WARNING: RANT emotions still running.

She hasn't had a job in 15 years, my Dad paid for a tummy tuck for her, holidays, paid for mine and my brothers education, now she cheats and they are getting a divorce. My Dad should have split from her years ago, if not to save himself but my brothers too.

My Dads family, my Mums brother have all turned on her when they found out.

Throughout my life my mum has had drinking problems because of a rough childhood and has had to be taken care of all her life. I remember her trying to kill herself when I was 13, I remember cleaning sick off of her bedsheets, being home alone while my older brothers moved out and my Dad worked himself half to death to pay off debts. I missed out of a good part of my teen years because this helpless woman was always sick with mental heath issues and I had to take care of the house.

My Mum came to my house and lied my me and my brothers faces saying she "Has had trouble sleeping because of marriage issues" When in reality her brother found out she has been cheating and told her to come clean or he will tell my dad. I can't thank my uncle enough for all he has done for my dad. My Mum wont speak to him now, because he called her out on facebook and replied to her after she said she was "free". He said "You're only "free" because you were caught." She deleted him, rang him and shouted. Now they arent speaking.

I'm 28, I own my own house and car and have a good job. I see my friends every month / other week to go pub crawling and have a good time. I don't need this shit. Every woman I have started a relationship with ended quickly because they were fucking crazy.

Some people cannot change. No matter how hard you try. They need to be carried everywhere like a sack of potatoes. They don't want to help themselves because it is easier to rely on someone else and go through life with not having to face any consequences to your actions. I tried so hard to change things, to help her, we all did but it didn't do jack. The money spent, the years, everything feels like a waste. Now she is choosing to drink again, cheat and spread shit about my dad while trying to remind me of how she gave birth to me and took care of me while I was a little boy. There comes a point where you just can't keep it up and have to give up on your own mother because she just doesn't want to be healthy, to change or make people happy. She wants to live in her own fantasy land where everything is okay and wonderful and nothing she does is wrong. I'm done.

Yesterday I told her that if she goes after my Dads pension, I am not speaking to her again, but you know what? I think I wont anyway, because why should I?

I'm done trying. I don't know if it's women in general but I just want her and other women to leave me and my things alone.