I keep getting told the same thing, " I feel like I have to do whatever you say or want or else you won't want to be around me and it's hard. You won't change your mind about anything and it doesn't faze you when I express my frustration. "

Last time a girl said this to me, she ended up ghosting me to try and hook up with my friend who is the type to sit and listen to her problems and be nice all day. She eventually tried to come back but I wasn't having it. I'm wondering why I keep hearing this statement and what can I do to fix it if it's an actual problem. The girls seem very disappointed and upset when they tell me this .