Wife and I are 20 years in. Mid 40s. Her Smv and mine are similar.
I've read side bar. I am losing weight, half way to my goal of 50 lbs weight loss. I'm as light as she's ever known me.
Sex has been hit and miss. I don't initiate a ton, I have about a 60% success rate. I feel like I'm kind of in monk mode right now.
She recently had a medical issue that she's not fully recovered from and has been depressed about it for two months. I do my best to be a cheerleader but it's her battle. It won't limit her unless she lets it. She's going to let it. Already poo pooing certain ideas (dune buggies..shit like that)
So we are heading on a long weekend out of town next weekend (Vegas). In my mind I'm thinking we are going to be fucking like rabbits. My mind is running away with scenarios and such. I want to dominate her but any time I push her limits she starts giggling or gets mad.
I want to have fun on vacation. I really do but I feel my I am setting up covert contracts left and right here. How do i defend against that? I mean she's going to be dtf but I highly doubt it's going to be as awesome as it is in my mind.
I suggested she buy some lingerie for the trip yesterday and she went off on some tangent about wasting money and all that shit. I was like wtf? Wasting money? We are going to place where a dinner can set you back a couple hunny. I'm going to be betting $50 hands o blackjack and you are worried about spending some money on lingerie? Fuck it's costing $2000 just for air fare and hotel.
I don't know what I'm asking really. How do I not end this thing disappointed? I can feel it just being a big dud based on her mindset and where I am at in my map (about halfway to where I want to be financially and physically).
We haven't been on a vacation like this since about 2008. I think she's thinking cocktails by the pool and gondolas at the Venetian and I'm thinking 69 for breakfast every morning and Visiting the Histler sex shop the first evening. I'm pretty sure we have different facials in mind as well.
How do I navigate this trip? Seems like the table is set for steak and she's thinking Chicken noodle soup.
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