I think that negativity comes from a lot of us feeling burned by the status quo. There's a lot of good decent men here who gave it their all only to be turned down, rejected, taken advantage of, betrayed, the list goes on and on. Yes we are angry, yes we are sad, yes it is a negative mindset. Because all we've faced and dealt with is just an endless trove of negativity caused by our own environments.

The fact that MGTOW is a global community at this point only goes to show how this sick environment has spread everywhere. With men the world over just reaching the point of fuck it. Choosing to face that sick environment and do something about it. The truth of the matter is that going your own way is unbelievably selfish, but that selfishness is necessary because the only other choice is enslavement and torture to the whims of a creature who sees you as nothing but resources and is willing to horrifically manipulate you in order to get them, only to toss you away to the side of the road the second you don't perform.

Yes it's negative, what you choose to do with that negativity is where the positive comes from it. For me it's activity, I put all that pissed off aggression into myself. Lift heavy, run far, build cars, ride bikes, woodwork. Anything to keep me in that frame of mind where that "blue pill weakness" is no longer allowed. I am alone a lot of the time, I do feel sad that I couldn't find that unicorn. But that's the issue, the unicorn is a unicorn. She doesn't exist, so settling for some bullshit lie is just as negative to me.