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[–]BellaScarletta 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

  • I'm really excited Trump and Ivanka's childcare policy doesn't extend to men, talk about a great way to fiscally encourage reverting to traditional domestic dynamics.

  • Privileged white males are yum. After this whole election fiasco I've started endearingly referring to R as my privileged white male scum.

  • Having kids after 35 is borderline irresponsible. The potential for health problems rise and the older the parents the worse of a position the kid will be in growing up, and be preventably forced to deal with their parents mortality too young.

  • What a rape victim was wearing, or how much they drank, etc does matter. If I'm robbed but you found out I left my purse open lying in the middle of the road...that changes things. It doesn't make me less of a victim or the perpetrator less of a criminal, but it does matter. Saying rape just shouldn't happen is like saying some people shouldn't be born bad or people shouldn't do immoral things. Humans will always do immoral things and there will always be bad people in the world. Have a sense of personal responsibility.

  • Women shouldn't be in the workforce in the numbers we are now. Women should also not be prevented from entering the workforce, as that would deprive our country of many brilliant minds. But the economy has grown too reliant on double incomes and if we were permitted to leave the workforce if we want to, men's incomes might actually hit a sustainable equilibrium to keep women who want to be in the home with family exactly there (see bullet point number one).

Edit:

  • Being an overweight parent who passes their nutritionally devoid habits onto their kids is just as bad or worse than exposing them to second hand smoke.

  • YOUR N-COUNT EFFING MATTERS. It does. Shut up anyone who says it doesn't, just shut up.

Edit: Omg where my salty bitches at? Don't leave me alone in my unpopularlness guiz!

[–]FlapjackUniverse 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

humans shouldn't be born bad

God almighty. Clarification please?

[–]Littleknownfacts 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Some people are empirically better than others. Everyone wants to buy into this normalizing statement that we are just so different you can't compare two individuals. I do believe most people are doing the best they can with what they have, but if someone has more or does more with what they do have, it makes them better. No it's not fair. Sorry not sorry.

[–]tintedlipbalm 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

I don't think antisemitism is a big deal.

[–]sunfloweriesLate 20s / Engaged / 3 Years 1ポイント2ポイント  (3子コメント)

I think oatmeal raisin cookies are awesome and I am disappointed when there are chocolate chips instead.

I think most of today's "introverts" are just whiny self-important brats who think being quiet and reserved makes them "special" and "unique." Oh wah wah, little baby, you like books and tea? So do I. You don't like making phone calls or having unexpected guests or too much social interaction? Neither do most of the rest of us, but we don't craft an entire pathetic identity around how fragile we are. There's a difference between needing some alone time to "recharge" and being such a whiny little baby that you can't handle social interaction for more than 5 minutes.

Most babies aren't cute -- it's the little baby clothes that make them cute.

Pirating books makes you an asshole.

[–]tintedlipbalm 2ポイント3ポイント  (2子コメント)

I think most of today's "introverts" are just whiny self-important brats who think being quiet and reserved makes them "special" and "unique."

Yes!!! I think it's because of 'relatable' comics and new media putting introverts above extroverts in some way. And it extends to the 'not like other girls' introverted girl, who thinks she has substance and other girls don't, and she has to be liked for it.

Pirating books makes you an asshole.

hmm

[–]sunfloweriesLate 20s / Engaged / 3 Years 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

My favorite response to those dumb comics is always "Sorry, as an extrovert I was too busy snorting cocaine and screaming in everyone's faces to read this non-extroverted comic. Can you translate that for me?"

[–]BellaScarletta 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Pirating books makes you an asshole.

hmm

brb laughing too hard

[–]swift-heart 1ポイント2ポイント  (3子コメント)

  • i hate pinterest. the layout of it is so ugly.
  • halloween is my least favorite holiday, i usually don't celebrate it at all.
  • i don't believe in astrology
  • food porn is mostly unappetizing to me.
  • i would never spend thousands of dollars on a wedding.
  • i'm approaching the wall and still have zero desire to have a kid.

[–]mabeolMid 20s, LTR <1 year 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

halloween is my least favorite holiday, i usually don't celebrate it at all.

Girl, preach.

[–]BellaScarletta 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

At least you know your opinions are unpopular.....but I'm upset.

[–]tintedlipbalm 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Pinterest is so roundabout and bulky I agree! I have not succeeded in making it a habit, but I do appreciate it for at least keeping my online recipes together somewhere.

i would never spend thousands of dollars on a wedding.

Preach! I don't think I would enjoy myself at all in that whole ritual. Seems weddings are for other people.

[–]littleeggwyfEarly 30s, Married, 9 years total 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

Ok, mine:

  • I think natural birth and breastfeeding are way overrated and promoted for the wrong reasons sometimes

  • I hate the idea of inheritance tax, and think it's really unfair

  • I ask my husband how to vote,

  • like u/bellascarletta said about rape circumstances. I don't think we have a rape culture, we have a alcoholic and slutty culture

  • my husband is head of the house (I know, this is kinda given here!)

  • Some people are just born bad, and won't change

  • society benefits from traditional family structures and places where that is the norm are safer and more friendly

  • single-gender and ability-streamed schooling is good for children academically and probably socially

[–]sunfloweriesLate 20s / Engaged / 3 Years 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I asked my partner how to vote on a few things too, actually. There's some weird language involved and I'm always afraid I'm going to vote for the "wrong" thing.

[–]Sunhappy_DC 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

  • There is this gross and bougie undercurrent of thought among some in the female RP universe where women are moralizing female nature and saying there is a CORRECT way to behave as a woman and I believe that is totally not the point of RP. The point is to understand male/female nature and then LIVE based on how YOU want to live within that understanding and accept what comes out of that understanding of human nature. Everything else is opinion and a lot of it appears to be cosplay. History shows women doing whatever they wanted within the context of the world they lived in and until feminism, it didn't take away from them being WOMEN. Maybe it took away from them being society ladies, but if they gave no fucks, then neither did the world.

  • Most progressives are racists with a savior complex.

  • Most conservatives romanticize history.

[–]tintedlipbalm 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Agreed with all points. I think the first point is heavily influenced by mixing it with religion though. Generally speaking, if RP is seen as a path, women's optimal path is very restrictive.

[–]hostwithmost 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

  • After the age of 23-26, if you cannot establish healthy boundaries with family members or friends, it says a lot more about you than them.

  • After any traumatic experience, everyone gets a short time to lick their wounds but you should be able to find resilience without falling into unhealthy habits.

  • Needing to talk some things out with trusted close ones and seeking guidance is healthy. Needing to do so repeatedly without heeding advice is attention seeking.

  • It is cruel to blame having a family and children for not achieving your dreams, even if its only said in jest or as bonding mechanism.

  • In most cultures, women's conduct is kept a close eye on because we are good at getting what we want and we are easier to take advantage of. For example, if you could sneak out in high school to attend parties or whatever and now you need society's to help you gain same footing as men, its because your priorities were skewed. It is to say, if you weren't kept in check by one rule then you shouldn't place all blame in the other rule for how your life turned out.

  • The most traumatic experience in life is not rape or cultural disenfranchisement, it's losing your children to war, drugs or violence.

  • We should be playing an active role to take care of the aged and children alike.