One of the early realizations I had long before TRP and MGTOW was that telling the truth to women doesn’t work. My entire young life I had been told that if I liked a girl I should just ask her out. What’s the worst that can happen, she says no? It seems reasonable advice, along with “just be yourself”. It’s easy and it avoids any real talk about sexual strategy which could get uncomfortable or worse, hurt somebody's feelings! The truth is asking a girl out to find out if she likes you is the last thing you should do. The truth is if she liked you, you wouldn’t have to ask. The truth is, she probably doesn’t.

Chad doesn’t have to ask. He’s had girls throwing themselves at him since 8th grade. While he was fucking Megan freshman year, her best friend Erin was texting him nudes, and Casey and Sheila were blowing him when he was at his mom’s for the summer. This is the bitter truth that most guys aren’t willing to accept, that the number of women you’ll get to sleep with in your life was already decided before you were born. Are there things you can do to beat that curve? Sure, your best bet being diet and exercise. Looks, height, wealth and status are basically a roll of the dice, but anyone can get a desirable body. Ultimately, however, your number of sexual partners is still fixed. Chad is going to hit triple digits, you and I will be lucky to make double.

In addition to looks and status, women want what other women have. By asking a girl out, you are offering yourself to her. It’s actually the worst thing you can do, because now she has you, and she doesn’t want what she has. She wants what her best friend has. It’s why all those trashy romance novels they devour are full of endless reasons why the protagonists can’t be together. Why the studly farmhand is infinitely more desirable than the dull esquire. Bella and Edward. Ross and Rachel. Women like things complicated. They are incapable of entertaining themselves so they seek drama.

This is also why it is so dangerous to date for guys like us. Chad has a much larger pool of potential wife material to choose from. The odds are better for him that somewhere in the parade of cumsluts that has been jumping his bones since he was 12 is one he can risk his health, wealth and freedom for the sake of marriage and children. The rest of us have to make do with the slow trickle of soft sixes that make an effort to compensate for their looks by being tolerable personality-wise. Of course, modern feminism has turned those women hateful and even then an endless stream of betas are willing to enslave themselves just for a whiff of pussy.

I can’t for the life of me remember successfully pursuing a woman. Every relationship or sexual encounter I’ve had has come from being aggressively pursued myself. Two or three in high school, maybe a half-dozen in college and a few since then as my hormones have slowed. All girls that sought me out. Came up to me at a party. Got my number.

Chad himself will be the first to tell you it’s not all it’s cracked up to be. Remember, Chad isn’t your enemy, he was just dealt a better hand. He might end up with kids he doesn’t want, greater chances of contracting STDs, even divorce rape and false allegations. Just as his chances of finding a unicorn are better, so are his chances of pulling a vindictive bitch that puts all the other vindictive bitches to shame.

For you and I, the trick is to remember that you are the prize. You are the one being pursed. And while social hierarchy means that you aren’t going to get as much sex as you would like, at least you can avoid humiliating yourself by chasing something that wasn’t there in the first place. Accepting this is the key to MGTOW.