit there and passively receive tons of male attention without even having to reply to any messages. It's as if knowing there are dozens, or even hundreds of men out there who would be happy to have her company is more fulfilling somehow.
Personally, I think this is utterly pathetic. It really goes to show you just how fragile women's egos are. They need constant validation from men in this way. You know, I find it ironic that they love to accuse good men of being needy. They like it when we're needy because they love knowing we want them more than we actually want them. When they accuse us of being needy, all they're doing is projecting. They'd rather receive impersonal, electronic affection in small quantities, but from so many men at once that it adds up to more attention overall.
The fact that most women my age are like this has really turned me off to dating even more. I just can't respect someone that pathetic and needy and fragile. I mean, I'm not even going out on dates with these women and they're already trying to make it all about themselves.
I tell you all about this because I find it really interesting that some women (in the very least, women around me personally) have shifted from being all about extracting resources to all about extracting attention.
The fucking hilarious part is that they're making more men MGTOW because dudes are like "damn wtf I guess chicks don't like dating anymore, so I'll make my life about myself instead." Stop giving guys a reward for showing attention and they're going to stop showing it completely. In other words, this strategy will backfire in a glorious way. It really highlights the dysfunction, shallowness, and unhealthiness of the female value system.
I think this also demonstrates how much of a rift there is between men and women (at least, the way I see it). As far as I can tell, men and women interacting "IRL" is a thing of the past.
Anyways, that's pretty much it. Let me know what you think and please tell me if you've experienced the same thing. Hell, even tell me if you haven't.
EDIT: I'm not entirely sure, and I think I have less evidence to back this up, but I suspect that there is another component to their motivations to do this. Namely, they enjoying knowing that there are men out there who want her but can't have her. If this is true, then that's pathetic on so many levels at once. It's like bumping into someone on the sidewalk and gloating because you "kicked their ass". Guess they haven't figured out yet that they can screw men over far worse by getting married and then divorcing them.
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